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"I Was Sat On The Kitchen Floor With A Bottle Of Wine And Drugs Coming." — James Sutton

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He was in your living room every night. He played the first gay character most of us ever saw kiss another man before watershed on Channel 4. Men still message him today saying his character saved their life. Behind the scenes, he was drinking alone on his kitchen floor on a Tuesday afternoon, waiting for someone to deliver drugs, freshly divorced, trapped in a cycle he thought was freedom. This is James Sutton. And this conversation went somewhere neither of us expected. We talk about: * Growing up in Staffordshire — working class, post-industrial, no investment, no future * Moving to Liverpool and becoming John Paul McQueen on Hollyoaks * Playing TV's most iconic LGBT character as a straight man — and the weight of that responsibility * The guy who watched in secret in his bedroom, and is now married with two adopted children * "I was sat on the kitchen floor with a bottle of wine. Someone was going to deliver drugs. My wife had left me." * The gradual collapse — not a rock bottom, just the same bad day on repeat * Leaving Hollyoaks after 22 years — why autonomy mattered more than safety * Building Protocol: weekly letters, keynote speaking, a course for men, and a book called How To Become Reliable Again * The man crush segment that broke us both — Michael B Jordan, Ryan Reynolds, Declan Rice, Xabi Alonso, Paul Brunson, Henry Cavill * Casting a UK Friends — Alan Carr, Zach Polanski, Paloma Faith, Olivia Dean, Lauren Lo Sung * Dating at 43: "I like redheads. I'm terrified. I don't know what I'm doing." * Marvyn offers to matchmake him live on air * Three tips each for men who feel stuck — gym, talking, service, self-trust, and making peace with your parents * "Stop making promises to yourself that you're not going to keep" This is the best podcast I've ever done. His words. Not mine. Welcome to The Marvyn Harrison Podcast — a story-driven conversation exploring identity, fatherhood, masculinity, relationships, culture, politics, sport, and modern life. In each episode, Marvyn Harrison sits down with leading thinkers, creatives, athletes, policymakers, and cultural voices to unpack the defining moments that shaped them. Through image prompts, structured storytelling, and revealing game segments, guests explore pivotal memories, career turning points, personal struggles, and the beliefs that guide their decisions today. Expect honest discussions on mental health, family dynamics, leadership, equity, ambition, resilience, and the realities of navigating success in Britain and beyond. This is a podcast about clarity, where lived experience meets sharp cultural insight. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

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episode "I Was Sat On The Kitchen Floor With A Bottle Of Wine And Drugs Coming." — James Sutton cover

"I Was Sat On The Kitchen Floor With A Bottle Of Wine And Drugs Coming." — James Sutton

He was in your living room every night. He played the first gay character most of us ever saw kiss another man before watershed on Channel 4. Men still message him today saying his character saved their life. Behind the scenes, he was drinking alone on his kitchen floor on a Tuesday afternoon, waiting for someone to deliver drugs, freshly divorced, trapped in a cycle he thought was freedom. This is James Sutton. And this conversation went somewhere neither of us expected. We talk about: * Growing up in Staffordshire — working class, post-industrial, no investment, no future * Moving to Liverpool and becoming John Paul McQueen on Hollyoaks * Playing TV's most iconic LGBT character as a straight man — and the weight of that responsibility * The guy who watched in secret in his bedroom, and is now married with two adopted children * "I was sat on the kitchen floor with a bottle of wine. Someone was going to deliver drugs. My wife had left me." * The gradual collapse — not a rock bottom, just the same bad day on repeat * Leaving Hollyoaks after 22 years — why autonomy mattered more than safety * Building Protocol: weekly letters, keynote speaking, a course for men, and a book called How To Become Reliable Again * The man crush segment that broke us both — Michael B Jordan, Ryan Reynolds, Declan Rice, Xabi Alonso, Paul Brunson, Henry Cavill * Casting a UK Friends — Alan Carr, Zach Polanski, Paloma Faith, Olivia Dean, Lauren Lo Sung * Dating at 43: "I like redheads. I'm terrified. I don't know what I'm doing." * Marvyn offers to matchmake him live on air * Three tips each for men who feel stuck — gym, talking, service, self-trust, and making peace with your parents * "Stop making promises to yourself that you're not going to keep" This is the best podcast I've ever done. His words. Not mine. Welcome to The Marvyn Harrison Podcast — a story-driven conversation exploring identity, fatherhood, masculinity, relationships, culture, politics, sport, and modern life. In each episode, Marvyn Harrison sits down with leading thinkers, creatives, athletes, policymakers, and cultural voices to unpack the defining moments that shaped them. Through image prompts, structured storytelling, and revealing game segments, guests explore pivotal memories, career turning points, personal struggles, and the beliefs that guide their decisions today. Expect honest discussions on mental health, family dynamics, leadership, equity, ambition, resilience, and the realities of navigating success in Britain and beyond. This is a podcast about clarity, where lived experience meets sharp cultural insight. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

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episode Raneem's Law: How One Family's Loss Is Changing 999 Forever cover

Raneem's Law: How One Family's Loss Is Changing 999 Forever

In August 2018, Raneem Uday and her mother Khaula Saleem were murdered in the West Midlands despite multiple 999 calls made that night. The system failed them — not through a single act of negligence, but through structural gaps in how those calls were handled and risk was assessed. What followed is a study in what grief becomes when it meets determination. Raneem's aunt, Nour Norris, campaigned for what is now Raneem's Law — a programme embedding domestic abuse specialists directly inside 999 control rooms, in real time. Not on a phone line. Not available for consultation. In the room. Phase one launched across five police forces. This week, the government announced phase two: 12 additional forces, bringing the total to 17 of 43, with a full rollout across England and Wales committed by 2029. Early data shows increased handler confidence, earlier identification of high-risk cases, and faster safeguarding deployment. This episode also covers the government's broader Violence Against Women and Girls strategy — over £1 billion over three years, targeting a halving of VAWG within a decade — and what it will take for that target to hold across political cycles, funding changes, and cultural shifts. Helpline signposting for show notes: National Domestic Abuse Helpline (Refuge): 0808 2000 247 — free, confidential, 24/7 Men's Advice Line: 0808 801 0327 Karma Nirvana (honour-based abuse/forced marriage): 0800 599 9247 Galop (LGBT+): galop.org.uk Welcome to The Marvyn Harrison Podcast — a story-driven conversation exploring identity, fatherhood, masculinity, relationships, culture, politics, sport, and modern life. In each episode, Marvyn Harrison sits down with leading thinkers, creatives, athletes, policymakers, and cultural voices to unpack the defining moments that shaped them. Through image prompts, structured storytelling, and revealing game segments, guests explore pivotal memories, career turning points, personal struggles, and the beliefs that guide their decisions today. Expect honest discussions on mental health, family dynamics, leadership, equity, ambition, resilience, and the realities of navigating success in Britain and beyond. This is a podcast about clarity, where lived experience meets sharp cultural insight. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

26. juni 202612 min
episode Keir Starmer Has Resigned. What Does It Mean For Us? cover

Keir Starmer Has Resigned. What Does It Mean For Us?

This morning, Keir Starmer walked out of Downing Street and resigned as Prime Minister of the United Kingdom. In this solo episode, Marvyn Harrison cuts through the noise and asks the questions the rolling news cycle won't slow down long enough to answer. How does a landslide majority of 172 seats collapse in two years? What does this moment mean for Black and Brown communities who voted Labour in 2024? And should we trust Andy Burnham with what comes next? Honest, data-driven, and unfiltered. Marvyn Harrison https://marvynharrison.co.uk [https://marvynharrison.co.uk/] https://www.instagram.com/discoverwithmarvyn/ [https://www.instagram.com/discoverwithmarvyn/] https://x.com/Marvyn_Harrison [https://x.com/Marvyn_Harrison] https://www.tiktok.com/@marvyn_harrison [https://www.tiktok.com/@marvyn_harrison] https://www.linkedin.com/in/marvynharrison [https://www.linkedin.com/in/marvynharrison] https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCd2CF9uBPHy91ASAMWqDSOQ [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCd2CF9uBPHy91ASAMWqDSOQ] The Marvyn Harrison Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/3cIh6ejnk3lUUVhqSKzPUS [https://open.spotify.com/show/3cIh6ejnk3lUUVhqSKzPUS] https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-marvyn-harrison-podcast/id1456522027 [https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-marvyn-harrison-podcast/id1456522027] https://www.instagram.com/marvynharrisonpodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/marvynharrisonpodcast/] Welcome to The Marvyn Harrison Podcast — a story-driven conversation exploring identity, fatherhood, masculinity, relationships, culture, politics, sport, and modern life. In each episode, Marvyn Harrison sits down with leading thinkers, creatives, athletes, policymakers, and cultural voices to unpack the defining moments that shaped them. Through image prompts, structured storytelling, and revealing game segments, guests explore pivotal memories, career turning points, personal struggles, and the beliefs that guide their decisions today. Expect honest discussions on mental health, family dynamics, leadership, equity, ambition, resilience, and the realities of navigating success in Britain and beyond. This is a podcast about clarity, where lived experience meets sharp cultural insight. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

22. juni 202619 min
episode Sickle Cell, the NHS, and the Fight to Be Believed — with Prof. Arlene Wellman MBE cover

Sickle Cell, the NHS, and the Fight to Be Believed — with Prof. Arlene Wellman MBE

It's World Sickle Cell Day, and the NHS Modernisation Bill, which proposes a single patient record bringing together a patient's full medical history in one place, has just reached committee stage in Parliament. In this episode, we speak with Professor Arlene Wellman MBE: a senior nurse leader and strategic adviser at the Florence Nightingale Foundation with over 27 years' experience across the NHS, and the first internationally educated nurse to serve as a Group Chief Nurse. She's also the mother of a son living with sickle cell disorder. We talk about what it's like to repeatedly explain a chronic condition mid-crisis, the gaps in NHS information-sharing that can cost real harm, and whether the single patient record will actually reach the people who need it most, the ambulance crew at 2am, the unfamiliar A&E department, the moment when missing information is the difference between fast treatment and dangerous delay. Guest: Professor Arlene Wellman MBE, Florence Nightingale Foundation Welcome to The Marvyn Harrison Podcast — a story-driven conversation exploring identity, fatherhood, masculinity, relationships, culture, politics, sport, and modern life. In each episode, Marvyn Harrison sits down with leading thinkers, creatives, athletes, policymakers, and cultural voices to unpack the defining moments that shaped them. Through image prompts, structured storytelling, and revealing game segments, guests explore pivotal memories, career turning points, personal struggles, and the beliefs that guide their decisions today. Expect honest discussions on mental health, family dynamics, leadership, equity, ambition, resilience, and the realities of navigating success in Britain and beyond. This is a podcast about clarity, where lived experience meets sharp cultural insight. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

18. juni 202623 min
episode I Was In The Room When The UK Banned Social Media For Under-16s cover

I Was In The Room When The UK Banned Social Media For Under-16s

Two days' notice. One email. "Are you available on the 15th at 7:30am to talk to Liz Kendall about some work she's doing." That's how this started. What followed was a morning inside Downing Street watching Keir Starmer announce a ban on social media for every child under 16 in the country — backed by a consultation of 116,000 responses, where 83% of parents said the risks outweigh the benefits and 90% backed a minimum age of 16. In this episode: the announcement itself, the room reaction (the applause said more than the press release did), my exchange with Starmer on Big Tech, Trump, and whether this ban is about his legacy or his leadership week, and then the interview I actually went there for — sitting down with Technology Secretary Liz Kendall to ask about Roblox, parents who are already maxed out, and a question that doesn't get asked enough in rooms like that: what this means for racism online in our community. I'll tell you straight — one of those answers didn't go far enough for me, and I say so. Then we get into the FAQs doing the rounds in every parenting group: is this digital ID by the back door, what's happening with VPNs, why doesn't this cover Roblox, what about dumbphones, and what's the actual timeline. This isn't a press release read back to you. This is what it actually looked like from inside the room. Timestamps: 00:00 — How this access happened 03:10 — Inside Downing Street: the room, the access, the other journalists 07:40 — Starmer's announcement and the room's reaction 12:20 — Starmer takes questions: Big Tech, Trump, the G7, his leadership week 18:00 — Why this ban, not just regulation 22:15 — Liz Kendall: what success looks like 24:50 — Roblox, gaming platforms, and stranger contact 27:30 — Parents who are already stretched thin 30:00 — The question on race and racism online 33:00 — Marvyn's honest take on that answer 36:00 — FAQs: digital ID, VPNs, dumbphones, timeline 42:00 — Final thoughts Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MarvynHarrison [https://www.youtube.com/@MarvynHarrison] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marvynharrisonpodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/marvynharrisonpodcast/] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marvyn_harrison [https://www.tiktok.com/@marvyn_harrison] LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/marvynharrison [https://linkedin.com/in/marvynharrison] Welcome to The Marvyn Harrison Podcast — a story-driven conversation exploring identity, fatherhood, masculinity, relationships, culture, politics, sport, and modern life. In each episode, Marvyn Harrison sits down with leading thinkers, creatives, athletes, policymakers, and cultural voices to unpack the defining moments that shaped them. Through image prompts, structured storytelling, and revealing game segments, guests explore pivotal memories, career turning points, personal struggles, and the beliefs that guide their decisions today. Expect honest discussions on mental health, family dynamics, leadership, equity, ambition, resilience, and the realities of navigating success in Britain and beyond. This is a podcast about clarity, where lived experience meets sharp cultural insight. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

16. juni 202640 min