Where Do I Put The Ashes (& other topics you should talk about!)

Special Guest: Cancer Widow dips into the dating scene; Finds Love.

keywords widow, dating, grief, cancer, parenting, relationships, love, family, emotional challenges, support summary In this episode of 'Widows Dating Divorce Dads', host Ona engages in a heartfelt conversation with Jennifer, a widow who shares her journey through grief, parenting, and finding love again after the loss of her husband to cancer. The discussion covers the emotional challenges of navigating new relationships while dealing with past trauma, the importance of family dynamics, and the resilience required to move forward in life. Jennifer's story serves as an inspiration for others in similar situations, highlighting the complexities of love, loss, and the pursuit of happiness. takeaways * It's important to establish rules when blending families. * Grief can manifest in unexpected ways during new relationships. * Communication with children about loss is crucial. * Dating apps can be a helpful tool for finding love again. * Survival mode often kicks in during times of crisis. * Maintaining normalcy for children is a priority during grief. * Emotional baggage from past relationships can complicate new ones. * It's okay to seek happiness after loss. * Every widow's journey is unique and should not be judged. * Moving forward does not mean moving on from the past. titles * Navigating Love After Loss * The Journey of a Widow Sound Bites * "I wanted him home with me." * "You go into survival mode." * "It's always moving." Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/widows-dating-divorced-dads/exclusive-content [https://redcircle.com/widows-dating-divorced-dads/exclusive-content]

Special Guest : Medium Sandy Scheschuk

In this episode, hosts Ona and Megan welcome Sandy Scheschuk, a medium, to discuss her journey into mediumship, the training involved, and the intersection of spirituality and religion. She also answers your most asked questions - from reaching pet spirits to cost! Sandy finishes with a short reading for Megan to share messages from her late husband - including how he feels about her Divorced Dad! Sandy emphasizes the continued presence and influence of loved ones in spirit, while also exploring the spiritual connections that can guide us in life. Her work is truly comforting and a gift! Connect with Sandy on IG : sandy_the_intuitive or visit her website : www.sandyscheschuk.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/widows-dating-divorced-dads/exclusive-content [https://redcircle.com/widows-dating-divorced-dads/exclusive-content]

Where Do I Put The Ashes (& other topics you should talk about!)

Ona and Megan delve into the complexities of grief, funeral arrangements, and the emotional and financial challenges faced by widows. They share personal stories about navigating the aftermath of loss, discussing everything from clothing choices for memorial services to the importance of having difficult conversations about life insurance and financial planning. This is the real and RAW experience of a widow and an episode you'll want to share with your NON widowed friends! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/widows-dating-divorced-dads/exclusive-content [https://redcircle.com/widows-dating-divorced-dads/exclusive-content]

Judgements and Assumptions from Others

summary In this episode, Ona and Megan discuss their experiences navigating life as widows, focusing on the judgments and assumptions they face from others. They share personal stories about their weekends, the challenges of dating after loss, and the expectations placed on them in new relationships. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding and kindness towards those who are grieving, as well as the complexities of financial planning and support in their new lives. takeaways * Grief is a personal journey that others may not understand. * Judgments about how one should grieve can be hurtful. * Dating after loss can bring its own set of judgments. * It's important to communicate openly about expectations in new relationships. * Financial stability is a crucial topic for widows and divorced dads. * Support from friends can make a significant difference in the grieving process. * Assumptions about moving on can lead to misunderstandings. * It's okay to prioritize your own needs and feelings after loss. * People often project their own fears and judgments onto others. * Kindness and understanding are essential when supporting someone who is grieving. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Weekend Recap 11:33 Navigating Grief and Judgment 26:39 Dating After Loss 36:28 Assumptions About New Relationships 50:10 Financial Judgments and Planning for the Future Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/widows-dating-divorced-dads/exclusive-content [https://redcircle.com/widows-dating-divorced-dads/exclusive-content]

Why We Start Fights With Our Divorced Dads

Going through such a profound loss as a widow brings up all sorts of emotions, some which trigger arguments with our Divorced Dads. Hear what we've been struggling with and how we get through all the feelings! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/widows-dating-divorced-dads/exclusive-content [https://redcircle.com/widows-dating-divorced-dads/exclusive-content]