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In this episode, Craig and Dawn tackle ego—with a twist—using the mnemonic E.G.O. = "Edge Good Out." The conversation centers on how a lack of self-awareness around strengths can allow ego to surface in board settings, quietly eroding trust, culture, and effectiveness. Drawing from decades of leadership and personality work, the hosts show how serving in one's strengths helps teams soar together and creates real alignment. 🚩 How Ego Shows Up (and Why It Matters) * Eye rolls, snickering, side-eye, and side conversations that disarm others * Disengagement (phones out, missed agenda items) that disrespects staff preparation * Power dynamics and "voting blocks" formed outside the room * A need to be right that fuels defensiveness and confirmation bias * Decisions made in advance—silencing voices and undermining governance * Scarcity thinking around money or resources that constricts mission impact Staff are watching. Peers are watching. Ego-driven behavior signals misalignment—and can be a sign it's time for a member to reassess their service, especially on a governing board with fiduciary duties. ⚖️ Ego, Power & Culture Ego can kill culture—silencing people, stripping equity from conversations, and making peers feel unsafe to speak. When fear enters the room, governance leaves it. 🌱 Replacing Ego with Mission & Abundance * Chair as Facilitator: Invite all voices, elevate quieter members, and keep discussions collaborative. * Mission First: When conflict arises, return to purpose and equity of access to the mission. * Abundance Mindset: Move from "do the most with the least" to "do the most with the most—so we can help even more." * Ask for Help: Support isn't only checks; it's connections, credibility, and problem-solving. 🛠️ Tools for Self-Reflection & Growth * Mission Moments: Short videos or articles to re-center purpose * Behavioral Assessments: Tools like DISC or Working Genius to understand differences without personalization * Healthy Storming: Challenge ideas to reach higher performance * Watch the Shadows: Big personalities and quiet ones alike—nonverbals matter (communication is largely nonverbal) 📘 Go Deeper This episode draws from The Confident Board Member, Chapter: "The Overly Confident Board Member." Learn more and access resources at The Confident Company (theconfidentcompanyus.com). 💡 Key Takeaway Confidence isn't dominance—it's self-awareness, service, and alignment. When ego steps back, mission moves forward. 🎧 Tune in to learn how to spot ego early, restore culture, and lead with clarity and confidence. About The Confident Company This episode of The Board Edit is brought to you by The Confident Company, a modern leadership and governance firm dedicated to helping nonprofit board members lead with clarity, courage, and confidence. We believe board service is one of the most powerful forms of civic leadership—and that confident boards build better futures. Explore Our Resources & Offerings The Confident Board Member™ Book - Available on Amazon and Audible A modern, values-based guide to nonprofit governance grounded in the SERVE + SMART™ Framework. Designed for both aspiring and active board members, the book blends practical tools, real-world insight, and reflection prompts to help you turn purpose into practice. Courses Self-paced courses and short-form Learning Labs that build core governance skills—meeting readiness, accountability, engagement, strategy, and culture—designed to fit real board members' lives: *Board Member Bootcamp *The Essential Board Chair *The Confident Board Member Signature Program The Confident Collective A membership community created exclusively for nonprofit board members. Members receive: *Weekly Learning Labs *Biweekly Lunch & Learns *Practical tools and templates *Guided reflection and coaching prompts *Access to a community of values-driven peers This is ongoing development for people who take board service seriously. The Board Edit A practical, candid podcast about what it really means to serve on a nonprofit board—covering governance, leadership behavior, board–staff dynamics, and the habits that separate good boards from great ones. Subscribe to The Board Edit across major podcast platforms. Board & Leadership Development Services We partner with a select number of organizations each year to support: *Board assessments and alignment *Retreat facilitation and strategy sessions *Board onboarding and education *Governance culture and behavior change *CEO–board relationship strengthening Our work blends facilitation, coaching, and practical frameworks to help boards move from intention to impact. Learn more! Follow Dawn Rochelle and Craig Wagner on LinkedIn: Dawn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/dawn-rochelle-lcsw Craig — https://www.linkedin.com/in/craigjwagner For more board leadership tools, workshops, and free downloads, visit: https://www.confidentcompanyus.com Have feedback or a question? Email us anytime at: hello@theconfidentcompany.com.
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