.90 before you date again: the doors you leave unlocked

.90 before you date again: the doors you leave unlocked

Before you update your profile or download the app, there may be a quieter first step. In this episode of the "Before You Date Again" series, I share a personal practice that brought surprising clarity before I opened my heart to someone new. We'll talk about unfinished attachments, nostalgia, integrity, and why discernment requires more than chemistry. If you're standing at the edge of dating again and want to move forward with peace instead of pressure, this conversation will help you take the next right step — gently and honestly. 📱 Stay Connected • Instagram: @andyarbie • Website: www.andyarbie.com [http://www.andyarbie.com/connect] • Book a Clarity Session: Click here [https://andyarbie.simplero.com/purchase/177268-Clarity-Sessions-with-Andy/price/586152-1-75-minute] — A 75–90 minute, one-on-one session designed to help you slow down, clear the mental noise, and get grounded in what actually matters for you right now. Perfect for emotional clarity, next-step discernment, and supporting yourself through tender seasons.

.89 before you date again: the healing work that makes discernment possible

Dating again after divorce can stir up hope, fear, and a quiet sense of urgency—especially for people of faith who want to move forward with integrity and peace. In this episode, we slow the conversation down and talk about why healing has to come first, including the often-avoided annulment process, and how clarity—not rushing—creates the conditions for real discernment. This is a gentle, honest conversation for anyone longing for love again but wanting to move forward in a way that's grounded, faithful, and free. 📱 Stay Connected • Instagram: @andyarbie • Website: www.andyarbie.com [http://www.andyarbie.com] • Book a Clarity Session: Click here [https://andyarbie.simplero.com/purchase/177268-Clarity-Sessions-with-Andy/price/586152-1-75-minute] — A 75–90 minute, one-on-one session designed to help you slow down, clear the mental noise, and get grounded in what actually matters for you right now. Perfect for emotional clarity, next-step discernment, and supporting yourself through tender seasons.

.88 why you feel stuck (and it's not a discipline problem)

If you've been spinning your wheels, feeling foggy, or noticing that even small things take more effort than they should, this episode meets you right there. We talk about what it's like to push without traction, why forcing yourself forward often backfires, and what changes when you stop demanding answers and start paying attention to what your system actually needs. This is a quiet, grounding conversation about making room — and why that shift often brings the clarity and momentum you've been looking for. 📱 Stay Connected • Instagram: @andyarbie • Website: www.andyarbie.com [http://www.andyarbie.com/connect] • Book a Clarity Session: Click here [https://andyarbie.simplero.com/purchase/177268-Clarity-Sessions-with-Andy/price/586152-1-75-minute] A 75–90 minute, one-on-one session designed to help you slow down, clear the mental noise, and get grounded in what actually matters for you right now. Perfect for emotional clarity, next-step discernment, and supporting yourself through tender seasons.

.87 4 ways to start the new year with purpose, peace & holy intention

This episode was originally recorded at the start of 2024, and I'm re-sharing it here because its message remains deeply relevant as we move out of the Christmas season and into a new calendar year. If you want to begin the year grounded, peaceful, and spiritually attuned — without rushing past the graces of the holidays — this episode is your reset. In this reflection, I walk you through four practices that shape my year emotionally, spiritually, and practically: You'll hear: • how to live liturgically (and let the Church — not hustle culture — set the rhythm) • how to clear what's blocking your peace as you enter the new year • how to discern a guiding word or phrase through prayer • how to ask God for the "one thing" He wants you to face — the question that has shaped every major turning point in my life This episode brings the mini-series full circle: from tender holidays → inner healing → gratitude → intentional new beginnings — reminding you that God's timing isn't bound by a calendar year. 📱 Stay Connected Instagram: @andyarbie Website: www.andyarbie.com [http://www.andyarbie.com/] Book a Clarity Session: A 75-minute, one-on-one session designed to help you slow down, clear the noise, and step into the year with clarity. 👉 Book a Clarity Session - click here [https://andyarbie.simplero.com/cart/177268-Clarity-Sessions-with-Andy] Have questions or want to explore coaching? 👉 Book a Discovery Call - click here [https://calendly.com/andyarbie/discovery]

.86 how to close out your year with gratitude: a gentle, faith-filled reflection practice

Most people wait until January to reflect — and then wonder why they feel rushed or behind before the year even begins. In this solo episode, I walk you through how to close out your year early so you enter January supported, peaceful, and spiritually grounded. You'll learn: * the "fiscal year" mindset that changed how I plan * how to build a rhythm of reflection that reveals God's grace * the video divina practice that opened me to awe and possibility * guided journal questions to help you see how God moved in you this year I originally recorded this episode heading into late fall, so releasing it now is intentional — it gives you the perfect pause between Christmas and the new year to reconnect with gratitude and clarity. 📱 Stay Connected Instagram: @andyarbie Website: www.andyarbie.com [http://www.andyarbie.com/] Book a Clarity Session: A 75-minute, one-on-one session designed to help you slow down, clear the mental noise, and get grounded in what actually matters for you right now. 👉 Click HERE [https://andyarbie.simplero.com/cart/177268-Clarity-Sessions-with-Andy] Have questions or want to explore coaching? 👉 Click HERE [https://calendly.com/andyarbie/discovery] to book a Discovery Call