Who Is Your "Ego" (It's Not You) - 9 Ego Functions

The Void In Narcissistic Personality Disorder

- the maternal mirroring failure - empty schizoid vs schizoid personality disorder - the false self construction - information scrambling - Waldron's idea on being drawn to the black hole - structural collapse - co-independence structural requirement - podcast on spotify & apple: search 'the olne relationship podcast'

Shared Fantasy: Folie à Deux (Shared Psychosis)

- what a shared fantasy actually is - Sanders 1989 concept: Folie à Deux - shared psychosis - second chance at childhood - the audition - the hall of mirrors: idealization and self-infatuation - dual mothership - the Four S' - the padded cell - modern times loneliness - podcast - apple & spotify: search 'the olne relationship podcast'

The Internal Saboteur - Why Introjects Create Self-Sabotage

- what are introjects - saboteur's borrowed authority - the 3 sources - the ego ideal and the sadistic superego - the self-sabotage pattern - practical steps: identify, observe, update - podcast- spotify & apple: search 'the one relationship podcast'

How the Mother and Father Concept Shape You

2 Architecture For Self-Formation - How the Mother and Father Concept Shape You - the mother function; mirroring, boundary, self sense - mother failure; identity disturbance, false self, merger - the father function; triangulation, social function - dead father; the locked room, reality-testing - OLNE's open communication; requiring three - podcast: Spotify and Apple: search 'the olne relationship podcast'

How To Deal With Your Ego

- definition of end-run - reframing your ego to switch goals - the mechanism of endrunning - how to turn your ego into your cheering section - failure vs. iteration - podcast on spotify and apple podcast: search 'the olne relationship podcast'