Sexuality... and shagging our stalker: exploring identity through kink and non-monogamy

Sexuality... and shagging our stalker: exploring identity through kink and non-monogamy

As it's Pride Month, Kay and Tom take time to reflect on their own sexual identities. They talk candidly about how childhood experiences, relationships, kink, and non-monogamy have influenced their own sexuality. In other news, the Bee Gees and Leonard Cohen make an appearance, as Kay has her first bi MMF and it's time to dish the dirt on kink events, sexy parties, play dates, raves, and kinkfessions. Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink] Email us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠insertherekink@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [insertherekink@gmail.com] Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://insertherekink.com [https://insertherekink.com]

Swinging - a new adventure!

After two years of kink, Kay and Tom take a leap into the world of swinging, via a Roman orgy, sexy wrestling, and snorting cum. Kay has some of her preconceptions shattered, and others upheld, while Tom get recognised at a swing social far more often than is reasonable. After providing some high-brow insight with facts and figures, normal service is resumed as Kay and Tom try selling dirty lingerie to an admirer. Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink] Email us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠insertherekink@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ [insertherekink@gmail.com] Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://insertherekink.com [https://insertherekink.com]

Wax play: sensual and spicy

One year on from their first episode, Tom and Kay are back with more delicious kink. It's time to discuss wax play:- how to start, what to do, what to avoid, and what happened during their group wax scene? In other news, there have been some 'sexy' solo dates to report, kinky club nights, and embarrassing kinkfessions. Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink] Email us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠insertherekink@gmail.com⁠⁠ [insertherekink@gmail.com] Website: ⁠https://insertherekink.com [https://insertherekink.com]

Re-negotiation, fucket lists, and the middle aisle

Join Kay and Tom as they delve into the 'middle aisle'. Some changes in 3rd-party dynamics, and confusion over terms, encourage Tom and Kay to re-negotiate boundaries. They discuss their process and how they have started to formalise their relationship. A new year also focuses their minds on kinky bucket lists for 2026. Kay asks for help with deep throating and lingerie, while Tom reveals a hidden talent. Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink] Email us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠insertherekink@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ [insertherekink@gmail.com] Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://insertherekink.com [https://insertherekink.com]

2025: fisted, fought, shot in the c0ck... and MILFs

Tom and Kay briefly summarise their first calendar year of kink, and ask that all important question... "Should Tom try fisting in 2026?" Since last time - Kay gets wet at WET, bouncers break up a fouresome, and Tom enjoys the world's poshest douche. A not-so-high-brow review of the teen sex comedy, 'MILF' and two semi-kinkfessions, wrap up their kinky 2025. Follow @InsertHereKink on FetLife here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://fetlife.com/InsertHereKink] Email us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠insertherekink@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ [insertherekink@gmail.com] Website: ⁠⁠https://insertherekink.com [https://insertherekink.com]