"She Sold Everything, Packed 4 Kids on a Bus, and Found Out Who She Really Was

"She Sold Everything, Packed 4 Kids on a Bus, and Found Out Who She Really Was

What if the life you were trying so hard to fit into was never actually yours to begin with? That is the question Jessica DeYoung had to answer when she and her family sold everything, packed four kids and a dog onto a 40-foot motorcoach they call Abbey the Adventure Bus, and hit the road full-time across America. Four and a half years. 42 states. Thousands of miles. And one woman finally figuring out who she actually is — without the tight pants, the lipstick collection, and the convenience friends. In Episode 100 — yes, ONE HUNDRED! — of Hear Where You Belong Podcast, host Dea Irby sits down with Jessica DeYoung, author, speaker, founder of the Made Whole Movement, and host of the Perspectives into Practice Podcast. Jessica is passionate about helping women move beyond performance, people-pleasing, and hiding parts of their story so they can embrace the freedom, wholeness, and purpose God has for them. And in this conversation, she does exactly that — with refreshing honesty, contagious joy, and more than a few laugh-out-loud moments. In this episode, Jessica opens up about spending years trying to be everything everyone else needed her to be — dressing the part, talking the part, performing the part — only to discover that the circle closed right up the moment she was no longer convenient. She talks about what God stripped away when she got on the road, and what He replaced it with. She shares the story of Bubble Man on the beach — a retired man who blows bubbles and shares Jesus, and who changed the way Jessica sees what belonging can look like. She gets into the Backroads Bar — her speakeasy-style hobby bar that somehow became one of the most powerful belonging communities she has ever created. And she unpacks the quote she lives by, straight from her own Holy Spirit downloads: God rarely asks us to have it all figured out. He's usually just asking us to take the next faithful step. This is Episode 100. And it is everything that number deserves — honest, joyful, faith-filled, and full of the reminder that you do not have to earn love. You are already fully known. You are already fully loved. Just say yes. 💛 Find Jessica at the Made Whole Movement and Adventures on Purpose 🎙️ Listen to the Perspectives into Practice Podcast wherever you get your podcasts #HearWhereYouBelong, #YouBelong, #Episode100, #JessicaDeYoung, #MadeWholeMovement, #AdventuresOnPurpose, #AbbeTheAdventureBus, #FullTimeTravel, #JustSayYes, #TakeTheNextFaithfulStep, #BelongingStartsWithGod, #FullyKnownFullyLoved, #StopStriving, #NewEpisode, #ChristianPodcast, #WomensMinistry, #PerspectivesIntoPractice, #NomadFamily, #BelongingMatters, #Milestone100

There Is Nothing That Can Happen to You That God Won't Make Something Beautiful Out Of

What if the hardest year of your life — the one with the suicidal child, the estranged daughter, the house fire, and the ministry you had to give away — was actually the year God gave you the desire of your heart? That is exactly what Tony Stoltzfus discovered. And in Episode 99 of Hear Where You Belong Podcast, he shares it all with a depth and honesty that will stay with you long after the episode ends. Tony is a bestselling author of 21 books, speaker, coach, and one of the founding voices in the Christian coaching movement. Over 25 years, he has coached hundreds of leaders, trained thousands of coaches, and spent his life building communities where people experience authentic relationships, personal growth, and lasting transformation. His books include the bestselling Coaching Questions, the imaginative Heaven: Experience the Extraordinary, and How to Read the Bible Like a Human Being — a fascinating guide to bringing Scripture alive through visual imagination. In this episode, Tony opens up about growing up as the nerdy new kid who read a book a day in class with no friends — and how that loneliness drove him straight into the arms of God. He talks about the church community that blew apart and took 270 of his closest friends with it — and the moment God told him something that changed his entire approach to belonging forever: there is more glory in trusting me when you know it's not going to work than when you think it will. He shares the worship band retreat story that turned zero commitment into total devotion. The Questions for Jesus prayer method that took his answered prayer from near zero to transformational. The fire that was only the fourth most stressful thing that happened that year. And the walk in Maui where God told him to retire — and what He said when Tony asked what that meant. His favorite quote is going to make every pastor and ministry leader laugh — and then think very hard. Ministry would be great if it wasn't for the people. And his parting word — the Fellowship of Sufferings — is one of the most profound things said on this podcast yet. There is nothing that can happen to you that God won't make something beautiful out of. 💛 📚 Find all 21 of Tony's books on Amazon 🌐 Find Tony's ministry at leadershipmetaformation.com #HearWhereYouBelong, #YouBelong, #TonyStoltzfus, #NothingGodCantRedeem, #FellowshipOfSufferings, #QuestionsForJesus, #CoachingQuestions, #HowToReadTheBible, #HeavenExperience, #LeadershipMetaformation, #ChristianCoaching, #TransformationThroughSuffering, #BelongingInJesus, #NewEpisode, #ChristianPodcast, #TrustTheProcess, #GodMakesSomethingBeautiful, #AuthenticCommunity, #VulnerabilityIsStrength, #21Books

There's a Difference Between Being Included and Actually Belonging

You can sit in a room full of people and still feel completely alone. Being included is not the same as belonging — and Dr. Stuart Jones has spent his whole life learning that difference from a brother the world often overlooked. In Episode 98 of Hear Where You Belong Podcast, host Dea Irby sits down with Dr. Stuart Jones — author, speaker, ordained minister, former university vice president, and passionate advocate for disability, dignity, and human worth. His award-winning memoir, For the Love of Stephen: The Story of a Boy Who Was Never Broken, tells the true story of his brother Stephen, who was born with intellectual and developmental disabilities in 1954 — a time when children like him were routinely institutionalized, hidden away, and excluded from every aspect of community life. Stuart's parents — just 18 years old when Stephen was born — looked their family doctor in the eye and said no. No institution. No hiding. This is our son. He belongs. And he did. He joined Boy Scouts, 4H, the bowling league, the church volleyball team. He worked as a hospital janitor for 33 years. He rode his bike to work every single day. He knew no strangers — because in Stephen's world, every human being God created was someone worth knowing. 300 people showed up to his funeral just days before Christmas. In this episode, Stuart opens up about what Stephen taught him about seeing people fully — and why Temple Grandin, who wrote the foreword, calls his book essential reading for every parent of a special needs child. He shares the tricycle moment that changed his parents forever. The heartbreaking irony of how Stephen died. And the question he asked a lecture hall full of future special education teachers that stopped them cold: your students will be included. But how will you make them belong? His favorite quote — from Maya Angelou — is the one that ties it all together: People will forget what you say. People will forget what you do. But people will never forget how you made them feel. This episode will make you look differently at every person you pass today. 💛 📖 For the Love of Stephen is available on Amazon now🌐 Find Stuart at stuartdjones.com #HearWhereYouBelong, #YouBelong, #ForTheLoveOfStephen, #DrStuartJones, #DifferentNotLess, #DisabilityInclusion, #GodDontMakeNoJunk, #TruelyHuman, #BelongingNotJustInclusion, #TempleGrandin, #MayaAngelou, #NeverForgetHowYouMadeThemFeel, #DisabilityAwareness, #NewEpisode, #ChristianPodcast, #InclusionMatters, #SeeThemFully, #Psalm13914, #BelovedAndBroken, #YouAreNotOverlooked

They Said Linthead Kids Don't Go to College — He Got 3 Degrees

What do you do when everything around you — the house, the store, the school, the church — belongs to the cotton mill? When your grandfathers started working at age 9? When your daddy quit school in 8th grade because he figured the mill was his destiny anyway? If you are Donald Williams — you go to Clemson. And you do not stop until you have three degrees. In Episode 97 of Hear Where You Belong Podcast, host Dea Irby sits down with Donald Williams — educator, researcher, author, storyteller, musician, and one of the most genuinely inspiring guests this podcast has ever hosted. Donald grew up in the cotton mill villages of Rock Hill, South Carolina, became the first in his family to graduate from a major university, and eventually earned a bachelor's, master's, and doctorate — all from Clemson. He then spent more than a decade with the Department of Defense Education Activity, supporting schools and families across the United States and around the world. His co-authored book, Born of Nothing: From White Trash and Lint Heads to Purpose Across Generations, tells the raw, real, redemptive story of two families who were told they would never amount to anything — and proved every single person wrong. In this episode we talk about: 🏭 Life in a cotton mill village — where the mill owned everything including your sense of possibility👴 Grandfathers who were child laborers at age 9 — and the faith and dignity they carried anyway📚 Being the first in his family to go to college — and not even knowing what the SAT was as a senior😬 The school counselor whose face said it all — linthead kids don't go to Clemson📉 Getting 6 D's and 1 B his second semester — and the two parental voices that kept him from quitting🚪 The random knock on his dorm room door that God used to change everything🌍 Looking at a globe in 3rd grade and thinking he would never see those places — then working on the other side of the earth🎵 Writing 60 to 80 songs over a lifetime — love letters to his family and to God💛 Both of his sons earning doctorates — and what that means about breaking a generational cycle✊ Why Donald Williams will never go quietly into the night — and his grandson Noah's hilarious take on it 😄 And his favorite quote — the one that is written in his own book and lived out in every chapter of his life: Your starting point does not determine your finishing point. This episode is for every person who has ever been told — by a look, a system, a circumstance, or their own inner voice — that they cannot go further than where they started. Yes. You. Can. 💛 📖 Born of Nothing by Donald Williams and Jason Pike — available on Amazon, FREE on Kindle now!🌐 Find Donald at iamdonaldwilliams.com🎙️ Subscribe to Hear Where You Belong Podcast wherever you listen📺 Subscribe on YouTube and hit the 🔔 bell so you never miss an episode

You Are More Than What You Have Become — Leadership, Belonging, and the Courage to Be an Original

What does it take to stop trying to be a duplicate — and finally step into being the original God designed you to be? That is the question Reverend Kevin T. Taylor has been answering his entire life. And in Episode 96 of Hear Where You Belong Podcast, he answers it in a way that is going to stay with you. Kevin is an executive strategist, pastor of the oldest Black church in upstate New York, founder of the Tailored Stewardship Institute, and award-winning author of A Charge to Keep: Immutable Leadership Lessons from the C-Suite to the Pulpit. At the heart of everything he does is one unshakeable conviction: belonging is built through trust, dignity, and systems that make people feel seen, valued, and safe enough to contribute fully. In this episode, Kevin opens up about the season he walked away from pastoral ministry — convinced he did not fit the mold, that he was an outsider who had no business in the pulpit. Then came a trip to see The Lion King on Broadway. And one line from Mufasa to Simba that stopped him cold: You are more than what you have become. He also shares his remarkable vision for the future of the church — sensory rooms for autistic children, accessible spaces for seniors, classrooms for every learning style — and why belonging means designing for the people who are NOT yet in the room. Plus a conversation about AI that will completely change how you see it. Not the boogeyman. A thought partner. And listeners who stay all the way to the end? There is a special gift waiting for you. 😄 His favorite quote from Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. will leave you with exactly what you need: If you can't fly, then run. If you can't run, then walk. If you can't walk, then crawl. But whatever you do, keep moving forward. 💛 Visit Kevin at RevKTaylor.com — and mention this podcast for 10% off his coaching package. #HearWhereYouBelong, #YouBelong, #YouAreMoreThanWhatYouHaveBecome, #KeepMovingForward, #RevKevinTTaylor, #TailoredStewardshipInstitute, #AChargeToKeep, #LeadershipAndFaith, #BelongingInTheChurch, #OriginalNotDuplicate, #ChurchLeadership, #AIAndLeadership, #NewEpisode, #ChristianPodcast, #ChangeIsAProcessNotAnEvent