Dr. Pepper and Friends

Episode 30: Meet Your Parts MANAGERS

13 min · 11. juni 2026
episode Episode 30: Meet Your Parts MANAGERS cover

Beskrivelse

In Episode 4 of Dr. Pepper & Friends: Where Grit and Grace Come Together for Wholehearted Living, Dr. Pepper Pratt continues the series The Parts Within Us: Healing the Inner System by introducing one of the most influential groups within the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model: Managers. Have you ever felt exhausted from trying to keep everything together? Do you replay conversations, overthink decisions, struggle to say no, or live with an inner critic that never seems satisfied? According to IFS, these may be Manager Parts at work. Managers are proactive protectors. Their job is to keep us safe, accepted, successful, and protected from emotional pain. They often show up as perfectionists, people pleasers, controllers, performers, overthinkers, and critics. While they may appear demanding or controlling, their deeper motivation is usually fear. In this episode, you'll learn: • What Managers are and why they develop • How Managers attempt to protect wounded parts of us • The hidden fears beneath perfectionism, people-pleasing, control, and criticism • How faith and fear can sometimes become intertwined • What Jesus teaches us about trust versus control • A personal story from Dr. Pepper's early days in private practice and the lessons God taught him about dependence and trust • Practical questions to help you identify and understand your own strongest Manager Part Whether you're currently in therapy, curious about Internal Family Systems, interested in emotional healing, or seeking a deeper understanding of yourself through a faith-informed lens, this episode offers practical insight and hope. Next episode, we'll meet the Firefighters—the parts that rush in when emotional pain breaks through and demand immediate relief. If this episode helps you, please subscribe, share it with a friend, and join us as we pursue wholehearted living together. The Pratt Clinic, PLLC Hope • Healing • Restoration Connect with Dr. Pepper Pratt for counseling resources, emotional wellness content, marriage enrichment, trauma recovery, faith integration, and personal growth.

Kommentarer

0

Vær den første til at kommentere

Tilmeld dig nu og bliv en del af Dr. Pepper and Friends-fællesskabet!

Kom i gang

1 måned kun 9 kr.

Derefter 99 kr. / måned · Opsig når som helst.

  • Podcasts kun på Podimo
  • 20 lydbogstimer pr. måned
  • Gratis podcasts

Alle episoder

69 episoder

episode Episode 30: Meet Your Parts MANAGERS cover

Episode 30: Meet Your Parts MANAGERS

In Episode 4 of Dr. Pepper & Friends: Where Grit and Grace Come Together for Wholehearted Living, Dr. Pepper Pratt continues the series The Parts Within Us: Healing the Inner System by introducing one of the most influential groups within the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model: Managers. Have you ever felt exhausted from trying to keep everything together? Do you replay conversations, overthink decisions, struggle to say no, or live with an inner critic that never seems satisfied? According to IFS, these may be Manager Parts at work. Managers are proactive protectors. Their job is to keep us safe, accepted, successful, and protected from emotional pain. They often show up as perfectionists, people pleasers, controllers, performers, overthinkers, and critics. While they may appear demanding or controlling, their deeper motivation is usually fear. In this episode, you'll learn: • What Managers are and why they develop • How Managers attempt to protect wounded parts of us • The hidden fears beneath perfectionism, people-pleasing, control, and criticism • How faith and fear can sometimes become intertwined • What Jesus teaches us about trust versus control • A personal story from Dr. Pepper's early days in private practice and the lessons God taught him about dependence and trust • Practical questions to help you identify and understand your own strongest Manager Part Whether you're currently in therapy, curious about Internal Family Systems, interested in emotional healing, or seeking a deeper understanding of yourself through a faith-informed lens, this episode offers practical insight and hope. Next episode, we'll meet the Firefighters—the parts that rush in when emotional pain breaks through and demand immediate relief. If this episode helps you, please subscribe, share it with a friend, and join us as we pursue wholehearted living together. The Pratt Clinic, PLLC Hope • Healing • Restoration Connect with Dr. Pepper Pratt for counseling resources, emotional wellness content, marriage enrichment, trauma recovery, faith integration, and personal growth.

11. juni 202613 min
episode Episode 29: Meet Your Parts: Your Truest Self cover

Episode 29: Meet Your Parts: Your Truest Self

Have you ever noticed that sometimes you're anxious, reactive, defensive, or overwhelmed... and other times you're calm, compassionate, curious, and grounded? What if those moments reveal something important about who you really are? In Episode 3 of The Parts Within Us: Healing the Inner System, Dr. Pepper Pratt explores one of the most powerful concepts in Internal Family Systems (IFS): the Governing Self. Building on the foundation of Episodes 1 and 2, you'll learn: • Why you are not your anxiety, anger, shame, or fear • The difference between your parts and your Governing Self • The Eight C's of Self Leadership • How Managers, Firefighters, and Exiles interact inside your internal system • Why curiosity is one of the most powerful tools for healing • How faith and IFS can work together in understanding the human heart Drawing from Internal Family Systems, the work of Richard Schwartz, and faith-integrated perspectives such as Jenna Riemersma's Altogether You, this episode explores how healing begins when the Self leads rather than our protective parts. If you've ever felt stuck in old patterns, frustrated with yourself, or confused by your reactions, this conversation will help you better understand your inner world and begin leading it with greater wisdom, compassion, and clarity. 🎧 Listen, subscribe, and join us as grit and grace come together for wholehearted living.

2. juni 202615 min