Girl, Why Not You?

You’re Not Doing It Wrong—You’re Just Not Designed That Way

48 min · 14 de abr de 2026
Portada del episodio You’re Not Doing It Wrong—You’re Just Not Designed That Way

Descripción

What if the reason things aren’t working… isn’t because you’re doing it wrong? In this episode of Girl, Why Not You?, Jennie sits down with master coach and facilitator Ebonie Allard to challenge everything you’ve been taught about success—and why forcing yourself into someone else’s blueprint might be the very thing keeping you stuck. Ebonie shares her journey from early independence to working in the film and TV industry, navigating massive financial loss and even homelessness during the 2008 recession. Those experiences ultimately led her to a deeper understanding of alignment, resilience, and what it really means to build a life that works for you. We dive into human design and how understanding your unique energy, strengths, and tendencies can completely shift the way you approach business, relationships, and life. In this episode, we talk about: *  Why you’re not failing—you’re just misaligned  *  What human design is (and how to actually use it)  *  The problem with forcing yourself into traditional success models  *  How self-awareness can save you years of frustration  *  Why it’s never too late to pivot and do things differently  This conversation is your permission slip to stop trying to be someone you’re not—and start building a life that actually feels aligned. Because you’re not doing it wrong…  you’re just not designed that way. CONTACT EBONIE https://www.ebonieallard.com/get-chart

Comentarios

0

Sé la primera persona en comentar

¡Regístrate ahora y únete a la comunidad de Girl, Why Not You?!

Prueba gratis

Empieza 7 días de prueba

$99 / mes después de la prueba. · Cancela cuando quieras.

  • Podcasts solo en Podimo
  • 20 horas de audiolibros al mes
  • Podcast gratuitos

Todos los episodios

18 episodios

episode The 3 Things Quietly Destroying Your Wealth (And You Don't Even Know It) artwork

The 3 Things Quietly Destroying Your Wealth (And You Don't Even Know It)

You work hard for your money. So why does it still feel like you're behind? Maybe you've been telling yourself you'll "figure it out later." Maybe you've googled "what to do with savings" at midnight and closed the tab more confused than when you opened it. Maybe you just feel like everyone else has it together and you're the only one faking it. You're not. And this episode is proof. I sit down with Hayley Dixon — Certified Financial Planner, CEO and founder of Ripple Wealth Management — and she pulls back the curtain on the 3 things silently eating your wealth alive: taxes, inflation, and your own emotions. We talk about why "I'm not a money person" is the most expensive story you've ever believed, why your savings account is actually working against you, and what financial freedom really looks like (hint — it's not some far-off retirement dream). Hayley left a cushy Hollywood career, started over with a toddler on her hip and a baby on the way, and built a firm specifically to help women like us — women who weren't handed a trust fund, who are building something from scratch, and who deserve a financial partner that actually speaks their language. Whether you're a mom, a 9-to-5er, a business owner, or all three — this conversation will make you feel seen, fired up, and ready to stop leaving your money on the table. FREE OFFER: Hayley is gifting every listener a complimentary 30-minute chemistry session — normally $500. No pressure, no pitch. Just real talk about your money and what to do next. Email her for details! Find Hayley: www.rippl.nm.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayleywdickson/ Email: rippl@nm.com If that quiet little voice inside you is saying "maybe it's time" — listen to it. This is your permission slip.

Ayer30 min
episode She Spent $200 on a Lash Class and Built a Multi-Million Dollar Empire artwork

She Spent $200 on a Lash Class and Built a Multi-Million Dollar Empire

Jennifer Blair was a stay-at-home mom of four with no business plan, no investor, and no experience. She just wanted a way to feel like herself again. She took a one-day lash certification class, ran a Groupon expecting maybe 20 sales… and over 300 people showed up. She almost quit before she even started. Instead, she leaned all the way in — practiced on friends' couches, opened a tiny studio, created her own training program, and built Deka Lash into a nationwide franchise with 125+ locations. In this episode, Jennifer shares: • How a Vegas trip sparked the entire idea • Why her Groupon almost made her quit on day one • How she created a training academy when the industry didn’t have one • What it took to go from 1 rented chair to 125+ franchise studios • The real talk on mom guilt, imperfect starts, and betting on yourself If you’ve ever felt like you’re carrying everything and wondering when it’s YOUR turn — this episode is for you.  Find Jennifer & Deka Lash: dekalash.com [http://dekalash.com] — use "Find a Studio" to locate a Deka Lash near you Jennifer Blair on LinkedIn — speaking events & more Shop Deka Lash products at dekalash.com [http://dekalash.com] or on Amazon

26 de may de 202636 min
episode She Was Told to Shrink. She Won Two Emmys Instead. artwork

She Was Told to Shrink. She Won Two Emmys Instead.

They told her to sit to the side. Wear all black. Don't take up too much space. So she wore a golden dress to the Emmys — and won. Shannon Malone DeBenedictis is a two-time Emmy Award-winning filmmaker who's worked alongside James Cameron, Sigourney Weaver, Netflix, Disney+, and National Geographic. But for years, she made herself small in an industry that wanted her to disappear. In this episode, Shannon opens up about what it's really like navigating Hollywood as a plus-size woman, the blunt comment from a colleague that changed everything, and why she's done apologizing for who she is. Now through her company Paddlin' Creative, she helps women step into their voice and tell powerful stories that move people. If you've ever felt like you're too much — or not enough — press play.  Connect with Shannon: paddlincreative.com [http://paddlincreative.com]

19 de may de 202629 min
episode She Was Told to Wear Lipstick to Succeed — So She Quit artwork

She Was Told to Wear Lipstick to Succeed — So She Quit

She was climbing the corporate ladder in education — doing everything "right" — until she was told she'd be more successful if she wore lipstick and pulled her hair back. That was the moment Stacey Ryan realized she was becoming a leader she didn't even respect. So she quit. No backup plan. No safety net. Just self-trust. What followed was a dog treat company (yes, really), an abusive marriage she had the courage to leave, and a leap of faith into an organization called School of Rock — where she went from consultant to President, growing it from under 100 locations to 445+ and 80,000 students worldwide. In this episode, Stacey gets raw about toxic leadership, knowing your worth (a promise she made to a dying friend), why imposter syndrome is just the modern-day "bicycle face," and why she refuses to dull her edges for anyone but herself. If you've been staying somewhere that no longer aligns — in your career, your relationship, your life — this is your sign. Join Front Women: frontwomen.org [http://frontwomen.org]

12 de may de 202645 min
episode She Didn’t Wait. She Built It. It Went Viral. artwork

She Didn’t Wait. She Built It. It Went Viral.

What happens when your “random idea” turns into a viral business… before you even graduate? At 25, Elena DiStefano, the founder of Cozy Clip is running a brand that blew up online—but she started it as a junior in college with zero experience in product design. She just knew one thing: claw clips were uncomfortable. So she fixed it. That one decision turned into a viral product, selling out in minutes and launching her into full-blown entrepreneurship almost overnight. But here’s the part no one talks about—  what happens after it takes off. In this episode, we get into: *  Building a product from scratch with zero experience  *  Going viral—and keeping up with the chaos that follows  *  Handling copycats, pressure, and rapid growth  *  Staying grounded while running a business solo  Because she didn’t wait to feel ready.  She didn’t have a perfect plan. She just started. If you’ve been sitting on an idea, overthinking your next move, or waiting for the “right time”—this is it. Girl, why not you? 💥 Connect with her + check out the product: 🌐 Website: www.thecozyclip.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cozyclip/

5 de may de 202621 min