# 26 Zahra Ciardi: The Trauma You Don't Know You Have (And How It's Ruining Your Life)

# 26 Zahra Ciardi: The Trauma You Don't Know You Have (And How It's Ruining Your Life)

Zahra Ciardi is a psychologist with over a decade of experience in trauma healing and the founder of Ascendant - an intensive 21-day holistic recovery program based in Bali. We went deep on the trauma most people don't know they have, why traditional therapy isn't working, what EMDR actually does to the brain, and so much more. Enjoy. Follow Zara: IG: https://www.instagram.com/zahra_ciardi/ Website: ascendantbali.com Follow Caolan: IG: https://www.instagram.com/kelly_caolan/ If this episode resonated, share it with someone who needs it. 00:00 The biggest misconception about trauma — big T vs small T explained 02:23 The invisible wounds you've been carrying your whole life 04:15 How to shine a light on your subconscious blockers 06:03 The hidden cost of being a high performer 11:06 The float back exercise — mapping your memories to your wounds 15:54 How childhood trauma silenced my voice for years 19:33 The Ascendant Program — what 21 days of real healing looks like 23:40 From completely shut down to hope — a real client story 29:21 Why one-on-one therapy goes deeper than group 31:38 What would you tell your younger self? 33:25 The vision — making mental health accessible to everyone 35:58 Where to find Zahra

# 25 Mara Pereira: Why Smart People Struggle to Turn Skills Into a Sellable Offer

Want help landing your first (or next) high-paying client in the next 30 days? Apply here → https://forms.gle/d44jymFQfSvEtJLz6 Most smart people don't fail because they lack skills. They fail because they can't turn those skills into something people will actually buy. I sat down with Mara Pereira to break down how she went from confusion to clarity—testing ideas, throwing things at the wall, reverse-engineering her process, and eventually landing on an offer that actually sold. Mara left a six-figure role at Microsoft and went on to build a business that surpassed her corporate income in months—not by chasing tactics, but by letting signal guide the offer. We get into: – Why having skills isn't the same as having an offer – How clarity comes from testing, not thinking – The "give them the fish vs teach them to fish" realisation – Building demand before you build the product – Why most people jump too early—or commit too late – Why offers evolve (and why that's a good thing) This isn't a step-by-step launch playbook. It's a conversation about how offers actually emerge—and why clarity always comes after movement. Follow Mara:https://www.linkedin.com/in/marapereira/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/marapereira/] Follow Caolan:https://www.instagram.com/kelly_caolan/ [https://www.instagram.com/kelly_caolan/]

# 24 Tom Spark: You’re Playing a Game You Never Chose (4K)

Discipline stops working when you’re committing harder to a direction that isn’t actually yours. In this conversation with Tom Spark, we explore identity, self-trust, and decision-making - and why confidence and clarity collapse when they’re built on borrowed rules. This isn’t about fixing your habits. It’s about noticing when you’re enduring a life instead of choosing one. Follow Tom: Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@tomspark_ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tomspark_/ Follow Caolan: https://www.instagram.com/kelly_caolan/

# 23 Darren Lee: Why Most Creators Run Charities, Not Businesses (4K)

99% of people start building an online business without realising it’s the business that builds them. I sat down with Darren Lee to talk about the uncomfortable reality of building something real — chewing glass, staying in the game when nothing’s working, and developing the skills that actually compound. Darren has built multiple 7-figure businesses across agency, education, and software. We get into: – Why people don’t buy products, they buy the person – Competency vs warmth (and why smart people often stay stuck) – The early childhood moments that shape entrepreneurial drive – Why 10K/month is a fake finish line – Selling painkillers vs vitamins – Why sales is the meta-skill behind every business – Building impact first — and letting money follow This isn't about shortcuts. It's about outlasting everyone else and building a business you don't need to quit from. Follow Darren: https://www.instagram.com/darrenlee.ks/ Follow Caolan: https://www.instagram.com/kelly_caolan/

# 22 Eoin Dobbin Catto: AI Will Replace Your Job. Unless You Learn This 1 Skill.

👉 Follow the show + leave a 5-star rating to help more people become shameless dreamers and turn vision into reality. By 2030, AI could replace up to 300 million full-time jobs worldwide. But not everyone is replaceable. Eoin Dobbin Catto went from selling horses at 13 to building a coaching business no algorithm could replicate. His story isn’t about hustle — it’s about becoming unfireable by mastering the one skill machines can’t match: agency. This isn’t a story about technology. It’s about trust, courage, and the moment fear stops wearing a suit and calling itself logic. 🟧 In this episode, we explore: • The death of job security — and how to future-proof yourself • The “A4 exercise” that kills anxiety in 10 minutes • How to make decisions right (instead of waiting for the right one)• Why comfort is riskier than change • How to lead yourself through uncertainty Cool guy and a cool conversation. Enjoyed this one. Hope you do too x Follow Eoin: https://www.youtube.com/@eoin_dobbin_catto https://www.instagram.com/eoindobbincatto/ Follow Caolan: https://www.instagram.com/kelly_caolan/