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You were told, “as long as the baby’s healthy,” so why do you feel a pit in your stomach after the gender reveal? If you’re pregnant and secretly grieving the girl or boy you imagined, this episode is your safe space. Ultrasound tech Alicia and mom‑of‑5 Kristian get brutally honest about gender disappointment in pregnancy—what it really feels like in the ultrasound room, why it doesn’t make you ungrateful, and how to process those big feelings without drowning in shame. From sobbing in the parking lot after a smoke bomb turns blue, to hearing “are you going to try again for a girl/boy?” while you’re still pregnant, they’re saying the quiet stuff out loud so you don’t feel alone. This episode is for you if you’ve ever thought, “I love this baby, but I’m still sad,” especially after multiple kids, miscarriage, or early DNA testing that felt like a tease. You’ll walk away feeling seen, validated, and reminded that your baby can still be better than anything you planned—even if the gender wasn’t what you expected. In this episode, we talk about: * What gender disappointment actually is (and why it’s more like grieving a dream than rejecting your baby) * Real stories from the ultrasound studio and a mom of 5 girls who never got the “boy” people kept asking about * How comments like “you finally got your girl/boy” quietly invalidate your other children * Practical ways to process guilt, sadness, and “I should just be grateful” thoughts while still bonding with your baby If this topic makes you uncomfortable, good—that means it’s real. Hit play, take a deep breath, and know you’re not the only mama who’s ever felt this way
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