#70: How to Be Yourself Beyond the Expectations and Stories You Inherited

#70: How to Be Yourself Beyond the Expectations and Stories You Inherited

Have you ever stopped and asked yourself: is this actually me, or was I taught this? Most of what we believe about ourselves including what we deserve, how we’re supposed to act, what’s possible for us, etc…  didn’t come from us. It came from family, school, workplaces, society, and a thousand small moments where we absorbed other people’s expectations without realizing it. It’s called conditioning. And in this episode, the second in the Summer of the Self series, we’re looking at where it comes from and how to start spotting it in your own life. From money beliefs passed down from parents, to workplace rules about emotions, to the pervasive idea that taking time for yourself as a mother is selfish, conditioning is everywhere. The good news is that awareness is the first step to moving beyond it. This week’s reflection prompt: pick one belief you’ve been carrying for a long time and ask yourself… where did it actually come from? Does it still serve you? Resources and Next Steps: Not sure what your decision-making style is? Get your free Human Design chart in 2 minutes. https://www.maryclavieres.com/getyourchart [https://www.maryclavieres.com/getyourchart] Ready to stop second-guessing yourself? Book a Decision Making Accelerator session and we’ll dive into YOUR specific style, with practical next steps you can use immediately. https://www.maryclavieres.com/decision-making-accelerator [https://www.maryclavieres.com/decision-making-accelerator] Find Mary Here: Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-clavieres-19917a7/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-clavieres-19917a7/] Instagram: www.instagram.com/mary.clavieres [http://www.instagram.com/mary.clavieres] Voxer: @ maryclavieres Additional Resources: Mind Body Connection Unlocked (Book) [https://www.maryclavieres.com/book]  Listen to Ep 48 and the Decision Making Series [https://www.maryclavieres.com/decision-making-podcast] to learn more about your unique decision making style Thanks for being here!

#69: How to Find Yourself Again: A Summer Series on Coming Back to You

Have you ever looked at your life and thought… this all looks great on paper, but something isn’t quite right? That feeling of having checked all the boxes, done all the things, and still feeling a disconnect inside is something a lot of us experience. We just don’t always have the words for it. And we usually don’t know how to handle it either. This episode kicks off the Summer of the Self. A new series of short, reflective episodes designed to help you come back to you.  In this first episode I’m sharing two stories from my own life where I found myself exactly here along with a reflection prompt to ge you started on the next step of your journey. Resources and Next Steps: Not sure what your decision-making style is? Get your free Human Design chart in 2 minutes. https://www.maryclavieres.com/getyourchart [https://www.maryclavieres.com/getyourchart] Ready to stop second-guessing yourself? Book a Decision Making Accelerator session and we’ll dive into YOUR specific style, with practical next steps you can use immediately. https://www.maryclavieres.com/decision-making-accelerator [https://www.maryclavieres.com/decision-making-accelerator] Find Mary Here: Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-clavieres-19917a7/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-clavieres-19917a7/] Instagram: www.instagram.com/mary.clavieres [http://www.instagram.com/mary.clavieres] Voxer: @ maryclavieres Additional Resources: Mind Body Connection Unlocked (Book) [https://www.maryclavieres.com/book]  Listen to Ep 48 and the Decision Making Series [https://www.maryclavieres.com/decision-making-podcast] to learn more about your unique decision making style Thanks for being here!

#68: Family Dynamics and Energy Types: How to Stop Expecting Everyone to Operate Like You Do

Why does one child wake up ready to go while the other needs the whole morning to ease in? Why does your partner have already run three errands before you’ve finished your first cup of tea? It might not be personality. It might be your energy type. In this episode I’m talking about family dynamics through the lens of Human Design energy types and what changes when you stop expecting everyone in your household to operate the same way you do. I’m sharing real examples from my own family of four (two energy types, four very different Saturday mornings), including what it looks like to have one sacral-defined child and one non-sacral child, and why understanding that difference has changed how we plan vacations, weekends, and pretty much everything else. If you’ve ever felt frustrated that someone in your house doesn’t operate on your schedule — or that you’re always the one who needs more rest — this episode will give you a new way to look at it. Resources and Next Steps: Not sure what your decision-making style is? Get your free Human Design chart in 2 minutes. https://www.maryclavieres.com/getyourchart Ready to stop second-guessing yourself? Book a Decision Making Accelerator session and we’ll dive into YOUR specific style, with practical next steps you can use immediately. https://www.maryclavieres.com/decision-making-accelerator Find Mary Here: Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-clavieres-19917a7/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/mary.clavieres Voxer: @ maryclavieres

#67: When Your Body Becomes the Bridge: A Grounded Approach to Spirituality and Connecting with the Universe

Have you ever had something happen that felt like too much of a coincidence to be a coincidence? This episode is a little different. I’m sharing the side of mind-body connection work that doesn’t always get talked about… what happens when you go deeper. When you start noticing synchronicities. When your intuition gets louder. When you feel, maybe for the first time, like you’re part of something bigger. I’m sharing personal stories… hearing voices in the night that turned out to be no one, seeing my grandfather’s ghost as a teenager, a trip to the south of France that left me completely changed, and what all of it has taught me about the connection between the physical world and the energetic one. We are layered, complex beings. If you feel practical AND believe in synchronicities, this episode is for you. Resources and Next Steps: Not sure what your decision-making style is? Get your free Human Design chart in 2 minutes. https://www.maryclavieres.com/getyourchart [https://www.maryclavieres.com/getyourchart] Ready to stop second-guessing yourself? Book a Decision Making Accelerator session and we’ll dive into YOUR specific style, with practical next steps you can use immediately. https://www.maryclavieres.com/decision-making-accelerator [https://www.maryclavieres.com/decision-making-accelerator] Find Mary Here: Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-clavieres-19917a7/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-clavieres-19917a7/] Instagram: www.instagram.com/mary.clavieres [http://www.instagram.com/mary.clavieres] Voxer: @ maryclavieres Additional Resources: Mind Body Connection Unlocked (Book) [https://www.maryclavieres.com/book]  Listen to Ep 48 and the Decision Making Series [https://www.maryclavieres.com/decision-making-podcast] to learn more about your unique decision making style Thanks for being here!

#66: Behind the Scenes: Human Design Reading About Energy, Identity and Showing Up with Chelsea Lauren

Ever wonder what a real Human Design reading looks like? This episode is something I’ve never done before on the show… a live Human Design reading with my friend and book editor, Chelsea Lauren. Chelsea is a first-time mom, self-publishing guide, and someone who’s been deconditioning from years of morphing into whoever she thought people wanted her to be.  We’re diving into her chart to talk about what it means to be a projector (the lighthouse energy that’s always scanning and taking in information), why she’s heard “I don’t need a solution, I just want to vent” so many times, and how rest isn’t giving up control… it’s trusting. This conversation is for anyone who’s ever wondered:  Is there a reason I operate this way?  Why do I feel bitter when people don’t see me?  Why do I need alone time AND people? Even if you’re not a projector, you’ll see how Human Design helps you understand your energy patterns instead of fighting them. Resources and Next Steps: Not sure what your decision-making style is? Get your free Human Design chart in 2 minutes. https://www.maryclavieres.com/getyourchart [https://www.maryclavieres.com/getyourchart] Ready to stop second-guessing yourself? Book a Decision Making Accelerator session and we’ll dive into YOUR specific style, with practical next steps you can use immediately. https://www.maryclavieres.com/decision-making-accelerator [https://www.maryclavieres.com/decision-making-accelerator] Find Chelsea Here: https://representpublishing.com/ [https://representpublishing.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/representpublishing [https://www.instagram.com/representpublishing] Find Mary Here: Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-clavieres-19917a7/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-clavieres-19917a7/] Instagram: www.instagram.com/mary.clavieres [http://www.instagram.com/mary.clavieres] Voxer: @ maryclavieres Additional Resources: Mind Body Connection Unlocked (Book) [https://www.maryclavieres.com/book]  Listen to Ep 48 and the Decision Making Series [https://www.maryclavieres.com/decision-making-podcast] to learn more about your unique decision making style Thanks for being here!