What is “Topping/Bottoming” for Lesbians? (w/ Award-Winning Writer Carmen Machado) | WHGS Ep. 323

I Made a Listener Trans (and Other Stories) | WHGS Ep. 324

Get the full versions of all these highlights, PLUS uncut episodes, live streams, live show tickets, and MORE at https://www.patreon.com/WHGS [https://www.patreon.com/WHGS]. Ashley has just wrapped up her 2026 tour in Europe (thanks to everyone who came out to a show), so to give her a week to recover, we have decided to release a bunch of highlights from our exclusive PATREON ONLY bonus series — You’re Having Gay Sex. We react to CRAZY sex stories submitted by YOU, our listeners, and in-between, we banter about a variety of topics too strange to put on the main episodes. Enjoy this free sample of the WHGS PATREON!!! FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy [https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ [https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs [https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs] Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs [https://twitter.com/ashgavs] Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates [https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates] FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy [https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ [https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/]  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy [https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy]  FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirst TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincenthasrisen [https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincenthasrisen]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/ [https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/]  FOLLOW JOSH JOHNSON Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.joshjohnsoncomedy.com/ [https://www.joshjohnsoncomedy.com/]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshjohnsoncomedy/ [https://www.instagram.com/joshjohnsoncomedy/]  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JoshJohnsonComedy [https://www.youtube.com/@JoshJohnsonComedy]  FOLLOW JEN DAVIS @jenparkerdavis Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/ [https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/]  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis [https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis]  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 [https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ [https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/]   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin [https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin] Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/O0sGXBdOsLU [https://youtu.be/O0sGXBdOsLU]  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex [https://helixsleep.com/gaysex] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

What is “Topping/Bottoming” for Lesbians? (w/ Award-Winning Writer Carmen Machado) | WHGS Ep. 323

This episode is all about theory, listener! Carmen Maria Machado is an author, essayist, and finalist for the National Book Award with her impressive body of work around queer identity, but today she’s in the apartment to put her genius towards solving age-old queer conundrums! We discuss topping vs. bottoming as a lesbian, what that actually entails, how it manifests in practice, and the Renaissance Faire. Ashley and Jen accidentally ask a man for a threeway. Lizzy experiences cinematic heartbreak.  FOLLOW CARMEN MARIA MACHADO: Check out her books: https://linktr.ee/carmenmariamachado?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio [https://linktr.ee/carmenmariamachado?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carmenmmachado/ [https://www.instagram.com/carmenmmachado/]  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@carmenmariamachado [https://www.tiktok.com/@carmenmariamachado]  Website: https://carmenmariamachado.com/image [https://carmenmariamachado.com/image]  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy [https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ [https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs [https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs] Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs [https://twitter.com/ashgavs] Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates [https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates] FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy [https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ [https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/]  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster [https://x.com/lizzaster]  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy [https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy]  FOLLOW JEN DAVIS @jenparkerdavis Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/ [https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/]  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis [https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis]  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 [https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ [https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/]   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS [https://www.patreon.com/WHGS] Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin [https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin] Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/12QVX_B1-4c [https://youtu.be/12QVX_B1-4c]  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get affordable and personalized treatment at https://www.forhers.com/gay [https://www.forhers.com/gay] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

Interviewing My Girlfriend’s Little Gay Brother (Brad Davis) | WHGS Ep. 322

This episode is lore heavy, listener! Brad Davis is a queer musician, tech artist, and my dear girlfriend’s little brother, but today he’s in the apartment to be my little BOTTOM! In addition, for the FIRST TIME… WHGS producer and man-behind-the-camera Alex Vrahas fills in as co-host. It’s a BOYS EP as we discuss romantic flings while abroad, anticipation in sex, coming out, being a very straight-passing gay, and what it’s like to be in the shadow of your super hot sister. Ashley recounts her first time meeting the Davis family. Alex got groped at Pride.     FOLLOW BRAD DAVIS: Listen to his music NOW: https://open.spotify.com/artist/2eLHhv4aVBI0ZVwiSGH6Q6 [https://open.spotify.com/artist/2eLHhv4aVBI0ZVwiSGH6Q6]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcd_rom/ [https://www.instagram.com/bcd_rom/]  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bcd_rom [https://www.tiktok.com/@bcd_rom]  Live shows: https://www.instagram.com/nfgxcollective/ [https://www.instagram.com/nfgxcollective/]  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy [https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ [https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs [https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs] Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs [https://twitter.com/ashgavs] Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates [https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates] FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 [https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ [https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/]   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS [https://www.patreon.com/WHGS] Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin [https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin] Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/ae8_eTpcgB4 [https://youtu.be/ae8_eTpcgB4]  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FACTOR: Head to https://Factormeals.com/gay50off [https://Factormeals.com/gay50off] and use code gay50off to get 50 percent off and free daily greens per box, with new subscription only, while supplies last until 09/27/202 HELIX: Go to https://helixsleep.com/gaysex [https://helixsleep.com/gaysex] for 27% OFF sitewide! Exclusive for listeners of the show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

NOAHFINNCE Had a Fivesome With Each Letter of LGBTQ | WHGS Ep. 321

This episode is the most inclusive, listener! NOAHFINNCE is a transgender pop-punk musician and YouTuber that’s been rocking the internet since 2015 with his incredible songs, but today he’s in the apartment to rock your BED! We discuss having a fivesome with every single person represented in “LGBTQ,” sexual dynamics when you have autism, horny fans, disabilities, and starting your career as a “My Chemical Romance” fan account. Ashley loves being the rebound. Artificial intelligence decides Lizzy is non-binary.  FOLLOW NOAHFINNCE: Listen to his music NOW: https://ffm.to/guotideluxe [https://ffm.to/guotideluxe]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/noahfinnce [https://www.instagram.com/noahfinnce]  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenoahfinnce [https://www.tiktok.com/@thenoahfinnce]  Twitter: https://x.com/noahfinnadams [https://x.com/noahfinnadams]  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy [https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ [https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs [https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs] Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs [https://twitter.com/ashgavs] Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates [https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates] FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy [https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ [https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/]  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster [https://x.com/lizzaster]  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy [https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy]  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ [https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/]   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS [https://www.patreon.com/WHGS] Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin [https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin] Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/f-qjP8i_HvI [https://youtu.be/f-qjP8i_HvI] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]

What is the Female Gaze? (w/ Halie Torris) | WHGS Ep. 320

This episode is depicting women correctly, listener! Halie Torris is an oil painter and visual artist whose incredibly detailed work you’ve seen go viral on TikTok/IG, but today she’s in the apartment to paint YOU like one of her French girls! We discuss the female gaze, how to define it, capturing it in your work, the artistic process in the modern attention economy, and having your gay little heart get broken over the vast and infinite sea —  It doesn’t get more gay than that. Ashley is combating the manosphere. Lizzy’s sex gets a little bit too wet. FOLLOW HALIE TORRIS: Buy her prints, art, and merch: https://bio.site/halietorris [https://bio.site/halietorris]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/halietorris/ [https://www.instagram.com/halietorris/]  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@halietorris [https://www.tiktok.com/@halietorris]  Twitter: https://x.com/halietorris [https://x.com/halietorris]  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy [https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ [https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs [https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs] Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs [https://twitter.com/ashgavs] Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates [https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates] FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy [https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy]  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ [https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/]  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster [https://x.com/lizzaster]  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy [https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy]  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ [https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/]   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS [https://www.patreon.com/WHGS] Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin [https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin] Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/e6Ct-Vx9yO0 [https://youtu.be/e6Ct-Vx9yO0]  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex [https://helixsleep.com/gaysex]  HERS: Get affordable, personalized treatment at https://www.forhers.com/gay [https://www.forhers.com/gay] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices [https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices]