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I Was a Good Mormon - Until I Had to Be Me

1 h 0 min · 24. feb. 2026
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Brandon Spevak lived the ideal Mormon life: a descendant of pioneers, a devoted husband, father, bishop, and missionary. He did "everything" right. But from his teenage years, he carried a truth he couldn’t speak: he was gay. For decades, he lived a double life, burying his identity to honor his faith. When his children were teenagers, he realized he could no longer deny who he was. Coming out cost him his standing in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, but it gave him something far greater: his soul. Though his mother and siblings struggled to support him without defying doctrine, his father’s quiet acceptance became a lifeline. Over time, Brandon let go of his resentment, embraced his truth, and found love. Today, he dedicates his life to supporting LGBTQ+ youth who’ve been cast out by their families — offering the compassion he almost didn’t receive. This is a story of loss, liberation, and legacy — and how one man turned pain into purpose.

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