Bridging The Gap

Episode 26: More Than Roommates (w/ Ryan & Kayla North)

37 min · 5 de may de 2026
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In trauma‑informed parenting, marriage can drift into survival mode — fast. In this episode, Ryan & Kayla North share how they’ve stayed more than roommates through 24 years of marriage, 30 foster placements, adoption, and the realities of raising kids with big needs. They offer real-life tools for staying united: weekly date rhythms, transparent communication, dealing with triangulation, repairing with genuine apologies, and doing your own self‑work before trying to “fix” your kids. Their honesty and humor make this a deeply encouraging conversation for couples who feel stretched thin. What You’ll Learn * How to avoid drifting into “roommate mode” * Why Unity — not agreement — is the key to hard-season parenting * How to handle triangulation & manipulation without dividing * Why repairing with apologies models secure connection * How to regulate yourself before addressing behaviors * Practical ways to protect time, communication & connection Key Insight A resilient marriage isn’t built by avoiding conflict but by repairing well, communicating honestly, and staying united — even when parenting feels heavy. Resource Links * More from Ryan & Kayla: https://www.onebighappyhome.com [https://www.onebighappyhome.com] #marriage #fostercare #adoption #kinshipcare #traumainformed #roommatestoteammates #connectedmarriage #parentingkidsfromhardplaces #marriageresources

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episode Episode 26: More Than Roommates (w/ Ryan & Kayla North) artwork

Episode 26: More Than Roommates (w/ Ryan & Kayla North)

In trauma‑informed parenting, marriage can drift into survival mode — fast. In this episode, Ryan & Kayla North share how they’ve stayed more than roommates through 24 years of marriage, 30 foster placements, adoption, and the realities of raising kids with big needs. They offer real-life tools for staying united: weekly date rhythms, transparent communication, dealing with triangulation, repairing with genuine apologies, and doing your own self‑work before trying to “fix” your kids. Their honesty and humor make this a deeply encouraging conversation for couples who feel stretched thin. What You’ll Learn * How to avoid drifting into “roommate mode” * Why Unity — not agreement — is the key to hard-season parenting * How to handle triangulation & manipulation without dividing * Why repairing with apologies models secure connection * How to regulate yourself before addressing behaviors * Practical ways to protect time, communication & connection Key Insight A resilient marriage isn’t built by avoiding conflict but by repairing well, communicating honestly, and staying united — even when parenting feels heavy. Resource Links * More from Ryan & Kayla: https://www.onebighappyhome.com [https://www.onebighappyhome.com] #marriage #fostercare #adoption #kinshipcare #traumainformed #roommatestoteammates #connectedmarriage #parentingkidsfromhardplaces #marriageresources

5 de may de 202637 min
episode BONUS Episode: Just For Dads (w/ Jason Johnson) artwork

BONUS Episode: Just For Dads (w/ Jason Johnson)

This bonus episode features Jason Johnson in a candid conversation about why connection matters for foster, adoptive, and kinship dads. After hearing consistent feedback from foster families across the state, Child Bridge is launching a Just For Dads Journey Group, beginning in mid May 2026, to give dads a space where they can connect with men who understand the unique challenges and pressures of this calling. What You’ll Learn: * Why community is essential for foster/adoptive/kinship dads * How connection reframes discouragement, busyness, and expectations * Why Montana families asked for this group — and how it meets a critical need * Practical encouragement for showing up, even when life is full Key Insight: You don’t have to have it all together — just be willing to bring what you have. Connection multiplies strength. Resources: The Just For Dads Journey Group is being offered as both a daytime and evening group beginning in mid May. Learn more and register here: https://bit.ly/4tMr47V [https://bit.ly/4tMr47V] #FosterDads #MontanaFosterCare #AdoptiveFamilies #KinshipCare #JasonJohnson #ChildBridge #JustForDads #FosterCareSupport

21 de abr de 202611 min
episode Episode 25: The Thing Beneath The Thing (w/Jason Johnson) artwork

Episode 25: The Thing Beneath The Thing (w/Jason Johnson)

What if the fear keeping you from fostering isn’t the real fear at all? Jason Johnson joins us to discuss the “thing beneath the thing,” why fostering often reveals more about us than we expect, and how families can navigate doubt with wisdom and faith. Whether you’re just exploring or already fostering, this conversation offers grounding, clarity, and compassion. 💡 What You’ll Learn: - Understanding “the thing beneath the thing” - How to navigate fears around attachment and grief - Caring for biological and adopted kids while fostering - When spouses aren’t on the same page - Why outcomes don’t define success 📖 Key Insight:God doesn’t call us to control the outcome — He calls us to be faithful with the next step. 📌 Explore More Resources: - Hear more from Jason on his website: jasonjohnsonblog.com - Learn more about becoming a foster parent in Montana by visiting childbridgemontana.org/foster -Find trauma-informed resources for your foster, adoptive or kinship journey at childbridgemontana.org/resources 👉 Subscribe for More:Subscribe today for foster care insights, adoption stories, and practical tools for kinship families. #FosterCareJourney #FaithDrivenParenting #FosterDad #AdoptiveFamilies #KinshipCare

7 de abr de 202637 min
episode Episode 24: The God Who Sees Me (w/ Amy J. Brown) artwork

Episode 24: The God Who Sees Me (w/ Amy J. Brown)

Parenting children with trauma and invisible disabilities can feel isolating and overwhelming. In this episode, Amy J. Brown — author, mentor, and mom to six — shares her journey and practical tools for navigating grief, building resilience, and leaning into God’s presence in the chaos. Whether you’re fostering, adopting, or caring for kinship kids, you’ll discover hope, encouragement, and strategies to thrive in the hardest seasons. What You’ll Learn: * * How to process grief and avoid isolation * * Practical strategies for resilience and connection * * Why invisible disabilities require unique understanding * * How faith can anchor you in overwhelming seasons Key Insight: You are not alone — God sees you, and there is hope even in the hardest moments. Resources: * * Find more parenting resources at https://www.childbridgemontana.org/resource-library [https://www.childbridgemontana.org/resource-library] * * Visit https://www.amyjbrown.com [https://www.amyjbrown.com] to learn more about Amy

3 de mar de 202636 min
episode Episode 23: Holding Joy and Sorrow (w/Jeff & Emmy Ort) artwork

Episode 23: Holding Joy and Sorrow (w/Jeff & Emmy Ort)

The world says fostering and adoption are too hard — but faith and community tell a different story. In this episode, Jeff and Emmy Ort share their journey of fostering and adopting, including raising a child with special needs. You’ll discover practical ways to navigate hard days, build resilience, and find joy in the midst of challenges. 💡 What You’ll Learn: * * How fostering impacts biological children * * Practical strategies for surviving hard days * * Why asking for help is strength, not weakness * * The role of faith and community in long-term success * * How grace changes the way we see trauma 📖 Key Insight: “Taking a break isn’t failure — it’s an investment for the long term.” 📌 Explore More Resources: Visit https://www.childbridgemontana.org/resource-library [https://www.childbridgemontana.org/resource-library] for tools, articles, and videos to support your parenting journey. Learn more about Connected Voices at voices4mtkids.com [https://voices4mtkids.com] #FosterCareJourney #AdoptionStories #TraumaInformedParenting #ChildBridge #KinshipCare #ChristianParenting

3 de feb de 202641 min