MEfirst Midlife Badassery Podcast

Holy synchronicities! The universe has already started moving pieces around and of course in unexpected ways. From broken ACs to unexpected job offers, I’m unpacking what happens when you put the "work" into the vision and let go of the reigns (get out of the fucking how's) and finally let the universe open the doors - instead of me muscling them open (ha!). Here’s what we dig into: * Why “accepting” your current situation can actually keep you trapped but can ALSO help you let go: what a conundrum! * How falling on the sword (for kids, jobs, relationships) can kill your spirit — even when it's from that place of acceptance. What if you stop?  * The difference between masculine “forcing” energy and feminine surrender/allowing energy in manifesting * Why abundance is more about vistas and freedom than dollar signs (but we also LOOOOOVVEEE some cash, don't get me wrong- gets me more vistas)! * How synchronicities (like dream apartments, job offers, and even massage therapists!) show up once you shift 💭 Questions to Ask Yourself This Week: 1. Where in my life am I just “sucking it up” instead of following my soul? 2. What does my version of abundance look like — and how can I feel it today? 3. What would it look like to truly put me first without guilt? 4. Where can I stop pushing and start allowing? This episode will help you see how visioning and surrendering work together — you get clear on what you want (2030 you) and then let the universe line up the path. And don’t forget: we’re taking all this visioning magic into real life at the MEfirst Live Event in Phoenix, September 20, 2025. A day of dreaming, planning, creating your future self, and walking out with your 90-day roadmap. Tickets are limited—don’t wait. 🎧 Tune in now and let’s see how quickly your future self can start showing up. Event Details: follow HERE [https://www.facebook.com/share/171hgGsZCc/] MEfirst Guide Vision & Planning Experience Fall 2025 https://www.facebook.com/events/1154466039528114 [https://www.facebook.com/events/1154466039528114] Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience Live in Phoenix/Tempe, AZ Saturday, September 20, 2025 8:30 AM - 5 PM AZ Time 7017 S. Priest Dr., Tempe, AZ 85283 Cortland @ South Mountain Clubroom What if the version of you you've been dreaming about… isn’t waiting in some far-off someday—but is ready for you right now? slayer@namaslayer.com FREE Facebook Community (aka, "The Hood": https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood [https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood] Free Visioning Meditation [https://unique-builder-7722.ck.page/0e6779ec7d] (goes with Ep 160 Unlock Your Future: Create Vision for Midlife Transformation) https://slayer.clickfunnels.com/sales-pagejp73yp0b Get Social with Me! Don't do it alone- us badasses gotta stick together ;) FREE Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood [https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood] Facebook Namaslayer [https://www.facebook.com/namaslayer] (LIVE Sundays a...

In this episode, I’m taking you inside my vision for 2030 Addie—57-year-old me who’s strong, free, and living her rich, abundant AF life. We’re talking what wealth really feels like, why freedom is my ultimate currency, and how you can start building your future self now, no matter what your current circumstances look like. You’ll walk away knowing how to: * Get crystal-clear on what your future self actually looks and feels like * Define your personal version of wealth and abundance (beyond just money) * Find ways to live those abundant feelings now, so you draw them closer * Turn big, dreamy visions into simple daily actions that create real results This isn’t just my story—it’s a framework you can use to stop drifting and start intentionally creating the life you want to wake up to in 5 years. 💭 Ask yourself: 1. What does my future self look like in detail? 2. How does she feel when she wakes up each morning? 3. What does wealth and abundance mean to me specifically? 4. Which of those feelings can I start creating today, without waiting? 5. What’s one decision I could make this week that my future self will thank me for? I’m also giving you the inside scoop on our upcoming MEfirst Guide live event in Phoenix, September 20, 2025—a small, powerful gathering for visioning, dreaming, and creating your next-level life. If you’ve ever wanted a day that could be the catalyst for the rest of your life… this is it. Event Details: follow HERE [https://www.facebook.com/share/171hgGsZCc/] MEfirst Guide Vision & Planning Experience Fall 2025 https://www.facebook.com/events/1154466039528114 [https://www.facebook.com/events/1154466039528114] Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience Live in Phoenix/Tempe, AZ Saturday, September 20, 2025 8:30 AM - 5 PM AZ Time 7017 S. Priest Dr., Tempe, AZ 85283 Cortland @ South Mountain Clubroom What if the version of you you've been dreaming about… isn’t waiting in some far-off someday—but is ready for you right now? slayer@namaslayer.com FREE Facebook Community (aka, "The Hood": https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood [https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood] Free Visioning Meditation [https://unique-builder-7722.ck.page/0e6779ec7d] (goes with Ep 160 Unlock Your Future: Create Vision for Midlife Transformation) https://slayer.clickfunnels.com/sales-pagejp73yp0b Get Social with Me! Don't do it alone- us badasses gotta stick together ;) FREE Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood [https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood] Facebook Namaslayer [https://www.facebook.com/namaslayer] (LIVE Sundays a...

What’s up, witches and bitches?! 🧙‍♀️✨ Today, we’re diving into the witchy woo of oracle card decks — because I get asked all the time what the hell to do with them. I’m breaking it all down:  🔮 How to find your first (or next!) deck  💫 How I use cards in my MEfirst magic mornings  📿 Why card pulls aren’t fortune-telling—they’re soul-whispering  🧠 How decks like these help rewire your brain (and why that matters at midlife)  🃏 Plus: I pull THREE of my favorite decks on air, just for you! You’ll meet Dance’n Daisy, a flying Pegasus, and the sex goddess herself. You’ll also get a sneak peek at how I tie card pulls into my 90-day MEfirst Guide, visioning practice, and coaching strategy. ✨ Whether you’re woo-curious or a full-blown deck diva, this episode is here to help you tap into your inner guidance and maybe laugh along the way. Oh—and guess what? Save the Date! The MEfirst live event is ON for Sept 20th in Phoenix, AZ. We’re gathering the witches and badasses to plan, vision, and slay Q4 with soul. Come be in the room. Your future self is waiting. 🖤 More Soon! Event Details: follow HERE [https://www.facebook.com/share/171hgGsZCc/] MEfirst Guide Vision & Planning Experience Fall 2025 https://www.facebook.com/events/1154466039528114 [https://www.facebook.com/events/1154466039528114] Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience Live in Phoenix/Tempe, AZ Saturday, September 20, 2025 8:30 AM - 5 PM AZ Time 7017 S. Priest Dr., Tempe, AZ 85283 Cortland @ South Mountain Clubroom What if the version of you you've been dreaming about… isn’t waiting in some far-off someday—but is ready for you right now? slayer@namaslayer.com FREE Facebook Community (aka, "The Hood": https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood [https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood] Free Visioning Meditation [https://unique-builder-7722.ck.page/0e6779ec7d] (goes with Ep 160 Unlock Your Future: Create Vision for Midlife Transformation) https://slayer.clickfunnels.com/sales-pagejp73yp0b Get Social with Me! Don't do it alone- us badasses gotta stick together ;) FREE Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood [https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood] Facebook Namaslayer [https://www.facebook.com/namaslayer] (LIVE Sundays a...

What if the life you're living now… is the reason your future self is screaming, “WTF are you doing?!” In this raw, real, and fired-up episode, Slayer takes you on a walk down both sides of the fork in the road — the path where nothing changes (aka the soul-crushing same-old), and the one where you finally say yes to becoming your future self. You'll learn: * 🚨 3 signs you're at a major turning point (hint: your soul might be banging on the inside of your fat suit 👀) * 🔮 Why reverse visioning is just as powerful as dreaming big * 🧠 How to use your mind to rewire your reality (and get your head outta your ass daily) * 🔥 Real talk about health struggles, food, burnout, and getting your spark back * 💫 The power of emotional visioning, alter egos, and badass identity shifts * 🧭 How to use “Preya” vs. “Reya” choices to create your aligned future self Plus, a sneak peek into the upcoming in-person MEfirst event in Phoenix this September — packed with planning, pool hangs, and future-self magic. 🎉 If you’re tired of going through the motions, this episode is your permission slip to stop settling, start seeing, and slay forward into your next chapter. Resources & Mentions: * Visioning book club + inspiration * “Preya vs. Reya” — search Slayer's pod archive for deep dives! * RSVP for the Sept 2025 event (details coming soon in the Namaslayer Facebook group!) ✨ Leave a review. Share with a witchy bitch. And remember: Your future self starts f*cking now.   Event Details: follow HERE [https://www.facebook.com/share/171hgGsZCc/] MEfirst Guide Vision & Planning Experience Fall 2025 https://www.facebook.com/events/1154466039528114 [https://www.facebook.com/events/1154466039528114] Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience Live in Phoenix/Tempe, AZ Saturday, September 20, 2025 8:30 AM - 5 PM AZ Time 7017 S. Priest Dr., Tempe, AZ 85283 Cortland @ South Mountain Clubroom What if the version of you you've been dreaming about… isn’t waiting in some far-off someday—but is ready for you right now? slayer@namaslayer.com FREE Facebook Community (aka, "The Hood": https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood [https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood] Free Visioning Meditation [https://unique-builder-7722.ck.page/0e6779ec7d] (goes with Ep 160 Unlock Your Future: Create Vision for Midlife Transformation) https://slayer.clickfunnels.com/sales-pagejp73yp0b Get Social with Me! Don't do it alone- us badasses gotta stick together ;) FREE Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood [https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood] Facebook Namaslayer [https://www.facebook.com/namaslayer] (LIVE Sundays a...

Slayer’s BACK in her full summer Pitta-powered glory — and this episode is a ride through alter ego land, future-self badassery, and reclaiming your fire. Inspired by a listener (shoutout to Deb a.k.a. Solera Crankfire), this episode dives deep into how to bring your superhero self to the surface and stop waiting for motivation to show up. She gets real about the power of alter egos (and why Slayer still works), mental toughness, and the two keys to success from Brooke Castillo’s latest fire drop. You’ll hear Slayer's take on her current health journey, rebuilding from burnout, and making the small daily choices your highest self would make — like ordering groceries from the pool. 💁‍♀️💦 Spoiler: the in-person event in PHOENIX is officially on for the weekend of September 20th! So grab your planner, define that badass version of you, and let’s get to work. 🕓 Timestamps + Tea: 00:00 – Intro + Listener Shoutout Deb aka Solera Crankfire reignites Slayer’s love for alter egos. Yes, podcasting can feel like screaming into the void — so hell yes for those messages. 01:30 – The Power of the Alter Ego What is an alter ego? Why should you care? How Slayer came to life and what it’s time to evolve into next. (Also: listen to Episode 9 & 159 for the OG alter ego deep dives.) 03:34 – Visioning and Future Self Vibes Batman visioning, Slayer’s woo-tech dream studio, and the mind-magic science behind visualizing who you’re becoming. 06:48 – Embodying Your Highest Self (Even When You Feel Like Crap) From breaststroke brainstorming to poolside grocery orders — Slayer shares how she catches sabotaging thoughts and rewires them for badass action. 14:39 – Mental Toughness + Work Ethic = Badass Fuel Inspired by Brooke Castillo’s “Be a Badass” series, Slayer breaks down the two traits every successful badass has — and where she's doubling down. 21:29 – Define the Damn Problem What’s actually standing between you and that future you? Slayer breaks it down: obstacles, perfectionism, commitment, and planning. 28:15 – Upcoming In-Person Event (!!!) PHOENIX. SEPTEMBER 20. Planning, floating, dreaming, hiking, vibing with your people — it’s happening. Message Slayer for early deets. 💬 Want In? 👉 Be the first to know about the Phoenix event – email slayer@namaslayer.com Event Details: follow HERE [https://www.facebook.com/share/171hgGsZCc/] MEfirst Guide Vision & Planning Experience Fall 2025 https://www.facebook.com/events/1154466039528114 [https://www.facebook.com/events/1154466039528114] Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience Live in Phoenix/Tempe, AZ Saturday, September 20, 2025 8:30 AM - 5 PM AZ Time 7017 S. Priest Dr., Tempe, AZ 85283 Cortland @ South Mountain Clubroom What if the version of you you've been dreaming about… isn’t waiting in some far-off someday—but is ready for you right now? slayer@namaslayer.com FREE Facebook Community (aka, "The Hood": https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood [https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood] Free Visioning Meditation [https://unique-builder-7722.ck.page/0e6779ec7d] (goes with Ep 160 Unlock Your Future: Create Vision for Midlife Transformation) https://slayer.clickfunnels.com/sales-pagejp73yp0b Get Social with Me! Don't do it alone- us badasses gotta stick together ;) FREE Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood [https://www.facebook.com/groups/mefirstsisterhood] Facebook Namaslayer [https://www.facebook.com/namaslayer] (LIVE Sundays a...