Performative Pride (Ep. 25)

Performative Pride (Ep. 25)

This week, we hear from a listener questioning if work they initially deemed to be  meaningful has become compromised.  We talk about the uneasy space where visibility, marketing, and identity collide. When does representation become performative? What does it mean to be asked to “sign off” on authenticity? And how do you hold onto your values while working within systems that reward optics over substance? It’s a conversation about compromise, integrity, and what it takes to stay grounded when your work both reflects and reshapes who you are. If you’ve ever felt proud of what you do and uncomfortable with it at the same time, this one’s for you. Have a question? Email us at info@askatherapistpod.com, use the link below, or DM us on IG or TikTok at @askatherapist_pod Submit Your Question Here! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdKJUY5M6pgr7Y6TkUK9InxKqfVo4ExGNkTEeGQPXsinjCWwA/viewform] Find Kenzie at therapy-with-kenzie.com [https://www.therapy-with-kenzie.com/] or @therapywithkenzie Find Carli at Psychology Today Profile [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/carli-c-king-pittsburgh-pa/394138] or @carlikinglmft

High-Functioning ADHD (Ep. 24)

In this episode, we respond to a listener letter from a woman in her 40s who was recently diagnosed with ADHD—and is now trying to navigate what that means for her daily life. We explore how ADHD often shows up differently in women, including the less visible (but equally challenging) symptoms like mental overload, chronic overwhelm, and internal restlessness. We also talk about why so many women go undiagnosed for years—and the emotional impact of finally having answers. Most importantly, this episode is packed with practical, realistic strategies to help you work with your brain instead of against it. We cover ways to reduce overwhelm, improve focus, follow through on tasks, and strengthen executive functioning without relying on unrealistic routines or sheer willpower. Whether you’ve been recently diagnosed, suspect you might have ADHD, or simply feel stuck in cycles of distraction and unfinished projects, this conversation offers tools, validation, and a starting point for change. Have a question? Email us at info@askatherapistpod.com, use the link below, or DM us on IG or TikTok at @askatherapist_pod Submit Your Question Here! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdKJUY5M6pgr7Y6TkUK9InxKqfVo4ExGNkTEeGQPXsinjCWwA/viewform] Find Kenzie at therapy-with-kenzie.com [https://www.therapy-with-kenzie.com/] or @therapywithkenzie Find Carli at Psychology Today Profile [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/carli-c-king-pittsburgh-pa/394138] or @carlikinglmft

Limerence (Ep.23)

What’s the difference between being open to love… and getting swept up in something that isn’t grounded in reality? This week, we unpack a listener letter about a friend who falls hard and fast—every time. She calls herself a hopeless romantic, but her pattern raises a deeper question: when does optimism cross into limerence, and how is that connected to anxious attachment? In this episode, Kenzie & Carli explore why intense early feelings can feel so real, how the brain fills in emotional gaps, and how “seeing the best in people” can sometimes mask a deeper need for reassurance. We also get into the tricky part: what do you do when you see this pattern in someone you care about? How do you bring it up without sounding judgmental—or pushing them away? Tune in for a nuanced conversation about love, attachment, and the fine line between hope and overwhelm. Have a question? Email us at info@askatherapistpod.com, use the link below, or DM us on IG or TikTok at @askatherapist_pod Submit Your Question Here! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdKJUY5M6pgr7Y6TkUK9InxKqfVo4ExGNkTEeGQPXsinjCWwA/viewform] Find Kenzie at therapy-with-kenzie.com [https://www.therapy-with-kenzie.com/] or @therapywithkenzie Find Carli at Psychology Today Profile [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/carli-c-king-pittsburgh-pa/394138] or @carlikinglmft

Finding a Job After College (Ep. 22)

In this episode, we respond to a listener who’s graduating college—and feeling completely unprepared for what comes next. With pressure from family, fear about debt, and a job market that feels uncertain, they’re stuck in a question so many people in their 20's face: What am I supposed to do with my life? Add in mixed messages about “following your passion” and the illusion that everyone else has it figured out, and it’s easy to feel behind before you’ve even started. We unpack the myth of having one clear passion, and discuss why your first job is better viewed as a stepping stone—not a lifelong commitment. This episode offers practical strategies for making decisions without perfect clarity, and building a career that supports your life—not the other way around. If you’re feeling lost, behind, or overwhelmed about your future, this conversation will help you take the pressure off—and focus on your next step instead of your entire life plan. Have a question? Email us at info@askatherapistpod.com, use the link below, or DM us on IG or TikTok at @askatherapist_pod Submit Your Question Here! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdKJUY5M6pgr7Y6TkUK9InxKqfVo4ExGNkTEeGQPXsinjCWwA/viewform] Find Kenzie at therapy-with-kenzie.com [https://www.therapy-with-kenzie.com/] or @therapywithkenzie Find Carli at Psychology Today Profile [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/carli-c-king-pittsburgh-pa/394138] or @carlikinglmft

Estranged on Mother's Day (Ep. 21)

Kicking off season 3, we respond to a listener letter about estrangement from a parent—just in time for Mother’s Day. Our listener shares the painful decision to cut off contact with her mom after years of repeated boundary violations. Now, as Mother’s Day approaches, she’s facing pressure from loved ones who don’t understand her choice—leaving her questioning whether her boundary is valid or if she’s just avoiding. We talk about what it really means to set a boundary after patterns of harm, how to tell the difference between avoidance and self-protection, and why other people’s opinions—especially those who haven’t lived your experience—can create so much doubt. We also explore the emotional complexity of estrangement, including grief, guilt, love, and relief coexisting at the same time. If you’ve ever felt torn between family expectations and your own well-being, this conversation is for you. Have a question? Email us at info@askatherapistpod.com, use the link below, or DM us on IG or TikTok at @askatherapist_pod Submit Your Question Here! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdKJUY5M6pgr7Y6TkUK9InxKqfVo4ExGNkTEeGQPXsinjCWwA/viewform] Find Kenzie at therapy-with-kenzie.com [https://www.therapy-with-kenzie.com/] or @therapywithkenzie Find Carli at Psychology Today Profile [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/carli-c-king-pittsburgh-pa/394138] or @carlikinglmft