#190: The Link Between Trauma, Clutter, and Letting Go | Lianne Hofer

#193: Your Purpose Isn't Lost, It's Remembered | Elzie Flenard III

Your Purpose Isn't Lost, It's Remembered What if everything you've been searching for was already inside you waiting to be unlocked? In this powerful episode of the Grasp Confidence Podcast, host Tara sits down with Elzie Flanard III — entrepreneur, speaker, author, and founder of The Crown Room — for a raw, faith-filled conversation that every Christian entrepreneur needs to hear right now. Elzie breaks down why your purpose was never missing, it was always there and why the moment you stop searching and start surrendering is the moment everything changes. From building businesses God's way, to navigating client loss through answered prayer, to understanding the difference between faith in yourself and faith in Christ, this episode will challenge you, convict you, and call you higher. If you've been struggling with clarity, confidence, or conviction in your entrepreneurship journey, this is your sign to keep going. Powerful quotes from the episode: "How do you find something that's not lost?" — Elzie "When I see you, I see Him. That's the biggest compliment anybody has ever given me." — Tara "When your dream is big enough, people are probably going to laugh at it. If they don't, it's probably not big enough." — Elzie "I asked God to remove everything that wasn't from Him. I lost three clients in one week and received 15 to 20 new inquiries the same week." — Tara In this episode, we cover: * Why your business is a ministry and how to lead it like one * The difference between your general purpose and your specific assignment * How unchecked pride silently blocks your alignment and your breakthrough * Why God-given dreams are always big enough to be laughed at * What it truly means to have faith in Christ vs. faith in yourself * How to pray bold, honest prayers and trust God when He answers them Connect with Elzie [https://www.linkedin.com/in/elzieflenard/] on LinkedIn + Support His work! 📖 Book: The Flame Starter [https://www.amazon.com/Flame-Starter-Self-Mastery-Elzie-Flenard-ebook/dp/B0BMKCTN51/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2VZIGTQPE9C1O&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.RfI_gNCu_WQ1CowoH4A6p_vXQxLDOLm8fFcmZxUG9Rn1dxFuJINQzyUH0_eEj2CR.HlxktSxQLWPrpjgyGfbF88kflev9-ckE-9j8QRE8n3A&dib_tag=se&keywords=The+Flame+Starter&qid=1780755494&s=digital-text&sprefix=%2Cdigital-text%2C296&sr=1-1] 🎙️ Podcast: Journey to Mastery [https://www.elzieflenard.com/podcast] 🎧 Loved this episode? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grasp-confidence-personal-growth-for-leaders-and-high/id1703502670] and share your biggest takeaway, it means the world! What does GRASP stand for? Gratitude. Responsibility. Action. Sight. Purpose. These five pillars are the foundation of authentic, confident leadership — and every episode is designed to help you embody them more fully in your life, business, and calling. 🎙️ Not subscribed yet? Join thousands of high-performing leaders who tune in weekly for powerful conversations with world-class guests; real stories, mindset shifts, and actionable insights you can use immediately. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ If today's episode moved you, a quick review helps us reach more leaders like you. Thank you! 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grasp-confidence-personal-growth-for-leaders-and-high/id1703502670] | Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3CpfzhPSQxCUiuC1fvYaqW?si=9386769187ad404b] | Amazon/Audible [https://www.amazon.com/GRASP-Confidence/dp/B0CLK72LC2/ref=sr_1_5?crid=38Q52L9IH95ZK&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Xz7cmxDeDx64AqoSmZvjALmIG6xQ0qh3JcaK8AnGEBj6YNyUG7hJgbymav2gEna3ih74frCJuG84ZqbDiU8OGQ.iT5bNFG1LoPg1On1SPEuDIYiY4wDqJg8fsZpXtoBoXw&dib_tag=se&keywords=tara+lafon+gooch&qid=1764088474&sprefix=tara+lafon%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-5] | iHeartRadio [https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-grasp-confidence-personal-123635469] Follow Tara: LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/tara-lafon-gooch/] | YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@TaraLaFonGooch] | Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/taralafongooch/] | Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/tara.lafon.gooch] 🚀 Ready to elevate your brand? Tara's agency, Best Branding Solutions [https://bestbranding.solutions/], helps leaders and businesses build a brand presence that's as powerful as their vision. Let's grow together. 💛 Share the love — send this episode to someone who needs it, or post it on your favorite platform. We rise by lifting others.

#192: How One Letter Healed 27 Years of Trauma Through Forgiveness | The TEDx Talk That Never Happened

Have you ever carried a wound for so long that it started to feel normal? So normal, in fact, that you didn't realize how much it was shaping your decisions, your relationships, and your life? A few months ago, I was preparing to deliver a TEDx talk in Los Angeles, CA (a dream for any speaker) on a subject that is deeply personal to me: forgiveness. The talk centered around my 27-year journey of forgiving my father, the freedom I found on the other side of resentment, and the lessons God taught me through one of the most difficult yet transformative decisions of my life. Then the event was canceled! For a few days, I questioned why. I had invested months preparing the talk and believed it would be shared from a TEDx stage. Yet as I prayed through the disappointment, I began to realize something profound: perhaps the message was never meant for that audience at all. In this special solo episode, I am sharing the TEDx talk exactly as it was written, followed by my reflections on what happened after the cancellation and what God taught me through the experience. We explore the example of Jesus on the cross, His radical act of forgiveness toward those who crucified Him, and the powerful exchange with the thief beside Him when Jesus declared, "Today you will be with me in paradise." We also discuss why unforgiveness can quietly become a stumbling block in our walk with Christ and how forgiveness often unlocks a level of freedom we never knew was possible. Most importantly, I share how what initially felt like rejection became redirection. Through this experience, God reminded me that His plans are always greater than our own and that faith is trusting Him even when circumstances are disappointing, confusing, or uncertain. If you've ever wrestled with forgiveness, carried a wound from your past, or wondered why a door unexpectedly closed, I pray this episode encourages you to trust God's timing, release what you've been carrying, and embrace the freedom that comes through forgiveness. Sometimes the message we think is meant for a stage is actually meant for a heart. Thank you for listening. 🎧 Tune in now and please leave a review on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grasp-confidence-personal-growth-for-leaders-and-high/id1703502670] with your favorite takeaway! What does GRASP stand for? Gratitude. Responsibility. Action. Sight. Purpose. These five pillars form the foundation of authentic, confident leadership and every episode of the GRASP Confidence Podcast is designed to help you embody them more fully in your life, business, and calling. 🎙️ Have you subscribed yet? Join thousands of high-performing leaders who tune in weekly for powerful conversations with world-class guests sharing real stories, mindset shifts, and actionable insights. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ If you loved today's episode, don't forget to leave a review—it helps us reach more leaders like you. 🎧 Available on: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grasp-confidence-personal-growth-for-leaders-and-high/id1703502670] | Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3CpfzhPSQxCUiuC1fvYaqW?si=9386769187ad404b] | Amazon/Audible [https://www.amazon.com/GRASP-Confidence/dp/B0CLK72LC2/ref=sr_1_5?crid=38Q52L9IH95ZK&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Xz7cmxDeDx64AqoSmZvjALmIG6xQ0qh3JcaK8AnGEBj6YNyUG7hJgbymav2gEna3ih74frCJuG84ZqbDiU8OGQ.iT5bNFG1LoPg1On1SPEuDIYiY4wDqJg8fsZpXtoBoXw&dib_tag=se&keywords=tara+lafon+gooch&qid=1764088474&sprefix=tara+lafon%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-5] | iHeartRadio [https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-grasp-confidence-personal-123635469] Share the inspiration Send this episode to a friend or post it on your favorite social platform, we rise by lifting others.

#191: The Truth About Being "Different" (And Why It's Your Greatest Advantage)| Dan Roth

What if everything you believe about confidence, perfection, and "making it" is wrong? In this powerful episode, Tara sits down with TEDx speaker Dan Roth [https://www.linkedin.com/in/danrothstrategy/] to unpack the reality behind the red circle and the deeper story most people never hear. "There wasn't a single person that didn't go in nervous… what you're seeing is a very edited version." From the outside, TEDx looks polished. Perfect. Effortless. But behind the scenes? It's pressure, vulnerability, and facing parts of yourself you can't hide from. The Hidden Battle Behind the Message Dan shares his deeply personal journey from being diagnosed as neurodivergent at just five years old, navigating eating disorders, body dysmorphia, and identity struggles that often go unspoken—especially for men. "You have an inability to look at yourself in the mirror with satisfaction… it leads to anxiety, depression…" This isn't just a conversation about speaking. It's about what it costs to be seen and what it takes to finally accept yourself. The Dangerous Lie About Success (and TEDx) So many speakers chase TEDx as the ultimate goal. But what if that mindset is exactly what keeps people stuck? "The top of one mountain is the bottom of another." "It's not the end all be all… it's the launchpad." Dan breaks down the reality: * Why TEDx isn't the finish line * Why most people overestimate its impact * And how chasing validation (views, titles, recognition) can quietly erode your sense of worth "Now you're constantly checking the views… and putting your value on a number." Sound familiar? The Shift That Changes Everything This episode challenges you to rethink: * Confidence * Identity * Leadership * And what it really means to make an impact Because the truth is… "We're never fully there… there's no finish line." "If you expect me to be the person I was six months ago, you're following the wrong person." Growth isn't about arriving. It's about evolving. Why This Episode Matters If you've ever: * Questioned your worth based on external validation * Felt like you had to "look perfect" to be taken seriously * Or believed success would finally make you feel enough This conversation will shift your perspective. Because the real power isn't in the performance… It's in the truth you're willing to share. Listen now and discover what's really behind the TEDx stage and how to own your story without apology. And if this episode resonates with you, leave a review on Apple Podcasts and share your biggest takeaway—we'd love to hear how this conversation impacted you. Learn more about Dan and connect with him! Social Media Links https://www.linkedin.com/in/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mentalhealthmotivated/]danrothstrategy https://www.instagram.com/danrothconsulting/ [https://www.instagram.com/danrothconsulting/] https://www.youtube.com/@DanRothSpeaker https://www.tiktok.com/@danrothconsulting [https://www.tiktok.com/@danrothconsulting] https://www.gravityspeakers.com/speakers/dan-roth [https://www.gravityspeakers.com/speakers/dan-roth] Email: BookDantoSpeak@gmail.com [BookDantoSpeak@gmail.com] What does GRASP stand for? Gratitude. Responsibility. Action. Sight. Purpose. These five pillars form the foundation of authentic, confident leadership and every episode of the GRASP Confidence Podcast is designed to help you embody them more fully in your life, business, and calling. 🎙️ Have you subscribed yet? Join thousands of high-performing leaders who tune in weekly for powerful conversations with world-class guests sharing real stories, mindset shifts, and actionable insights. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ If you loved today's episode, don't forget to leave a review—it helps us reach more leaders like you. 🎧 Available on: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grasp-confidence-personal-growth-for-leaders-and-high/id1703502670] | Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3CpfzhPSQxCUiuC1fvYaqW?si=9386769187ad404b] | Amazon/Audible [https://www.amazon.com/GRASP-Confidence/dp/B0CLK72LC2/ref=sr_1_5?crid=38Q52L9IH95ZK&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Xz7cmxDeDx64AqoSmZvjALmIG6xQ0qh3JcaK8AnGEBj6YNyUG7hJgbymav2gEna3ih74frCJuG84ZqbDiU8OGQ.iT5bNFG1LoPg1On1SPEuDIYiY4wDqJg8fsZpXtoBoXw&dib_tag=se&keywords=tara+lafon+gooch&qid=1764088474&sprefix=tara+lafon%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-5] | iHeartRadio [https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-grasp-confidence-personal-123635469] Share the inspiration Send this episode to a friend or post it on your favorite social platform, we rise by lifting others.

#190: The Link Between Trauma, Clutter, and Letting Go | Lianne Hofer

What if the freedom and closure you've been searching for… is on the other side of what you haven't let go of? In this powerful and deeply personal episode, we sit down with Lianne Hofer—TEDx speaker, author, and decluttering expert—to explore a conversation that goes far beyond organizing your home. Because what if the clutter in your life isn't just physical… but emotional? Lianne is someone I recently had the honor of coaching for her talk at TEDx Sugar Creek Women, and her message is one that will stay with you long after this episode ends. Why do we hold on to things, even when they no longer serve us? Together, we unpack the deeper connection between clutter, trauma, and the emotional weight we carry from our past. Lianne shares how our environments often reflect our inner world—our habits, our pain, our patterns, and even our unprocessed experiences. This conversation reveals something most people don't realize: Clutter isn't just "stuff." It's protection. It's avoidance. It's unhealed emotion. From childhood experiences of shame to the subconscious ways we try to create safety, we dive into how these patterns form and how they quietly hold us back from stepping into our full potential. What if letting go could unlock clarity, confidence, and a completely new chapter of your life? As we explore the themes of forgiveness and closure, you'll begin to see how releasing the past isn't just emotional work—it's transformational. Lianne shares powerful insights from her work with high-achieving women who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or weighed down—not just by belongings, but by expectations, responsibilities, and unresolved emotions. You'll discover: * Why forgiveness is essential for forward momentum * How emotional clutter manifests as physical clutter * The role shame plays in what we hold onto * Why you don't "get over" the past—you learn to work with it * How creating space in your environment can shift your mindset instantly This episode is an invitation to stop carrying what was never meant to go with you into your next season. If you're ready to experience more freedom, clarity, and peace… this is your starting point. Listen in and reflect on this simple but powerful question: What am I holding onto that I'm ready to release? If this conversation resonates with you, share it with someone who may need it, and follow the show on your favorite podcast platform for more conversations that challenge, inspire, and transform. Because sometimes… the life you're meant to live is already waiting for you. You just have to make space for it. 🎧 Tune in now and please leave a review on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grasp-confidence-personal-growth-for-leaders-and-high/id1703502670] with your favorite takeaway! What does GRASP stand for? Gratitude. Responsibility. Action. Sight. Purpose. These five pillars form the foundation of authentic, confident leadership and every episode of the GRASP Confidence Podcast is designed to help you embody them more fully in your life, business, and calling. 🎙️ Have you subscribed yet? Join thousands of high-performing leaders who tune in weekly for powerful conversations with world-class guests sharing real stories, mindset shifts, and actionable insights. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ If you loved today's episode, don't forget to leave a review—it helps us reach more leaders like you. 🎧 Available on: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grasp-confidence-personal-growth-for-leaders-and-high/id1703502670] | Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3CpfzhPSQxCUiuC1fvYaqW?si=9386769187ad404b] | Amazon/Audible [https://www.amazon.com/GRASP-Confidence/dp/B0CLK72LC2/ref=sr_1_5?crid=38Q52L9IH95ZK&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Xz7cmxDeDx64AqoSmZvjALmIG6xQ0qh3JcaK8AnGEBj6YNyUG7hJgbymav2gEna3ih74frCJuG84ZqbDiU8OGQ.iT5bNFG1LoPg1On1SPEuDIYiY4wDqJg8fsZpXtoBoXw&dib_tag=se&keywords=tara+lafon+gooch&qid=1764088474&sprefix=tara+lafon%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-5] | iHeartRadio [https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-grasp-confidence-personal-123635469] Share the inspiration Send this episode to a friend or post it on your favorite social platform, we rise by lifting others.

#189: Why High Performers with ADHD Thrive (When They Understand This) | Dr. Jennie Byrne, MD, PhD

ADHD Isn't What You Think, It Might Be Your Greatest Advantage What if the very traits that make you feel scattered, overwhelmed, or "too much"… are actually the exact traits that set you apart as a high performer? For so many professionals, ADHD is framed as a limitation. A distraction. A struggle to overcome. But what if that narrative is wrong? What if ADHD, when understood and harnessed correctly, becomes a powerful edge in leadership, creativity, and performance? Understanding the Brain Behind High Performance In this episode of GRASP Confidence, Tara sits down with Dr. Jennie Byrne; a board-certified psychiatrist who trained as both a physician and neuroscientist, and the best-selling author of Work Smart and Moral Injury. Dr. Byrne has spent her career at the intersection of brain science, behavior, and leadership, helping high-performing professionals better understand how their minds work; especially those navigating ADHD, burnout, anxiety, and the growing mental health demands of modern leadership. This conversation is especially meaningful, as Tara was also interviewed for Dr. Byrne's upcoming book on ADHD in professionals, set to release on May 12, 2026. Together, they unpack what ADHD actually looks like in high achievers and why so many successful leaders have been misunderstood, misdiagnosed, or simply never taught how to leverage their unique wiring. From Overwhelmed to Optimized If you've ever struggled with focus, consistency, or feeling like your brain is working against you… this episode will shift your perspective. You'll discover: * Why ADHD is often misunderstood in high performers * The connection between ADHD, burnout, and emotional regulation * How to work with your brain instead of fighting it * The hidden strengths behind creativity, intuition, and fast thinking * Why traditional productivity advice often fails for people with ADHD * How to turn what feels like chaos into clarity, confidence, and control This isn't about fixing yourself. It's about finally understanding how you're wired and using it to your advantage. Because when you stop trying to fit into systems that weren't designed for you… you start building a life and leadership style that actually works. Step Into a New Way of Leading and Performing If you're ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start leveraging your brain as a strength… This episode is for you. Explore Jennie's Practice: https://www.constellationpllc.com [https://www.constellationpllc.com] Connect with Jennie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjenniebyrne [https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjenniebyrne] 🎧 Tune in now to learn how to turn ADHD into a leadership advantage and redefine what it really means to thrive. What does GRASP stand for? Gratitude. Responsibility. Action. Sight. Purpose. These five pillars form the foundation of authentic, confident leadership and every episode of the GRASP Confidence Podcast is designed to help you embody them more fully in your life, business, and calling. 🎙️ Have you subscribed yet? Join thousands of high-performing leaders who tune in weekly for powerful conversations with world-class guests sharing real stories, mindset shifts, and actionable insights. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ If you loved today's episode, don't forget to leave a review—it helps us reach more leaders like you. 🎧 Available on: Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grasp-confidence-personal-growth-for-leaders-and-high/id1703502670] | Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3CpfzhPSQxCUiuC1fvYaqW?si=9386769187ad404b] | Amazon/Audible [https://www.amazon.com/GRASP-Confidence/dp/B0CLK72LC2/ref=sr_1_5?crid=38Q52L9IH95ZK&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Xz7cmxDeDx64AqoSmZvjALmIG6xQ0qh3JcaK8AnGEBj6YNyUG7hJgbymav2gEna3ih74frCJuG84ZqbDiU8OGQ.iT5bNFG1LoPg1On1SPEuDIYiY4wDqJg8fsZpXtoBoXw&dib_tag=se&keywords=tara+lafon+gooch&qid=1764088474&sprefix=tara+lafon%2Caps%2C94&sr=8-5] | iHeartRadio [https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-grasp-confidence-personal-123635469] Share the inspiration Send this episode to a friend or post it on your favorite social platform, we rise by lifting others.