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Why Some People Sabotage the Very Opportunities They Prayed For | Healing After Hours

2 min · 3. juli 2026
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Send me a message if you have any questions or comments! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2272485/fan_mail/new] Have you ever prayed for a new opportunity, a fresh start, or a breakthrough… only to find yourself pulling away when it finally arrived? Sometimes what looks like self-sabotage isn't a lack of desire. It's fear. Fear of failure. Fear of success. Fear of being seen. Fear that you won't be able to live up to what you've been asking God for. In this episode of Healing After Hours, we're having an honest conversation about why we sometimes resist the very things we've prayed for. We'll explore how old beliefs, past disappointments, and fear can quietly convince us to stay where life feels familiar—even when God is opening a new door. If you've ever talked yourself out of an opportunity, questioned whether you were good enough, or found yourself hesitating just as life started changing, this conversation is for you. Maybe the answer to your prayer isn't the problem. Maybe it's believing you're ready to receive it. Tonight, let's talk about what might be standing between you and the very thing you've been asking God for. ⚠️ PODCAST DISCLAIMER This podcast is shared for emotional encouragement, reflection, and faith-centered conversation. It is not a substitute for professional mental health care, therapy, medical advice, or licensed counseling. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or need professional support, please seek help from a qualified professional. 🔗 CONNECT & CONTINUE If this conversation resonated with you, follow Healing After Hours so you always have a place to return to for honest conversations about healing, faith, emotional growth, and becoming the person God is calling you to be. This podcast is for anyone learning to move beyond fear, embrace growth, and walk confidently into the opportunities in front of them. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2272485/support] Pure & Lovely Prints Etsy- https://pureandlovelyprints.etsy.com [https://pureandlovelyprints.etsy.com/] Healing After Hours Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@HealingAfterHours [https://www.youtube.com/@HealingAfterHours] Onemomentinhispresence Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@Onemoment_inhispresence [https://www.youtube.com/@Onemoment_inhispresence] Blog- https://substack.com/@healingafterhours [https://substack.com/@healingafterhours] Healing After Hours Podcast - https://healingafterhourswithshaniqua.buzzsprout.com [https://healingafterhourswithshaniqua.buzzsprout.com] https://linktr.ee/ShaniquaSmith

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Send me a message if you have any questions or comments! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2272485/fan_mail/new] Have you ever prayed for a new opportunity, a fresh start, or a breakthrough… only to find yourself pulling away when it finally arrived? Sometimes what looks like self-sabotage isn't a lack of desire. It's fear. Fear of failure. Fear of success. Fear of being seen. Fear that you won't be able to live up to what you've been asking God for. In this episode of Healing After Hours, we're having an honest conversation about why we sometimes resist the very things we've prayed for. We'll explore how old beliefs, past disappointments, and fear can quietly convince us to stay where life feels familiar—even when God is opening a new door. If you've ever talked yourself out of an opportunity, questioned whether you were good enough, or found yourself hesitating just as life started changing, this conversation is for you. Maybe the answer to your prayer isn't the problem. Maybe it's believing you're ready to receive it. Tonight, let's talk about what might be standing between you and the very thing you've been asking God for. ⚠️ PODCAST DISCLAIMER This podcast is shared for emotional encouragement, reflection, and faith-centered conversation. It is not a substitute for professional mental health care, therapy, medical advice, or licensed counseling. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or need professional support, please seek help from a qualified professional. 🔗 CONNECT & CONTINUE If this conversation resonated with you, follow Healing After Hours so you always have a place to return to for honest conversations about healing, faith, emotional growth, and becoming the person God is calling you to be. This podcast is for anyone learning to move beyond fear, embrace growth, and walk confidently into the opportunities in front of them. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2272485/support] Pure & Lovely Prints Etsy- https://pureandlovelyprints.etsy.com [https://pureandlovelyprints.etsy.com/] Healing After Hours Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@HealingAfterHours [https://www.youtube.com/@HealingAfterHours] Onemomentinhispresence Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@Onemoment_inhispresence [https://www.youtube.com/@Onemoment_inhispresence] Blog- https://substack.com/@healingafterhours [https://substack.com/@healingafterhours] Healing After Hours Podcast - https://healingafterhourswithshaniqua.buzzsprout.com [https://healingafterhourswithshaniqua.buzzsprout.com] https://linktr.ee/ShaniquaSmith

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