1007 | UNBOTHERED vs Numb — Why This Distinction Is Important

1016 | The Certainty You’re Chasing Has to Come From You First

This episode explores the kind of certainty that can only be found inside of you. I’m unpacking the way we often wait for guarantees, validation, or perfect timing before we make the move, say yes, invest, lead, create, or decide. The truth is, the certainty we’re craving rarely comes from the circumstances changing first; it comes from trusting ourselves before the evidence arrives. Through personal reflections and client conversations, I share how some of the biggest quantum leaps in my life came from decisions made in uncertainty, not comfort. This episode is an invitation to stop outsourcing your confidence to the conditions around you and start building the identity, self-belief, and internal certainty that can hold you through the unknown. Because when you become certain in yourself, you no longer need life to feel predictable before you choose your next level. Chapters: * 02:40 - Finding Internal Certainty for Growth * 06:27 - The Importance of Internal Certainty * 09:47 - Finding Certainty Within * 13:12 - Building Internal Certainty for Business Growth * 15:20 - Building Certainty and Self-Trust Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp [https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa] Write Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow [https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] Tickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] Unbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast] Unbothered Entrepreneur Masterclass (for the Podcast Listeners): https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast] Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/outspokenNLP2025INPERSON] The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/RNFetUdr?coupon_code=SWTO333] Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG, click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube, click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]

1015 | Nothing Is Worth My Inner Peace with Vanessa Ortali

In this episode, Marsha speaks with Vanessa Ortali, a speaker and mentor who challenges the way ambitious women define success. She has built a global community of over 140,000 women and created sold-out events and programs attended by women worldwide. She has been featured on television, speaks on major stages, and works with high-level entrepreneurs, public figures, celebrities and influential women. Vanessa is known for her ability to see, instantly, the gap between how women are living and who they know they’re meant to be. Her work cuts through the noise and reminds women of who they are, igniting clarity, self-trust, and confidence that change how they live, lead, and make decisions. Chapters: * 06:11 - Transitioning from Fear to Clarity * 13:13 - Embracing Authenticity in Business and Life * 19:01 - Building a Community Through Events * 22:51 - The Challenges of Community Management * 28:30 - Navigating Financial Struggles and Legal Battles * 37:11 - Navigating Fear and Capacity * 39:52 - The Importance of Self-Trust * 45:52 - Embracing Uncertainty and Self-Trust Connect with Vanessa: Instagram: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jillian-pezet-trellis/https://www.instagram.com/iamvanessao/ [https://www.instagram.com/iamvanessao/] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamvanessao [https://www.tiktok.com/@iamvanessao] Website: http://vanessaortali.com/VanessaOrtali.com [http://vanessaortali.com] Email: v.l.ortali@gmail.com Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp [https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa] Write Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow [https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow] Tickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] Unbothered Mind Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast] Download FREE “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/OUTSPOKENNLP] Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/the-stories-we-tell-ourselves]. Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG. Click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube. Click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]

1014 | Be The Thermostat, Not the Thermometer

This episode explores the difference between being a thermometer and being a thermostat in your life and business. A thermometer reacts to everything happening around it. A thermostat sets the tone and holds the energy. The episode explains how many people live in constant reaction mode—letting outside circumstances, social media, stress, or finances determine how they feel and respond. Over time, this can drain energy and affect leadership, decision-making, and confidence. It encourages listeners to become more intentional with their energy, emotions, and responses instead of being controlled by external situations. The message is simple: when you learn to regulate yourself instead of reacting to everything around you, you create more stability, clarity, and power in your life. Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp [https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa] Write Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow [https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] Tickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] Unbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast] Unbothered Entrepreneur Masterclass (for the Podcast Listeners): https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast] Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/outspokenNLP2025INPERSON] The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/RNFetUdr?coupon_code=SWTO333] Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG, click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube, click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]

1013 | The Energy Cost of Your Thought Loops

This episode explores the impact that negative and positive thought loops have on your energy, mindset, and daily life. It explains how repeated negative thoughts can keep you stuck in stress, exhaustion, and overwhelm, while positive thought patterns can create more resilience, creativity, and possibility. The episode also highlights how the subconscious mind responds to the thoughts you repeat most often, whether they support you or not. It encourages becoming more aware of your inner dialogue and the energy you are feeding every day. The message is simple: when you begin to shift your thoughts, you also begin to shift your emotions, your reactions, and the results you create in your life. Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp [https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa] Write Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow [https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] Tickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] Unbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast] Unbothered Entrepreneur Masterclass (for the Podcast Listeners): https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast] Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/outspokenNLP2025INPERSON] The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/RNFetUdr?coupon_code=SWTO333] Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG, click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube, click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]

1012 | I AM is the Way to Consciousness with Anton Grosz

In this episode, Marsha is speaking with Anton Grosz. Born into a Jewish but profoundly atheistic family, Anton Grosz denied anything religious for the first half of his life. In 1978, at the age of 37, he discovered spirituality through a near-death experience, going through a tunnel into the light and experiencing a reality different and greater than anything he had ever thought possible. Since then, he has devoted his life to studying different spiritual paths, leading meditation practice, and helping those at the end of life. Grosz received his PhD from the California Institute of Integral Studies in the Evolution of Human Consciousness. He is a practitioner of phenomenology – the science of experiential reality- an ordained Interfaith Minister, a retired Hospice Chaplain, and a certified Home Care Provider. Grosz has journaled and written about his numerous experiences and insights. His first book, Letters to a Dying Friend: What Comes Next (Quest, 1989), has an introduction by the Dalai Lama, and his second book, How Do I Live When I Know I’m Going To Die? (FMA Books, 2001), was distributed through the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization. His latest book is Handbook for a New Consciousness: The Next Step in Human Evolution. Connect with Anton: Website: www.AntonGrosz.com [http://www.antongrosz.com] Podcast Guest’s Email: angela@steveallenmedia.com [angela@steveallenmedia.com] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jillian-pezet-trellis/https://www.linkedin.com/in/anton-grosz-982336390/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/anton-grosz-982336390/] Anton’s book: A Handbook for New Consciousness – A Human Evolution https://a.co/d/0c2f8Pmd [https://a.co/d/0c2f8Pmd] Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp [https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa] Write Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow [https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] Tickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] Unbothered Mind Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast] Download FREE “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/OUTSPOKENNLP] Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/the-stories-we-tell-ourselves]. Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG. Click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube. Click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]