20.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION AND THE CHURCH (Part1): WHY LEADERS AVOID CONFLICT

20.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION AND THE CHURCH (Part1): WHY LEADERS AVOID CONFLICT

What is God’s heart for conflict resolution in the Church? And why are so many Pastors and Christian leaders avoiding Difficult Conversations in the name of “Unity”? In this powerful episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, conflict resolution specialist Michelle Pexa is joined by Rene McIntyre, Apostolic Founder and leader of Trumpet of Truth Christian Ministries, for an honest and biblically grounded conversation on leadership and Conflict Resolution in the Church. Together they explore why many pastors and church leaders struggle to address offense, confrontation, and unhealthy behavior with other Christian leaders and within their own churches. From fear of rejection and retaliation to misunderstandings about grace, kindness, and biblical unity, this episode exposes the hidden dangers of conflict avoidance in Christian leadership. Michelle and Rene discuss: * Biblical conflict resolution for pastors and church leaders * God’s design for unity in the Church * Why Avoiding Conflict is not true peace * The difference between PeaceKeeping and PeaceMaking * Passive-aggressive leadership in ministry * Fear of confrontation and rejection in church leadership * Why offense itself is not wrong — but staying offended is * How unresolved hurt and offense damage the Body of Christ * Why true Unity requires Honesty, Truth, and healing conversations * Healthy Christian Communication and Reconciliation strategies The Church is called to model the Kingdom of God to the world — not by pretending conflict does not exist, but by learning how to walk through differences in love, truth, Humility, and Restoration. If you are a pastor, ministry leader, church staff member, or Christian seeking healthier relationships and stronger biblical leadership, this episode will challenge and equip you. Michelle Pexa a ministry leader herself,  has specialized in conflict resolution for over 25 years and offers coaching, training, and mentoring for pastors and Christian leaders in the area of Conflict Resolution, Communication, and Reconciliation. For coaching or training inquiries: Email: info@peacemakingonpurpose.com [info@peacemakingonpurpose.com] Coming Next Week in Part 2: Michelle and Rene discuss conflict among congregation members, church culture, education strategies, and practical tools to help churches navigate conflict in healthy and biblical ways.

19.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION FOR WOMEN: DEALING WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE TYPES

In this powerful episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, conflict resolution specialist Michelle Pexa unpacks a practical and eye-opening framework for understanding people types and difficult personalities in everyday life. Whether in your family, workplace, friendships, or leadership roles, conflict often arises not just from disagreement—but from misunderstanding how people are wired differently. This episode breaks down four key people types that influence communication, behavior, and relational tension You’ll learn how each type shows up in both family systems and workplace environments, why certain behaviors trigger conflict, and how to respond with wisdom instead of frustration and anger. This episode also clarifies an important distinction between people types vs. conflict styles, helping you understand that while conflict styles describe how people handle disagreement, people types reveal how they operate in everyday life. Inside this episode, you’ll discover: * Why some personalities feel “difficult” in relationships * How to reduce emotional reactivity in conflict * How to communicate more effectively across different personality types * Why misunderstanding behavior creates unnecessary stress * Practical tools for navigating difference with peace and clarity If you’ve ever struggled with communication breakdowns in your home or workplace, this episode will give you insight, language, and practical wisdom to respond better—not react faster. Because peace is not about controlling people. It’s about understanding them well enough to respond wisely. Needs some extra help? We’d be happy to connect. Please reach out to Michelle at info@peacemakingonpurpose.com [info@peacemakingonpurpose.com]

18.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION FOR WOMEN: HEALING COMMUNICATION WITH ESTRANGED ADULT CHILDREN (Part 2)

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation with Sarah Wall on family estrangement, conflict resolution, and healing broken relationships, we discuss one of the most painful experiences a mother can face: hearing an estranged or prodigal adult child say, “You hurt me” or “You were a bad parent.” How do you respond without becoming defensive, overwhelmed with guilt, or trapped in shame? How do you use active listening, empathy, emotional intelligence, and healthy communication skills during painful conversations with an estranged child? In this episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, we explore practical conflict resolution tools for moms navigating estrangement, family conflict, emotional healing, reconciliation, and difficult communication with adult children. You’ll learn: * How to listen to your adult child’s perspective without defensiveness * Why validating your child’s feelings can help rebuild trust and emotional safety * How empathy and active listening support healing and reconciliation * Why acknowledging your child’s experience does not mean living under condemnation or shame * How unresolved hurt impacts parent-child relationships and family dynamics * Why emotional maturity and self-awareness are essential in conflict resolution * How moms can process grief, guilt, rejection, and heartbreak in healthy ways * The importance of separating your emotional processing from conversations with your child * How humility, empathy, and peacemaking create opportunities for restored relationships * Why imperfect parenting does not make you a failure This episode is filled with biblical encouragement, relationship wisdom, communication strategies, and practical peacemaking tools for women seeking healing with estranged adult children, prodigal children, and fractured family relationships. If you are searching for guidance on conflict resolution for women, family reconciliation, healing family relationships, Christian parenting, active listening skills, emotional healing, or communication with estranged adult children, this conversation will encourage you with hope, wisdom, and practical next steps toward peace and restoration. Sign up for our Insider's list at: www.peacemakingonpurpose.com [https://peacemakingonpurpose.com/] Contact Us at info@peacemakingonpurpose.com [info@peacemakingonpurpose.com] Sarah Wall Podcast Host of Praying Mom’s of Estranged Children [https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/praying-moms-of-estranged-children-pray-trust-in-god/id1841243613?i=1000768537286]

17.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION FOR WOMEN: HOW TO RESTORE RELATIONSHIP WITH AN ESTRANGED OR PRODIGAL CHILD

What happens when your child becomes distant—and every conversation feels like conflict, misunderstanding, stress, or even silence? In this powerful episode of PeaceMaking on Purpose, we explore one of the most painful and complex relationship challenges women face: estrangement from a child. Joined by Sarah Wall, Podcast host of Praying Moms of Estranged Children, [https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/praying-moms-of-estranged-children-pray-trust-in-god/id1841243613?i=1000767358486] we talk about how conflict resolution for women takes on a different depth when relationships are strained, communication is broken, and emotions like hurt, guilt, shame, and frustration are present. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, falsely accused, or overwhelmed by the desire to defend yourself and set the record straight, you’re not alone. But what if relationship restoration doesn’t begin there? In Part 1, you’ll discover how to: * Shift from defensiveness to understanding using conflict resolution and emotional intelligence * Navigate the deep pain of family conflict and estrangement without losing yourself * Practice active listening and empathy to better understand your child’s perspective * Learn how to hear your child’s heart—even when you don’t agree * Use empathy in difficult conversations without compromising your values * Release the pressure to have your emotional needs met by your child * Seek healthy, safe support and build emotional resilience * Bring what you hear into prayer and faith-based healing, trusting God with the process This conversation offers practical peacemaking tools, relationship skills, and conflict resolution strategies for women who long for healing, peace, and restored connection. Whether your child is distant, estranged, or communication feels strained, this episode will equip you with a new mindset rooted in understanding, emotional awareness, and hope. Because restoring relationships isn’t about winning the argument—it’s about rebuilding connection through intentional peacemaking.

16.0 CONFLICT RESOLUTION FOR WOMEN: LISTENING SKILLS THAT TURN CONFLICT INTO CONNECTION (part 2)

Do your conversations ever leave you feeling confused or stuck in conflict?  In Part Two of this active listening series, we move beyond simply being present and teach you the practical skills that create real resolution and connection. In this episode, you’ll learn two powerful tools for conflict resolution: ✨ Reflecting – showing others you truly heard what they said ✨ Reframing – uncovering what really matters beneath the surface Through real-life parenting and workplace examples, you’ll discover how to: * De-escalate emotional conversations * Improve communication in relationships, marriage, and parenting * Reduce stress and miscommunication * Build empathy and emotional intelligence * Move from defensiveness to understanding and win/win outcomes You’ll also learn a simple shift to use in real time: 👉 What do they really want? What matters most? What’s at stake? Because most conflict isn’t about the issue—it’s about feeling heard, respected, and valued. If you’re ready to grow in peacemaking, communication skills, and difficult conversations, this episode gives you practical tools you can start using today. 💡 READY to practice these skills? Join the 3-Day Conflict Resolution Bootcamp for Women 👉 www.peacemakingonpurpose.com/bootcamp [http://www.peacemakingonpurpose.com/bootcamp]