Jackie Valdez: How to Cultivate Intuition for Leadership and Daily Decisions

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Decision-makers, leaders, and high-performers often rely on data, analysis, and willpower to navigate complexity. Yet there's a quieter, faster signal that many overlook: intuition. Intuitive counselor Jackie Valdez joins the show to demystify this innate capacity—explaining that intuition is not a mystical gift reserved for a few, but a practical skill made of only two components: deep listening and trust. The payoff is clear: when you learn to access your intuition, you gain clarity under pressure, reduce decision fatigue, and lead with greater presence. Instead of being hijacked by anxiety, worst-case scenarios, or the emotional energy of a room, you become grounded and responsive rather than reactive. The conversation explores how stillness and breath work directly influence your ability to listen beyond words—a skill Valdez calls "listening to sounds your ears can't hear." Key concepts include the relationship between **breath and thought**, the distinction between **memory and intuition**, and a simple grounding technique (feet + tongue on the roof of the mouth) that any leader can use in a tense meeting to regain composure. Valdez also introduces her "Word of the Month" practice, where focusing on a single virtue (like service) for 30 days reprograms your awareness and your energy. Highlights * Intuition is available to everyone—not just "psychics"—and every "aha" moment is an intuitive flash. * Deep listening requires letting energy move through you without projection or expectation. * Grounding yourself in your feet during meetings prevents you from absorbing others' agitation. * Visualizing the best-case scenario is just as powerful (and more productive) than rehearsing worst-case fears. Important Concepts and Frameworks * Intuition = Deep Listening + Trust — The two pillars of intuition are listening beyond what the ears can hear and trusting your own inner knowing. * Stillness & Concentration — Stillness is built through concentration; deep meditation (and intuitive clarity) requires a disciplined, focused mind, not a blank one. * The Breath-Thought Connection — How you breathe determines how you think. Long, slow breathing empties the mind of fear, anxiety, and anticipation. * Discernment (Is This Mine?) — The ability to sense whether an emotion or energy belongs to you or was picked up from others. Key to emotional self-regulation. * Word of the Month (Virtue & Saboteur) — A 30-day practice of holding one virtue (e.g., service) and one saboteur (e.g., greed) in awareness to shift perception and behavior. * Memory vs. Intuition — Memory is stored information; intuition is live reception. Valdez uses a mental "card catalog" visualization to keep them separate. * Feeling the Feet / Tongue on the Roof of the Mouth — A real-time grounding technique for high-pressure situations (meetings, calls, negotiations) that forces deeper breathing and presence. * Worst-Case Scenario (WCS) Visualization — Repeatedly visualizing the worst outcome actually attracts it; redirecting focus to the best-case scenario is an act of self-control. Tools & Resources Mentioned * Word of the Month (First Sunday Sessions) — Monthly guided practice focusing on a virtue and a saboteur to meditate on for 30 days.| https://saintsintraining.com/ [https://saintsintraining.com/] Calls to Action 1. Practice "feet on the floor, tongue on the roof of your mouth" in your next tense meeting—feel how it shifts your groundedness. 2. Pick one virtue and one saboteur to hold in your awareness for the next 30 days; notice how often they show up in your daily life. 3. When you catch yourself visualizing the worst-case scenario, consciously redirect to the best-case scenario for 30 seconds. 4. Before your next important conversation, take three long, slow breaths to empty anticipation and arrive fully present. 5. At the end of each day, ask: "Did I listen more than I talked? Did I let energy move through me, or did I hold onto it?" Key Quotes * "Listening is our greatest gift of learning." — Jackie Valdez * "Intuition is made up of only two things: very deep listening and trust." — Jackie Valdez * "If you wanna develop presence, you need to be present." — Simon Vetter * "It's easy to be bad. It's easy to malign. Kindness requires inner strength." — Jackie Valdez * "Peace is not neutrality. It is inner strength. It is self-control." — Jackie Valdez Chapters 00:23 — What Is an Intuitive Counselor and How Does Intuition Work? 04:24 — The Two Elements of Intuition: Stillness and Deep Listening 09:48 — Leadership Presence: Why Being Present Creates Executive Presence 14:32 — The Mirror Analogy: Using Intuition to See Your Own Patterns 19:10 — Why You Feel Different After Leaving the Grocery Store 23:44 — Every "Aha Moment" Is Intuition at Work 26:16 — How Negative Emotions Block Intuitive Clarity and How to Shift 36:42 — Three Grounding Tools for Busy Professionals 42:17 — Why Worst-Case Visualization Undermines Your Decisions 46:22 — Final Advice: Become Interested in What Others Are Actually Saying _ This Episode's Guest: Jackie Valdez Website: https://saintsintraining.com/ [https://saintsintraining.com/] _ About the Host Simon Vetter Website: https://simonvetter.com/ [https://simonvetter.com/]LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thevisionarchitect/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/thevisionarchitect/]

Tom Adams: Plan and Prepare for the Future | #205

Most business leaders approach organizational problems through traditional business lenses—marketing strategies, financial models, and operational efficiencies. Yet executive coach Tom Adams reveals that the most persistent business challenges often stem from personal issues masquerading as corporate problems. Through 25 years of coaching experience, Adams has developed a counterintuitive approach that starts not with business metrics, but with personal vision and values. The conversation begins with Adams' unconventional career path, illustrating how following fascinations rather than rigid plans can lead to unexpected opportunities. His transition from ministry to fashion entrepreneurship, then to television hosting and podcasting, demonstrates how media platforms can serve as powerful business development tools when traditional consulting approaches fail. This "multi-door" philosophy—entering rooms with many potential exits rather than linear career paths—forms the foundation of his coaching methodology. At the core of Adams' approach is the principle that business owners must first clarify their personal vision before attempting to craft organizational direction. He employs a rigorous pre-engagement process that explores clients' deepest values, regrets, and life aspirations before addressing any business concerns. This includes examining what success looks like if they had unlimited resources, what they would do with limited time, and what personal habitats reveal about their operational patterns. Only after establishing this personal foundation does Adams transition to business strategy, ensuring that organizational goals serve life objectives rather than the reverse. Adams introduces several transformative frameworks, including his values-based success metrics that begin with "I know I'm being successful when..." statements. These move beyond financial targets to encompass meaningful work, enjoyable relationships, curiosity exploration, and non-adversarial self-relationships. His 25-year planning concept—visualizing life at age 85 and working backward—provides a long-term perspective that prevents short-term reactive decision-making. The discussion pivots to technological adaptation, where Adams shares insights on AI's impact on the future of work. He predicts fundamental shifts in how we measure "units of work," with AI agents enabling individuals to accomplish what previously required teams. His concept of "new collar work" describes emerging roles that prioritize skills over traditional credentials in the AI era. However, he emphasizes that technological adaptation requires the same personal foundation as business leadership—presence, curiosity, and self-trust. Adams concludes with practical embodiment practices drawn from equine therapy, demonstrating how physical presence and body awareness enable better decision-making. His "mirror" concept—asking "how am I complicit in creating the conditions I say I don't want?"—provides a powerful tool for personal accountability that transforms both leadership effectiveness and business outcomes. Highlights * Identify how personal beliefs and patterns create recurring business challenges that traditional solutions can't fix * Develop a 25-year personal vision that informs business strategy rather than serving external success metrics * Implement values-based success measurements that prioritize meaningful work and relationships over financial targets alone * Leverage AI and automation to transform work units while maintaining human connection and intuition * Practice embodiment techniques that improve decision-making by connecting intellectual planning with physical presence * Apply the "mirror" concept to recognize personal complicity in unwanted business outcomes Important Concepts and Frameworks * Personal Problems Disguised as Business Problems — The framework that most persistent organizational challenges stem from underlying personal issues, beliefs, or patterns that manifest in business operations * 25-Year Planning Framework — A long-term visioning approach that starts with imagining life 25 years in the future and working backward to create present-day alignment * Values-Based Success Metrics — A system for measuring success through personal values statements beginning with "I know I'm being successful when..." rather than external financial targets * Equine Therapy for Presence — Using work with horses to develop body awareness and presence, as horses respond to embodied connection rather than intellectual intention * New Collar Work — Emerging job categories in the AI era that prioritize skills and adaptability over traditional educational credentials * Unit of Work Transformation — How AI and automation are fundamentally changing what constitutes a "unit of work" and how value is created * The Mirror Concept — The practice of asking "how am I complicit in creating the conditions I say I don't want?" to identify personal responsibility in challenging situations Tools & Resources Mentioned * TomAdams.com — Tom Adams' personal website and primary platform for his coaching practice and resources | https://www.tomadams.com/ [https://www.tomadams.com/] * Flourish Press — Tom Adams' executive coaching and advisory company focused on helping business owners thrive | https://flourishpress.com [https://flourishpress.com] * BOSU Ball — Balance training equipment used for developing physical presence and body awareness as part of leadership development | https://bosu.com [https://bosu.com] * AI Agents — Automated systems that perform tasks and make decisions, transforming how work gets accomplished in the AI era Calls to Action 1. Conduct a personal visioning session exploring what your life would look like with unlimited success, limited time, and identifying deep regrets to clarify true priorities before setting business goals. 2. Implement a quarterly review of your values using "I know I'm being successful when..." statements to ensure business decisions align with personal fulfillment metrics. 3. Practice daily embodiment exercises—such as standing on a BOSU ball or focused breathing—to develop the body awareness needed for intuitive decision-making. 4. Schedule time each week to explore new technologies and AI tools with curiosity rather than resistance, focusing on how they could transform your "unit of work." 5. When facing business challenges, ask the mirror question: "How am I complicit in creating these conditions I say I don't want?" to identify personal patterns needing adjustment. 6. Begin 25-year planning by visualizing what you want your life to look like at age 85, then work backward to identify immediate actions that support that long-term vision. Key Quotes * "Most business problems are personal problems in disguise." — Tom Adams * "Anytime you hit a wall, it's a mirror." — Tom Adams * "How am I complicit in getting the conditions I say I don't want?" — Tom Adams * "I know I'm being successful when I wake up every morning and do the work I wanna do." — Tom Adams * "We built a business to serve our life, and now what we do is just serve the business." — Tom Adams Chapters 00:00 — Unconventional Career Paths: Following Fascination Over Linear Planning 04:48 — Media as Business Development: From TV Hosting to Client Acquisitio...

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Unlocking Heart Coherence for Creative Performance and Stress Resilience | #204

When stress hijacks your decision-making and creativity feels blocked, the solution may lie in regulating your heart's rhythm rather than just managing your thoughts. This episode reveals how heart coherence—the smooth, efficient pattern of heartbeats associated with positive emotions—serves as a physiological foundation for peak performance, creative insight, and emotional resilience. Through decades of research at the HeartMath Institute, Bruce Cryer demonstrates that our emotional states directly influence heart rhythms, with frustration creating chaotic patterns while appreciation generates coherent sine waves. The conversation explores the profound implications of this heart-brain connection, revealing that stressful triggers initiate 1,400 biochemical changes in the body—a survival mechanism that now works against us in modern life. Unlike relaxation, coherence represents focused alertness—the "eye of the hurricane" state that enables first responders and surgeons to perform under pressure while maintaining clarity. This physiological state amplifies brain function, making coherent thinking and creative problem-solving more accessible. Practical applications extend from individual stress management to organizational culture transformation. The Inner Quality Management framework shows how heart coherence principles can enhance team communication, particularly by ensuring quieter team members feel heard—often unlocking their creative contributions. Beyond workplace applications, the discussion reveals how playfulness serves as the "wonder drug of creativity," counteracting the heavy-heartedness that blocks innovation. Bruce introduces his VYBRATO system and the Wave of Relief technique—practical methods for releasing accumulated stress and generating positive emotional waves. These approaches address the modern epidemic of overwhelm by teaching people to consciously create internal states of appreciation and gratitude rather than being overwhelmed by external pressures. The episode provides concrete strategies for integrating heart coherence practices into daily life, from simple breathing techniques to movement breaks that counteract sedentary work patterns. Highlights * Shift from chaotic to coherent heart rhythms by focusing on appreciation and gratitude to enhance decision-making clarity * Practice the Wave of Relief technique to release accumulated stress through intentional breathing and imagery * Incorporate movement and nature exposure to counteract sedentary work patterns and stimulate creative thinking * Apply playfulness as a strategic tool for enhancing team creativity and communication in workplace environments * Use heart-focused breathing to regulate emotional responses during stressful meetings or challenging conversations * Develop daily coherence practices through scheduled reminders to build emotional resilience circuitry Important Concepts and Frameworks * Heart Coherence — The smooth, efficient pattern of heartbeats associated with positive emotional states that enhances brain function and overall physiological efficiency | https://www.heartmath.org/ [https://www.heartmath.org/] * Inner Quality Management (IQM) — A framework developed by HeartMath for applying coherence principles to individual and organizational performance | https://www.heartmath.org/research/research-library/organizational/an-inner-quality-approach-to-reducing-stress-and-improving-physical-and-emotional-well-being-at-work/ [https://www.heartmath.org/research/research-library/organizational/an-inner-quality-approach-to-reducing-stress-and-improving-physical-and-emotional-well-being-at-work/] * VYBRATO System — Bruce Cryer's methodology for creating positive emotional waves to counteract stress and overwhelm * Wave of Relief Technique — A breathing and imagery practice for releasing accumulated stress and tension * Coherence vs. Relaxation Distinction — Understanding that coherence represents focused alertness rather than passive relaxation, enabling high-performance under pressure Tools & Resources Mentioned * HeartMath Institute — Research organization that pioneered heart coherence science and applications | https://www.heartmath.org/ [https://www.heartmath.org/] * Bruce Cryer's Platforms — Website, LinkedIn newsletter, and social media channels for accessing his teachings | https://brucecryer.com [https://brucecryer.com/] * Stanford University — Institution where Bruce teaches courses on creativity and performance | https://www.stanford.edu/ [https://www.stanford.edu/] * Dr. Joe Dispenza's Work — Research connecting heart coherence with brain function and healing | https://drjoedispenza.com/ [https://drjoedispenza.com/] Calls to Action 1. Set hourly reminders to practice heart-focused breathing combined with feelings of appreciation for someone or something you genuinely love 2. Implement the Wave of Relief technique whenever you notice tension building—breathe in as if receiving positive energy from the ocean, then exhale fully to release what you're holding onto 3. Schedule regular movement breaks throughout your workday, especially outdoors when possible, to counteract sedentary patterns and stimulate creative thinking 4. Practice making quieter team members feel heard in meetings by actively listening and acknowledging their contributions before moving to more vocal participants 5. Intentionally bring playful energy to challenging situations by finding moments of genuine human connection, even during routine interactions Key Quotes * "Coherence is not relaxation. Coherence means you can be an EMT first responder and go into an incredibly dangerous situation and still function at a high level." — Bruce Cryer * "Playfulness is the wonder drug of creativity." — Bruce Cryer * "The heart's coherence is a huge booster because the heart's so powerful, it sets the tone in the body." — Bruce Cryer * "We have to let go more often. We have to, and there's something designed into our body called a sigh of relief." — Bruce Cryer * "Every human being, we're born to create life. Whether we create another life isn't even the point." — Bruce Cryer Chapters 00:24 — Introduction to Heart Coherence and Emotional Physiology 01:22 — The Heart as Intelligence System Beyond Mechanical Pump 04:58 — Live Demonstration of Emotional Impact on Heart Rhythms 08:27 — Daily Practices for Building Heart Coherence Resilience 13:53 — Physiological Costs of Chaotic Heart Signals on Body Systems 18:43 — Applying Coherence Principles to Leadership and Team Dynamics 25:30 — Creativity, Playfulness and Reawakening Creative Expression 34:07 — Simple Movement and Nature Practices for Enhanced Creativity 37:28 — Introducing the VYBRATO System for Modern Stress Management 41:53 — The Wave of Relief Technique for Releasing Accumulated Tension 45:42 — Accessing Resources and Continuing the Coherence Journey - - - - This Episode's Guest: Bruce Cryer - Strategy & Performance Partner Website: https://brucecryer.com [https://brucecryer.com] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brucecryer/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/brucecryer/] - - - - About the Host - Simon Vetter Website: https://simonvetter.com/ [https://simonvetter.com/] LinkedIn...

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