Girl On A Hill

Quiet Resignation: The Engaged Soul

Have you ever felt like you’re watching your life happen from the sidelines? Like the volume has been turned down on your joy just as much as it has on your stress? It’s time to trade that quiet resignation we’re settling for and re-engage our souls. We continue our Spring Resetting of the Heart and Mind series by talking about what it looks like to come back to life. Not in a dramatic, overnight way—but in the small, everyday choices to stop checking out and start showing up again. Today, we’re digging into why we trade our calling for comfort and the high cost of playing it safe. We numb, disengage, and convince ourselves that “it is what it is” - and while it may feel like we’re protecting our peace, we’re often just disconnecting from the very things that make us feel alive. We’re learning how to let the world matter to us again. To be just a little braver. A little more hopeful. A little more alive.

The Available Heart: Getting Rid of the Interruption Mindset

We continue our Spring Resetting of the Heart and Mind series by talking about what it means to have an Available Heart. In this episode, we confront the “Interruption Mindset”—the subtle habit of treating people like distractions instead of invitations. We explore where it shows up, why we default to it, and what it quietly costs us in our relationships. Most importantly, we cast a vision for a different way of living—one marked by presence, curiosity, and connection. Through simple, practical shifts, you’ll learn how to move from reacting to receiving, creating space for the people in your life to feel seen, heard, and genuinely welcomed.

Spring Resetting of the Heart and Mind: The Radical Ally

We continue our Spring Resetting of the Heart and Mind series by talking about what it means to be a Radical Ally. In this episode, we confront the subtle but damaging habit of “rooting for the wreck”—that quiet satisfaction when someone else stumbles or struggles. We explore where this pattern shows up, what it reveals about our hearts, and how it quietly robs us of connection, compassion, and joy. Most importantly, we cast a vision for a better way—becoming people who are genuinely for others, who celebrate wins, show up in the hard moments, and refuse to turn someone else’s life into comparison or entertainment. This episode is an invitation to move from spectators to supporters, and to become the kind of presence that brings life into every room we walk into.

Spring Resetting of the Heart and Mind: The Safe Harbor - Shutting Down the Critic

We continue our Spring Resetting of the Heart and Mind series by talking about what it means to be a Safe Harbor. In this episode, we’re looking at that 'inner editor'—the critic that quietly interrupts, compares, and accidentally dismisses the joy of others. We’ll uncover why we do it, what it costs us, and how that critical spirit shrinks our world and dims the light in our relationships. We’re exploring how to shift our focus toward protecting the 'spark' in the people around us through small, intentional practices—things like letting minor details be wrong, asking curious questions, and simply noticing someone else's joy. The goal is to become the kind of person others feel safe to 'unfold' around, moving away from being the world’s proofreader and toward a much deeper, more vibrant connection with the people in our lives.

Spring Resetting of the Heart and Mind 5.0: Compassionate Conviction

We all have things we believe in deeply, but in our current culture, those convictions are often being communicated through contempt. This week, we begin our Spring Reset by deconstructing the pattern of "Conviction without Compassion." Today we’re taking an honest look at the patterns of division ravaging our communities and families. We move past the surface-level outrage to look at why our brains crave the safety of "being right," the heavy cost of chronic contempt, and wisdom from Scripture and psychology that show us a better way. We’ll discuss how it’s possible to hold convictions firmly while remaining kind, curious, and courageous—and how choosing this path can create space for understanding, growth, and hope to take root.