Worth isn't Conditional on Fixing Your Body

The Nature Embedded Mind

“We are nature” is a comforting phrase until you notice how often you live like you’re outside of it.  I sit down with Julie Brahms, author of The Nature Embedded Mind, to explore what actually helps that idea land in the body not as a belief, but as a lived experience that changes how we breathe, choose, and relate. Julie brings her work as an earth-centred psychotherapist and a nature and forest therapy guide, unpacking why reconnection is an experiential healing. We talk about forest bathing and nature therapy as a repeatable practice: starting with the senses, letting the human “expert” step back, and allowing other-than-human beings to become our teachers. Along the way we explore a simple but profound reframe: what if the question “What can I give?” is a better starting point than “What can I get?” We also get practical and evidence-based, touching on the science around stress, cortisol, nervous system regulation, and immune function, and why these benefits may be the body returning to reality rather than gaining a “boost”. From there we widen the lens to culture: separation, ranking, and the way “Am I enough?” grows out of a worldview that forgets we are linked not ranked. Julie shares why trust, intuition, and what she calls mental sovereignty matter, especially when shame tells us to stay small. If you’ve been craving belonging, steadiness, and a more grounded relationship with the Earth, press play. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs a breath of wildness, and leave us a review to help more listeners find the path back to enoughness. You can connect with Julie on Instagram and LinkedIn, and  learn more  ExperienceElemental.com Thank you for listening and taking the time to explore our podcast. Earthaconter: Connection, Exploration and Expansion www.earthaconter.org

How To Stay Human In A Polarised World

Polarisation  not only splits countries, it splits families, teams, friendships, and even our inner life. When the world feels tense, the temptation is to grip harder, pick a side, and defend it as if certainty will keep us safe. In this episode we wanted to ask a different question: how do we increase our capacity to hold two opposing possibilities, without collapsing into judgement or losing ourselves? We start with a familiar UK flashpoint, Brexit, to identify the ongoing tribalism and the quiet damage it can cause. From there we explore polarity as a spectrum rather than a binary, and the idea of a “third force” that can reconcile what looks irreconcilable. We talk about moral hijacking and the fear of losing belonging, why we feel pressure to have a strong opinion on everything, and how that pressure can shut down creativity and compassion. Along the way, we bring in adult development (including Robert Kegan), deep listening, and the value of uncertainty as an adaptive response. We use vivid nature metaphors, from grounded trees that still bend in storms to diverse ecosystems that flourish through difference, to show why creative tension is not a failure but a source of new possibilities. The invitation is practical: respect another person’s right to exist and evolve, even when you disagree, and notice what becomes possible when you stop making difference mean danger. If this resonates, listen, share it with someone you often disagree with, and subscribe or leave a review so more people can find these conversations on enoughness, belonging, and holding opposing views. Thank you for listening and taking the time to explore our podcast. Earthaconter: Connection, Exploration and Expansion www.earthaconter.org

Worth isn't Conditional on Fixing Your Body

Your body is not a problem to solve, even if you have spent years being told it is.  I sit down with Claire Ashton, a body image and eating coach with a background in health, to talk about the moment her entire relationship with food, exercise, and control was forced to change. After an accident in 2016 left her in a wheelchair and facing the possibility of not walking again, the old promise of diet culture, that a “fixed” body creates a fixed life, simply stopped making sense.  We follow Claire’s journey from growing up around constant dieting and dance-world expectations to recognising how control can look like empowerment while quietly shrinking your life. We talk about the guilt that follows spontaneity, the pressure to earn food, and the deeper reasons many women chase weight loss: confidence, dating, visibility, work, and the fear of judgement. Claire shares how her daughters became a catalyst for healing, helping her see herself through a lens that never made love conditional on appearance.  We also dig into intuitive eating and what it really means to rebuild hunger and fullness cues after years of restriction. You will hear why permission is a key step, how comfort eating can fit inside a compassionate relationship with food, and why mindful movement should support your body rather than punish it.  If body image, diet culture, intuitive eating, women’s health, and self-worth have been loud themes in your life, this conversation offers a calmer, truer path back to enoughness.  Subscribe for more conversations like this, share the episode with someone who needs relief from body pressure, and leave a review telling us what you are ready to stop “fixing”. You can find out more about Claire at www.claireashton.co.uk and connect on Instagram - Claire Ashton - Body Image and Eating Coach. Thank you for listening and taking the time to explore our podcast. Earthaconter: Connection, Exploration and Expansion www.earthaconter.org

Enoughness: breaking free from the scarcity mindset

Scarcity can look like empty cupboards, but it can also look like a packed diary, a tight chest, and a quiet belief that you are not allowed to want, ask, or receive.  We sit down with Alex Papworth, Mark Henderson, Marie Dove, and returning guest Magnus Florin to unpack how scarcity thinking gets installed through society’s economic story, fear of loss, and the pressure to keep up. The surprising part is how quickly it moves from money into identity: self-sufficiency, guilt, comparison, and the subtle shrinking of the self. We keep coming back to nature as a reset for the nervous system and the mind. Trees reach for light without a winner-loser mentality, canopies make space, and “greed” disappears when we stop forcing human value judgements onto living systems. From there we question the language of abundance mindset, because “abundance” can accidentally become another way to justify endless wanting. We explore enoughness instead: needs met, presence restored, and a capacity to share from the heart rather than hoard from fear. The conversation turns practical and personal through gratitude practice, attention as a superpower, and the deathbed lens that clarifies what actually matters. We talk about choosing openness when life hurts, honouring the first emotional reaction without getting trapped there, and remembering that real safety needs are a different conversation that still deserves care and honesty. If you are navigating a scarcity mindset around time, money, love, or self-worth, you will leave with fresh words and grounded questions to guide a shift in perspective. Subscribe for more conversations on enoughness, share this with someone who feels squeezed by “not enough”, and leave a review so more people can find it. What is one small place you can practise enoughness today? Thank you for listening and taking the time to explore our podcast. Earthaconter: Connection, Exploration and Expansion www.earthaconter.org

What if healing requires fierce self-compassion?

Your emotions are not a fault in the wiring. They are signals from a nervous system doing its best to keep you alive. I’m joined by Matthew Bushell for a wide-ranging, deeply human conversation about enoughness, bipolar disorder, addiction, shame and the slow work of rebuilding self-trust. Matthew shares how learning “external” strength in the army shaped him, and how that same drive to push through could hide what was happening internally. We talk about what bipolar can look like beyond stereotypes, why transitions can be so dysregulating, and how self-protection can delay the support we actually need. From there, we explore a different way to think about mental health and healing: not fixing a broken machine, but cultivating a living system. We unpack self-compassion as a practical skill, the power of trauma-aware and somatic approaches, and simple reorientation practices that help you come back to the moment when your body wants to fight, flee, freeze or fawn. Matthew also shares a clear learning from adopting a reactive dog: safety changes behaviour, boundaries protect relationship, and care is a system not a slogan. We end with a big societal question and a grounded answer: trust. Not blind trust, but chosen trust in good people who can sometimes see what we cannot see in ourselves. If this conversation helps, subscribe to I Am Enough, share it with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more listeners can find it. You can connect with Matthew on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/yourbipolarcoach/ Thank you for listening and taking the time to explore our podcast. Earthaconter: Connection, Exploration and Expansion www.earthaconter.org