Off The Clock with Miguelle Febres

let’s talk advice: boundaries, balance & becoming you

42 min · 31. okt. 2025
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welcome to my unofficial advice session, aka free therapy but with worse credentials. today we’re talking about everything from starting over after a long term relationship to knowing when to cut off friends who suddenly feel like strangers, setting boundaries without feeling like the villain, and trying not to spiral when everyone else seems “ahead.” grab a snack, get comfy, and let’s pretend i know what I’m talking about :) Timestamps (00:00) Intro (02:30) - Starting over after a long-term relationship (the messy, honest part) (8:23) – When it’s time to distance yourself from certain friends (and how to do it without guilt) (15:13) Comparing your life to everyone else’s and how to chill about it (25:54) - Setting boundaries without feeling like the bad guy (32:10) - When everyone’s outgrowing you (and that weird lonely feeling) (36:14) - Wanting independence but still craving validation (41:14) - Outro

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hi everyone! it's been a minute, but i'm back and wanted to chat with you all about some of the thoughts i have surrounding my birthday and uncover the real reasons behind why i'm afraid to be seen. be sure to listen on other platforms below! Spotify Podcast : ⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/65raGfS... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbVNlTVNnMmpKWFF3X1hzaGVHTHEtUS1CbUc1UXxBQ3Jtc0tsXzZCS0JfNkFjb3lRUk5qZFhoNEhZM1h4NUxmS0xrOHJpendDdGhReTk2cU12Yk9GVGU1aFRhdHR3WFJ2YjB3azExU1dCVVZGeENIaFdhckI5UG5JUktVUVhSeGw2N0kwc0lCZW12ekxwLVVGMUlHaw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Fshow%2F65raGfS..%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0&v=O_c_9XiVaOI].Apple Podcast : ⁠⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbTJTb3ZOUlJjd1hrNDNXN3JlcjVxMm5aSk1lUXxBQ3Jtc0trdXY1bHFhYnRlcGRObzRUem9NVkZQd0dQMkMxTXRaT2NiendJdnk1VkdMYlB1djBmSnNMd2JWRFRFV0ttQUJmbm92Z3kyV1dxanp1M3BScnJjUndIcVhpZFRGMWU3X2xDS0hRZ19yS1VwaWJHVDIxUQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fpodcasts.apple.com%2Fus%2Fpodcast..%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0&v=O_c_9XiVaOI]. YouTube: ⁠    / @miguellefebres   [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLGywoSijvtyuntnRn8zzoA]

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5. dec. 202519 min
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14. nov. 202519 min
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let’s talk advice: boundaries, balance & becoming you

welcome to my unofficial advice session, aka free therapy but with worse credentials. today we’re talking about everything from starting over after a long term relationship to knowing when to cut off friends who suddenly feel like strangers, setting boundaries without feeling like the villain, and trying not to spiral when everyone else seems “ahead.” grab a snack, get comfy, and let’s pretend i know what I’m talking about :) Timestamps (00:00) Intro (02:30) - Starting over after a long-term relationship (the messy, honest part) (8:23) – When it’s time to distance yourself from certain friends (and how to do it without guilt) (15:13) Comparing your life to everyone else’s and how to chill about it (25:54) - Setting boundaries without feeling like the bad guy (32:10) - When everyone’s outgrowing you (and that weird lonely feeling) (36:14) - Wanting independence but still craving validation (41:14) - Outro

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