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Saying No, Setting Boundaries, Modern Motherhood & Pitching Your Friend

35 min · 14 de abr de 2026
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Why do women find it so difficult to say no? In this episode of Have You Frozen Your Eggs Yet? Kelly and Louise dive into the growing conversation around boundaries, inspired by high-profile figures like Chappell Roan who have been making headlines for confidently saying no. Women are often expected to go along with what’s asked of them—but why is that, and how do we start changing it? Kelly and Louise unpack: * 💬 Why saying no feels so uncomfortable * 🚧 Boundaries, people-pleasing and self-worth * 🔄 Real-life situations and how to handle them differently * 🌱 The benefits (and challenges) of changing your behaviour Louise shares difficult situations her friends have found themselves in, while Kelly reflects on how setting better boundaries has already started to shift things in her own life—with some work still to do. They also discuss the ever-iconic Robyn and how she’s redefining modern motherhood—challenging expectations, embracing sexuality, and showing that having kids can be both “cute” and “punk”. And finally… could you pitch your friend? A new dating trend is putting friendships to the test, asking you to present your friend as the ultimate catch. Kelly and Louise give it a go—with mixed results. Here's Hannah Dea's article on setting boundaries that's discussed on the pod; https://www.magnoliamentalhealth.org/post/empowering-women-to-say-no-the-importance-of-setting-boundaries-for-mental-health [https://www.magnoliamentalhealth.org/post/empowering-women-to-say-no-the-importance-of-setting-boundaries-for-mental-health] Have You Frozen Your Eggs Yet is a women’s podcast covering societal expectations, relationships, culture, health, and modern life as a woman.  🎧 Expect honest conversations, relatable moments and plenty of humour as they explore boundaries, relationships, dating and what it really means to advocate for yourself. Get in touch! Don't forget to send your thoughts or suggestions for the podcast to frozenyoureggsyet@gmail.com You can sign up to our newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/6363eddb1650/sign-up-newsletter [https://mailchi.mp/6363eddb1650/sign-up-newsletter] Find us on Insta, Tik Tok and YouTube @frozenyoureggsyet [https://www.instagram.com/frozenyoureggsyet/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

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