I Might Die Like My Dad — But I Don't Have to Live Like Him | Mike Signorelli

I Might Die Like My Dad — But I Don't Have to Live Like Him | Mike Signorelli

Mike Signorelli has preached to thousands in Times Square. Built one of the fastest growing churches in America. Has a film, books, millions of followers. And behind all of it — infidelity, alcoholism, a marriage that should have ended a thousand times over, and a father wound so deep it almost took everything. In this episode Mike gets brutally honest about what the worst season of his life actually looked like, what sobriety and accountability cost him, and the sentence that changed everything — I might die like my dad, but I don't have to live like him. This one goes deep. Stay with it. In this episode: * Growing up in extreme poverty with abusive men cycling through the house — and what that environment taught Mike about what a man was supposed to be * Why everyone has a father wound — and why you won't recognize yours until a season opens it * How Mike went from ordained minister to alcoholism and multiple infidelities — and what he did to stop * The medically supervised detox journey and why sobriety was the unlock that changed everything * Why addiction lives most in high-functioning people — and what that means for the divorced dad who thinks he has it together * The sentence that changed everything — I might die like my dad but I don't have to live like him * What real accountability actually looks like — not by title but by reality * Why Mike had to restructure his driving routes to break neural pathways associated with sin * The pit bull analogy — whatever hurt you will heal you — and why a father wound gets healed by inviting another man in * His daughter's story — the curses he didn't break before she was born, the bed conversation that shifted everything, and 40,000 people on the mall in Washington * The moment without a process leaves you seven times worse — why the school community matters more than the altar call * What Mike wants the divorced dad white-knuckling the weekend alone to know right now * The Unoffendable Heart — Mike's new book on rebuilding a heart free of bitterness and offense Connect with Mike Signorelli: * Website: mikesignorelli.com * Pre-order The Unoffendable Heart: mikesignorelli.com * Instagram / YouTube / Social: @MikeSignorelli * Church: V1 Church — multiple campuses across New York City Metro Connect with Anthony & Divorced Dads of America: * Apply for 1-on-1 coaching: https://bit.ly/3PfPU0f [https://bit.ly/3PfPU0f] * Join the free Skool community: https://bit.ly/3Z83e97 [https://bit.ly/3Z83e97] * Instagram: @divorceddadsofamerica

Stop Trying. Your Kids Are Drowning and You're Standing at the Edge of the Pool

If your child was drowning in a pool — would you try to save them? No. You would save them. No hesitation. No planning. No wondering if you were ready. So why are you still trying to become the man they need? The word trying sounds like progress. It feels like effort. But underneath it is something most divorced dads will never admit out loud — an exit strategy. Today Anthony breaks down why trying is secretly killing your rebuild, where the programming came from, and what it actually looks like to decide instead of try. In this episode: * Why trying is not a commitment — it is an exit strategy dressed up as effort * Dr. Carol Dweck's Stanford research on why the word itself changes the neurological commitment your brain makes * Where the trying programming came from — and why a child's language is running an adult man's decisions * The fear underneath trying — failure, judgment, comparison, and full ownership with no exit * The Decision Line framework — four areas where divorced dads need to stop trying and start deciding * The British Journal of Health Psychology study showing 91% follow-through when effort becomes a specific scheduled decision * The Harvard 30-year study on what separated men who thrived after major life disruption from men who stayed stuck * Proverbs 16:3 and the standard God actually sets — not try, commit * The specific exercise that turns a vague try into a decided plan before you go to sleep tonight Connect with Anthony & Divorced Dads of America: * Apply for 1-on-1 coaching: https://bit.ly/3PfPU0f [https://bit.ly/3PfPU0f] * Join the free Skool community: https://bit.ly/3Z83e97 [https://bit.ly/3Z83e97] * Instagram: @divorceddadsofamerica

You Were There — But You Weren't: What My Daughter Taught Me About Presence

Anthony showed up to his daughter's performance. He was in the building. He took work calls. He missed the second half. When he asked her how the show was she said — you were there. But you weren't. That sentence hit like a punch in the face. This episode is the confession, the repair, and the rule that came out of one of his biggest misses as a dad. It is for every divorced dad who has been physically present and emotionally absent — and every dad who needs to know it is not about falling down. It is about how fast you get back up. In this episode: * Why kids feel your absence before they can articulate it — and the neuroscience behind why presence is not the same as being in the room * The Journal of Marriage and Family research showing that distracted presence is worse than less time fully present * Why high-functioning divorced dads slip back into old patterns — and the MIT habit research that explains why it happens automatically * The three-sentence apology that repairs faster than any explanation — please forgive me, I was wrong, I can do better * Dr. John Gottman's repair research and why a clean apology is the single most important predictor of relationship health * The rule Anthony made after that moment — and the UC Santa Barbara implementation intention research that proves why rules beat willpower * James 5:16 and why confession in front of your kids is one of the most powerful things a father can model * The specific decision you make before you walk in the door — and how to build your own presence rule starting today Connect with Anthony & Divorced Dads of America: * Apply for 1-on-1 coaching: https://bit.ly/3PfPU0f [https://bit.ly/3PfPU0f] * Join the free Skool community: https://bit.ly/3Z83e97 [https://bit.ly/3Z83e97] * Instagram: @divorceddadsofamerica

He Camped on the Floor With His Kids After Divorce — Troy Casey on the Body, the Rebuild, and the Truth Nobody Tells You

Troy Casey is 60 years old, built like a man half his age, and has been through everything a divorced dad fears most. The couch. The DUI. The savings account vaporized overnight. Starting over with nothing but a Kia and a credit card. And through all of it — camping on the floor with his kids on a mattress and calling it enough. In this episode Troy gets raw about what divorce actually does to a man's body and mind, why breath work at 4am saved his sanity, and the non-negotiables that rebuilt him from the floor up. This one goes places other episodes don't. Stay with it. In this episode: * What looping negative thoughts at 4am actually sound like from a man who has been there * The breath work practice Troy started on his couch that cleared his head when everything was falling apart * Why he chose not to be a victim when he had every reason to be — and what that decision actually looked like * The $63,000 savings account that got vaporized — and how he rebuilt from zero * Why camping on the floor with his kids was enough — and what that season actually built * The nine pillars of health Troy has used for 20 years to stay physically and mentally sharp through divorce and rebuild * Why sleep, movement, organic food, and pure water are non-negotiables — not lifestyle choices * What porn is actually doing to divorced dads biochemically and why it compounds the pain * The phone notification problem — why every ping is hitting your nervous system and what to do about it * Gratitude as a daily practice — the 90-day challenge that changed Troy's trajectory post-divorce * Proximity — the single most important parenting principle for divorced dads with teenagers * What Troy would tell every divorced dad who is in the middle of it right now Connect with Troy Casey: * Website: certifiedhealthnut.com * Instagram / YouTube / Facebook: @CertifiedHealthNut * Book: Ripped at 50 — A Journey to Self-Love Connect with Anthony & Divorced Dads of America: * Apply for 1-on-1 coaching: https://bit.ly/3PfPU0f [https://bit.ly/3PfPU0f] * Join the free Skool community: https://bit.ly/3Z83e97 [https://bit.ly/3Z83e97] * Instagram: @divorceddadsofamerica

You Say Your Kids Are Everything — So Why Won't You Do Everything?

Every divorced dad says his kids are everything. But when it comes to doing everything to become the man they need — the excuses show up. I'm trying. Life is hard. I don't have enough time. This episode is the one nobody wants to hear and everybody needs. Anthony breaks down the real cost of avoidance, the three excuses that keep divorced dads stuck, and the Accountability Architecture that separates the builders from the drifters. You already know what you need to do. Today you stop avoiding it. In this episode: * Why avoidance is not about laziness — the University of Calgary research on what procrastination is actually protecting you from * The three excuses divorced dads use to stay stuck — and why each one is a choice disguised as a circumstance * Why trying is not the same as deciding — and what commitment actually looks like in practice * The Wharton School research on why "I don't have time" is never really about time * The Accountability Architecture — three pillars that build the daily structure your rebuild actually needs * Kelly McGonigal's Stanford research on stress and why the pressure you're feeling is your fuel not your enemy * The 40-year developmental study on what your kids are actually learning from watching you right now * Why you need someone who will call you out not cheer you on — and the research that proves why it works * Galatians 6:9 and the promise that belongs to the process not the dramatic moment * Commit and own it — or repeat the year. There is no third option. Connect with Anthony & Divorced Dads of America: * Apply for 1-on-1 coaching: https://bit.ly/3PfPU0f [https://bit.ly/3PfPU0f] * Join the free Skool community: https://bit.ly/3Z83e97 [https://bit.ly/3Z83e97] * Instagram: @divorceddadsofamerica