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How You Can Overcome the Tyrants and the Liars and the Abusers with Passion and Integrity

1 h 24 min · 25. touko 2026
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Hello Everyone! This was another delightful conversation with Margaret Williams, MS, ACC [https://substack.com/profile/12044824-margaret-williams-ms-acc] and Letters from a Feminist [https://substack.com/profile/436405643-letters-from-a-feminist]. I always feed off of Margaret’s energy and I always leave my conversations with her feeling empowered and renewed. Early on in this conversation, I was discussing how government spending gets inflated when it’s distributed to preferred contractors (who are often related to the guy handing out the contracts). I misspoke and said “union.” I want to make clear that I am pro-union because those organizations make sure the people who do the work actually get paid. My issue is with expenses that get inflated to enrich certain privileged and abusive people. I corrected myself in the moment, but I wanted to underscore that concept. After a little while, Zulfina joined us and she’s delightful as always. Be sure to subscribe to these fine ladies. Thank you Ms.Yuse [https://substack.com/profile/322112054-msyuse], Sandra [https://substack.com/profile/18011536-sandra], John Delaney [https://substack.com/profile/281157919-john-delaney], NeuroDivergent Hodgepodge [https://substack.com/profile/290170277-neurodivergent-hodgepodge], David A Henry [https://substack.com/profile/311936866-david-a-henry], and many others for tuning into my live video with Margaret Williams, MS, ACC [https://substack.com/profile/12044824-margaret-williams-ms-acc] and Letters from a Feminist [https://substack.com/profile/436405643-letters-from-a-feminist]! Join me for my next live video in the app. Thanks for your support: 30% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/b66e5c2e] 💙 40% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/01f1b0e8] 💙 50% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/0d3e6643] 💙 60% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/6a8f4788] I'd Rather Be Writing is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to I'd Rather Be Writing at walterrhein.substack.com/subscribe [https://walterrhein.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

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The Drunk, Loser English Teacher Who Hated Me With Every Fiber of His Being

You all make this newsletter happen! I don’t use paywalls because I don’t believe in restricting knowledge. Your sponsorships keep me going and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Or choose from any of these coupons which are good forever: Thanks for your support: 30% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/b66e5c2e] 💙 40% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/01f1b0e8] 💙 50% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/0d3e6643] 💙 60% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/6a8f4788] Grady told me about Mr. Ambrose. He had him for forensics. I didn’t take forensics because I despised school. I wasn’t about to sign up for any activity that forced me to linger around that loathsome place. I wanted to go home, watch Transformers or Thundarr, read books, and talk to the dog. But Grady took forensics and he was good at it, good enough to go to state. State was an overnight trip. Grady told me how they’d all stayed in a hotel and somebody set off the fire alarm at 2 am. Knowing Grady, it was probably Grady, but he didn’t admit it. Though his eyes twinkled when he told the story. The whole class assembled in the parking lot and as they awaited the arrival of the fire trucks, Mr. Ambrose came stumbling out of the hotel. He had a body like a bowling pin. He was all disheveled and clearly drunk. He found his students, pointed at them, and gurgled, “Go back inside, go to bed.” Then he turned around and returned to the presumably burning building. Grady could only laugh as he told this story. Anyway, the firemen eventually put the building out, Mr. Ambrose slept through it, and the kids went back inside. I don’t remember how well Grady did at state. It was probably pretty well, he was good at things like that. Mr. Ambrose was either our 10th or 11th grade English teacher. I can’t remember which, though I do remember I was coming into my power in that class. I also remember that Mr. Ambrose hated me from day one, probably because I was challenging him. Damn right I was challenging him. I was challenging him to be a better teacher. Long ago I’d given up on waiting for some a*****e authority figure to dictate how I should feel about myself. If they wanted to hold me to a standard, I’d damn well do the same thing for them. “Teach us Mr. Ambrose!” I scowled. “How dare you!” he replied. We did this through hostile staring matches. Teachers could never punish me because my rebellion came in the form of demanding that they actually do their job. “Let’s have harder books! Let’s have more challenging lessons! Show us what you got!” Of course, I was about the only one in the class that cared about my grade, so when the teachers tried to get me by making the exams harder, it just proved the gap that existed between me and the other students. Well, everyone but Grady, that guy was a savant, especially at math. I couldn’t touch him at math. He went on to get put in charge of the missile defense of the entire Western seaboard, I’m not joking. One time Mr. Ambrose forced us all to bring in a story to read. That was no problem at all for me because I could read. But some of the other students were terrified. I remember a couple of the boys from the football team brought in Dr. Seuss. They thought it was hilarious to read ‘Green Eggs and Ham.’ They did their best to laugh all the way through, but I could tell that even they were bored at the end. I brought in a selection from ‘Dirk Gently’s Holistic Detective Agency’ by Douglas Adams. It was the part where they find a horse in the bathroom. I got the class to pay attention, they even laughed at the discovery of the horse. I was good at reading, I did things like add in dramatic pauses and change the volume of my voice. All of that really pissed off Mr. Ambrose, probably because he couldn’t get the class to listen to any of the s**t he tried to read. After that, I stopped trying. If he was going to be a jerk, I’d be a jerk too. I’d tried passive defiance, let’s see how he’d like open defiance. The next assignment was to give a lecture on directions. Most of the students decided to explain how to get to their houses. “Go down state street, take a left onto Elm street, then take a right on Pine street, go until you find house 126 on the left.” Yawn. “Walter; it’s your turn,” Mr. Ambrose said. I sauntered up to the front of the class, grabbed a piece of chalk, drew a big circle. “This is the Earth,” I said. A few people giggled. “Walter, what are you doing?” “I’m going to tell you how to get to the moon,” I said. Mr. Ambrose’s eyes narrowed. Screw him. “Here’s the moon,” I said. “It’s far away. We’re here.” I tapped the circle with the chalk. “Now, the key is that you have to achieve escape velocity, that’s how you escape the Earth’s gravitational pull. Once you get approximately halfway to the moon, you can rely on the moon’s gravitational pull to assist in the completion of the journey.” Once again the class was actually engaged with my talk. Once again it only appeared to be defiant. I actually fulfilled every parameter of the assignment. There was no parameter that stated the lecture had to be boring and miserable and everyone in the class had to hate it. Mr. Ambrose just added that in himself, probably because he was irritated he was required to be sober when he taught. Screw him. For the most part, he just sat in the back of the room like a toadstool. He looked like Gargamel from the Smurfs. He had a big round red nose like W.C. Fields. “For your next assignment,” he said, “I want you to write a short story.” What was with these assignments? Did he have some big book of random English assignments for indifferent teachers who’d rather be drunk? I didn’t mind having to write a story. I’d already had a story published in the High School Writer. I was the first kid in my class to get a story published there, though a few of them followed me. Writing a story was no big deal. The jerk wanted a story, fine, I’d give him a story. I got to work. I can’t remember if I wrote the story by hand, or if I just composed it on the typewriter. I probably wrote it by hand. Yes, this was in the era of computers, but the printers were garbage back then. They were dot matrix and you had to buy this special paper with holes in the sides so that the machine could feed it through. It was ridiculous. My father had this fancy typewriter made by IBM. It was jet black and so solid you could tell it must have been super expensive. It didn’t have those little teeth that left the imprints of each letter and which could get jammed up against each other. This one had a ball with all the letters on it. When you hit a key, it whirled around and hit the paper so fast you could barely see it. There were no jams. The best part was turning it on, it just sat there humming like it was gathering up electricity to launch a lighting strike like a wizard. Really, this assignment just gave me an excuse to use that bad ass typewriter. To be honest, I did a pretty crappy job of typing the story out. I made all kinds of mistakes and I wasn’t very good at using the white out. Plus, the white out I had was a different color than the paper. For some reason I had this weird yellow paper. Every time I made a mistake, I blotted out the mistake, but then I couldn’t get the paper back to where it had been so the line of letters was off. It looked awful. But no matter how awful the typing was, it was a million times better than my horrific handwriting. The only person who could read my handwriting was Grady. Not even I can read my handwriting. He probably would have been willing to go over to Mr. Ambrose’s house and read him my composition as long as the two of them could have gotten drunk together, but I wasn’t about to subject Grady to that. Besides, firing up that typewriter was like the writer equivalent of taking out a sports car for a joyride. Only writers understand why that last line is funny. I finished my story and turned it in. In those days, we turned in our assignments by handing them to the person in front of us who then passed it forward. He looked at my offering and said, “You typed it?” “Yeah.” “Why?” “Because I can type faster than I can write.” This was the kid who had thought it was so funny to read Dr. Seuss so I wasn’t worried about him saying anything clever. I stared him down, he shut up, and I went about my day. I knew the story was pretty good. I wasn’t worried about my grade. I knew the grade I deserved, the only thing that remained to be seen was whether Mr. Ambrose was smart enough to figure it out. A few days passed. Back then, life was a constant battle. Every day as I walked through the halls, I had to fend off all sorts of physical attacks. You had to keep an eye out for flying books or sucker punches or straight up puddles of urine on the floor. The guy who read Dr. Seuss thought it was funny to piss everywhere. I swear to god. I went to school with animals. The bell rang and I was walking down the hallway. I never ran. Screw those classes, I’d get there when I got there. I wasn’t about to sacrifice my dignity. Funny enough, I never was sent to detention the whole time I was in school. I think I graduated with only two or three demerits. Anyway, I was walking along and what do I see but Mr. Ambrose approaching me like an animated fungus drifting among the lockers. It was always dark in there, like you were looking at the world from beneath the level of the fern leaves. He saw me, semi hesitated, then continued forward. I tried not to make eye contact because screw that guy, but I tensed as I walked up because you never knew if you were about to be drawn in to a fight to the death. Perhaps this would be the moment Mr. Ambrose finally cracked and tackled you like a jungle panther. That kind of thing was known to happen. But it was quiet enough as he went by, his shoulder not quite brushing mine as we mutually pretended the other didn’t exist. I was about to relax when I sensed him stop and all at once I was on full alert again. He turned. “Walter,” he said. “God damn it,” I thought. “If this f****r wants to start some s**t I swear to god…” I looked at him, “Yes.” “Your story... ” he stuttered, then he paused. I watched his face wage a war between dozens of contrasting emotions. Finally he continued. “Your story was really good.” There was an awkward moment. I might have said thank you, or I might have just nodded at him. Then he awkwardly turned and walked away. I walked away too. I didn’t need him to tell me that the story was good. I knew I was a good damned writer. I didn’t need anyone to tell me that. What surprised me was that he would admit it. That was something new. Having somebody actually acknowledge that I’d done something well was a new experience. Why had he said that? I wonder if he’d had some sort of realization. I wonder if some part of his brain that hated everything about his life had made him aware that I was exactly the type of student he’d wished for all his life as a teacher. Perhaps if it had been a classroom full of students like me on his first day, he wouldn’t have turned into a miserable, raging, self-loathing drunk. Yet, he’d done nothing but fight with me for the whole year. After that, it got better. I got an A on my paper, but like I said, that was a reflection on Ambrose not of me. There’s nobody alive who I concede the authority to evaluate my work. Who the hell do those people think they are? The arrogance. I know what’s good. We didn’t become friends, but he stopped glaring at me. Maybe he figured out that if you let on you actually cared about learning it became a death sentence in that school. He got through it with drinking. I got through it with sarcasm. We came to a grudging understanding of each other. When somebody who likes you tells you you’re a good writer, it’s a good feeling. When somebody who hates you acknowledges your talent, the feeling is more complex. First you wonder if they’re messing with you. Then you kind of feel pity for them. Then I guess I don’t know what you feel. That was the first time I encountered that situation. I knew Mr. Ambrose was being honest because his words cost him something. Perhaps, in that moment of uncertainty in the hallway, he realized it would cost him more to remain silent. That might have been my first sincere compliment. I remember it. Thanks! Or choose from any of these coupons which are good forever: Thanks for your support: 30% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/b66e5c2e] 💙 40% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/01f1b0e8] 💙 50% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/0d3e6643] 💙 60% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/6a8f4788] I'd Rather Be Writing is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to I'd Rather Be Writing at walterrhein.substack.com/subscribe [https://walterrhein.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

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How Often Is Erectile Dysfunction Medication Abused to Facilitate Child Rape?

You all make this newsletter happen! Thanks for your sponsorship! I have payment tiers starting at as little as twenty dollars a year [https://walterrhein.substack.com/bf8564a4]. Upgrade at 30% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/b66e5c2e] Upgrade at 40% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/01f1b0e8] Upgrade at 50% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/0d3e6643] Upgrade at 60% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/6a8f4788] I’m so happy you’re here, and I’m looking forward to sharing more thoughts with you tomorrow. My CoSchedule referral link Here’s my referral link [http://coschedule.com/i/walter-rhein] to my preferred headline analyzer tool. If you sign up through this [http://coschedule.com/i/walter-rhein], it’s another way to support this newsletter (thank you). I'd Rather Be Writing is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to I'd Rather Be Writing at walterrhein.substack.com/subscribe [https://walterrhein.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

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Please Don't Blame the President's Cruelty on Mental Illness

You all make this newsletter happen! Thanks for your sponsorship! I have payment tiers starting at as little as twenty dollars a year [https://walterrhein.substack.com/bf8564a4]. Upgrade at 30% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/b66e5c2e] Upgrade at 40% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/01f1b0e8] Upgrade at 50% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/0d3e6643] Upgrade at 60% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/6a8f4788] I’m so happy you’re here, and I’m looking forward to sharing more thoughts with you tomorrow. My CoSchedule referral link Here’s my referral link [http://coschedule.com/i/walter-rhein] to my preferred headline analyzer tool. If you sign up through this [http://coschedule.com/i/walter-rhein], it’s another way to support this newsletter (thank you). I'd Rather Be Writing is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to I'd Rather Be Writing at walterrhein.substack.com/subscribe [https://walterrhein.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

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Discussing Iran, Healthcare, and the Future of Humanity With Congressional Candidate Ginger Murray

This is my second time talking with Ginger Murray [https://substack.com/profile/311149191-ginger-murray]. My mom lives in the district that she would represent and I appreciate her common sense approach to issues such as healthcare and human rights. You can learn more about her campaign here [https://www.gingerforus.com/]. If you want to contact her campaign for an interview, here’s the email: winning@gingerforuscongress.com You can follow her here: Find Frederic Poag [https://substack.com/profile/253267248-frederic-poag] here: Thank you Nick Paro [https://substack.com/profile/189675044-nick-paro], NeuroDivergent Hodgepodge [https://substack.com/profile/290170277-neurodivergent-hodgepodge], Margaret Williams, MS, ACC [https://substack.com/profile/12044824-margaret-williams-ms-acc], PJ Schuster [https://substack.com/profile/106448962-pj-schuster], the real pambo [https://substack.com/profile/63449719-the-real-pambo], and many others for tuning into my live video with Frederic Poag [https://substack.com/profile/253267248-frederic-poag], Ginger Murray [https://substack.com/profile/311149191-ginger-murray], and ginger@gingerforuscongress.com [https://substack.com/profile/441682414-gingergingerforuscongresscom]! Join me for my next live video in the app. I'd Rather Be Writing is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to I'd Rather Be Writing at walterrhein.substack.com/subscribe [https://walterrhein.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

12. kesä 20261 h 6 min
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America Is Drunk on Racism

This article is from 2023 and it’s even more obvious now. Your support is greatly appreciated! Thanks for your support: 30% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/b66e5c2e] 💙 40% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/01f1b0e8] 💙 50% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/0d3e6643] 💙 60% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/6a8f4788] A few years ago, I got news that a friend of mine, who was known for his partying, had given up drinking. Upon hearing this, it surprised me that of all the emotions I felt, I recall the distinct stab of jealousy. “Why do I feel jealous?” I wondered. If I was living the life I wanted to live, why should I feel envious of a friend who had chosen sobriety? But before I could make further progress, the familiar justifications for drinking rose up to divert me from the path of healthy self-reflection. “I need to be able to wind down in the evenings. I need a break every now and then. Drinking is a part of social settings. It’s just a few beers. I can quit whenever I want.” My internal dialogue became increasingly hostile, as if I was mad at myself for even considering there was anything I needed to change. I found myself asking why the idea of a self-evaluation provoked feelings of denial and anger? What was the mechanism at work that kept me off the path to progress and condemned me to a toxic lifestyle? More importantly, how was it possible to escape this mechanism? I did quit drinking eventually, and my life is better for it. This experience allowed me to recognize how a similar mechanism of self-deception appears whenever there is a social dialogue on the subject of racism. Racism apologists are intoxicated with their perception of our country. They deflect from any mention of racial inequality. Eventually, they become angered that you ever brought it up. The question before us now is how to stage a productive intervention that will help our society develop a true commitment to racial equality. Intoxication on racism My justifications for drinking had become a part of my personal identity. I couldn’t even ask myself whether or not I wanted to keep drinking. There was a mechanism within my thought process that compelled me to sidestep the conversation in favor of maintaining toxic behaviors. I wanted the intoxication, so I adjusted my perception of reality to justify my behavior. My feeling of jealousy was the breakthrough I needed. It helped me realize that there was a form of happiness I desired that drinking prevented me from achieving. This personal experience helped me better understand America’s intoxication with racial inequality. From its inception, the United States has failed to live up to its noble aspirations. Our cultural identity is that this is a nation of freedom, although Black people have always been denied equal freedoms. It’s intoxicating to get lost in the noble aspirations of our mythologized history. It’s sobering to recognize the many ways we’ve betrayed those aspirations. The critical element is to recognize our cultural identity must be based on achieving our stated goals for everyone, not on perpetuating the false mythology that insists our work is already done. Thanks for your support: 30% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/b66e5c2e] 💙 40% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/01f1b0e8] 💙 50% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/0d3e6643] 💙 60% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/6a8f4788] Racism and denial of its existence are major components of American cultural identity Conversations about racism in the United States are frequently derailed by the argument that any responsible action to combat injustice will encroach upon our positive sense of national identity. The truth is, adopting a sober perspective on racism is the only way all Americans will ever have access to an unobstructed pursuit of happiness. Discussing racism in America is similar to staging an intervention with a problem drinker. Racism apologists, like problem drinkers, don’t want to listen. Instead, they immediately deflect from the issue or come up with arguments to justify their behavior. * “Our country isn’t racist.” * “Why do you have to bring race into everything?” * “When you discuss racism, you’re dividing the country.” * “Discussing America’s true racial history in schools makes white kids feel uncomfortable.” * “Our Founding Fathers owned slaves, but we can’t judge the past by the morals of today.” * “Slaves learned things that benefited them later in life.” These arguments are designed to preserve a form of nationalistic intoxication, but they all quickly disintegrate under examination. “Fundamentally American” ideas that perpetuate racism The sanitized, positive mythology that we’re trained to believe about the United States only acknowledges the existence of the nation’s most noble ideals. Masses of people are conditioned to believe that America is “the land of opportunity,” that we can “boast of tremendous achievements” in our history, and that our nation is “rooted in fairness and equality.” However, it’s not hard to point to any number of examples of how our country has failed to live up to its promises. Wealth inequality Americans are fixated on the dream of acquiring an obscene amount of individual wealth for themselves. They’re so intoxicated by the promise of this idea that they resort to hostility and denial when confronted with the truth of American wealth inequality. In order to maintain the mythologized perception of America as the “land of opportunity,” it’s necessary to disregard the history of exploited labor. To this day many families [https://www.nbcnews.com/news/nbcblk/mcconnell-s-family-shows-legacy-slavery-persists-most-american-lives-n1028031] that can trace their generational wealth back to the plantation era. Exploitation did not end with the Civil War. There are countless examples of Black people getting run off their land [https://www.pbs.org/newshour/show/how-southern-black-farmers-were-forced-from-their-land-and-their-heritage], or who were denied the benefits [https://www.history.com/news/gi-bill-black-wwii-veterans-benefits] they had rightfully earned. The result of hundreds of years of discrimination is an unfair and deliberately created racial wealth gap [https://www.americanprogress.org/article/eliminating-black-white-wealth-gap-generational-challenge/] between Black and white people which has to be addressed if our nation is ever going to truly represent anything it claims to stand for. Selective interpretation of historyAmericans tend to look at their history through rose-colored glasses. There are people who insist that “all lives matter,” but then they demand a school curriculum that disregards the experience of enslaved Black people. Today, a debate rages on over whether teaching the truth about American history will make white students “feel uncomfortable [https://hechingerreport.org/opinion-why-the-narrative-that-critical-race-theory-makes-white-kids-feel-guilty-is-a-lie/].” It shouldn’t be controversial to say our national identity would be better off rooted in fact instead of fantasy. Censoring the truth about the history of American authoritarianism, the institution of slavery, Reconstruction, the Jim Crow era, etc., leaves the population vulnerable to exploitation through the use of the same tactics. We can’t allow ourselves to disregard factual history because the truth dismantles the unjust pride we feel in our national identity. A more responsible philosophy is to work to deliver on our country’s promises. That can only be achieved through acknowledging where we failed. Compliance through forceAnother aspect of the fundamental American ideology is the notion we can solve every problem with force. Growing up, if my dad couldn’t make something work, he’d hit it. Often, this resulted in irreparable damage to whatever he was working on. The US military is the most excessively funded [https://www.pgpf.org/blog/2023/04/the-united-states-spends-more-on-defense-than-the-next-10-countries-combined] military in the world. The US police force ranks as the world’s third-largest [https://boingboing.net/2021/04/20/u-s-policing-budgets-would-rank-as-the-worlds-third-highest-military-expenditure.html#:~:text=$118bn%20was%20spent%20funding,official%20armed%20forces%20and%20China%27s.] military. We put too much faith in the concept of force and I wonder if this compulsion is a result of the hostility stage that seems to arise in response to the subject of institutionalized racism. The Black community is disproportionally [https://www.nbcnews.com/news/nbcblk/report-black-people-are-still-killed-police-higher-rate-groups-rcna17169] targeted by the police and subjected to higher rates of incarceration [https://www.sentencingproject.org/reports/the-color-of-justice-racial-and-ethnic-disparity-in-state-prisons-the-sentencing-project/] than the white community. One of the most important censored lessons of history is how modern US police forces grew out of the plantation era’s slave patrols [https://naacp.org/find-resources/history-explained/origins-modern-day-policing]. These facts represent human rights violations that undermine any argument of a commitment to “fairness.” Thanks for your support: 30% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/b66e5c2e] 💙 40% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/01f1b0e8] 💙 50% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/0d3e6643] 💙 60% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/6a8f4788] Racism is not a condition for American happiness I gave up drinking not because of an intervention but due to a personal revelation. In this, as in many things, healing required a leap of faith. I discovered that alcohol deceives you into giving up control over many aspects of your life. It determines your activities. It chooses your friends. It influences how you behave in public. It becomes difficult to give up alcohol because alcohol represents everything that’s familiar. I held on to alcohol for too long because I allowed it to become part of my identity. It was difficult to think of quitting because I didn’t know what the future would look like without it. What would I do? What would I say? What about my relationships with my friends? So, I simply maintained the status quo with statements like, “It’s just a harmless drink.” The truth is, this was an excuse to distract from a reality I was too scared to confront. Alcohol is not harmless, it’s toxic. It’s not bringing you happiness, it’s the source of your depression. Many Americans have similarly conditioned themselves to dismiss the toxic influence of racial inequality because they’re intoxicated by an illusion of national identity. “It’s just a harmless comment,” they say. But the truth is that any example of racist behavior or ideology has a devastating ripple effect on our whole society. Just like one drink leads to another, one act of hate leads to another. Racism determines where we spend our national resources, it selects our allies, it corrupts our sense of justice. When we fail to confront it, we’re submitting to fear and ignorance. It’s time we recognized that the pursuit of happiness is only available to anyone if we all work to ensure the path is unobstructed for everyone. The United States of America needs an intervention Addicts are very skilled at self-deception and they take advantage of the rules of polite conversation to make sure no progress is possible. They’ll agree with you and smile to your face even though they have no intention of changing their behavior. With regard to American society, I feel there’s value in using the model of addiction intervention to inform how we approach conversations about racism. Too often in polite conversation, people are allowed to persist in personal illusions while shifting attention away from practical solutions. The tools you learn through having an intervention with an addict can be useful in this sort of interaction. It’s often called a “come-to-Jesus moment.” American society could use one. I had a personal epiphany when a moment of jealousy compelled me to reevaluate certain beliefs I’d conditioned myself never to question. This reevaluation allowed me to give up drinking. With regard to American racial inequity, a large percentage of our population has become convinced that the only way to experience the high of national pride is to disregard all the evidence of racial inequity. This creates an unfair burden on the Black community and America cannot fulfill its promise until this burden is addressed. There’s another way to feel satisfaction with our country. That way lies in working to actually make our most noble aspirations a reality. For too long, we’ve been caught in the shiny flash of a lure that compels us to labor for the promise of a deferred reward. The shiny flash is the deluding lie. We need to focus on making sure everyone, particularly the Black community, receives their promised reward. Consider what you sacrifice through a passive tolerance of institutionalized racism. What price are you forced to pay when you live in a country where injustice has been normalized? To what extent are you robbing your children of their future because you believe it’s important to maintain an idealized sense of personal and national identity? All of our children deserve more than a culture rooted in the false high of denigration, fairy tales, and brute force. They deserve a sober society capable of making responsible decisions. Let’s renew our reverence for truth and take the leap of faith together. Thanks for your support: 30% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/b66e5c2e] 💙 40% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/01f1b0e8] 💙 50% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/0d3e6643] 💙 60% off [https://walterrhein.substack.com/6a8f4788] I'd Rather Be Writing is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. 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