Has Office Etiquette Disappeared — or Just Changed? (Part 1: Tosin)

There’s No Such Thing as a “Man’s Job”

We like to think we've moved past the idea that certain careers belong to men and others belong to women. But have we really? In this episode of Popularly Unpopular, I sit down with Ali, a retired Gunnery Sergeant from the Marine Corps, to explore what happens when someone builds a career in a space many still consider "for men." Together, we unpack the difference between equality and equity, the subtle ways gender expectations still shape opportunities, and why some jobs continue to carry labels they still shouldn't have. From leadership and military service to cultural conditioning and workplace bias, this conversation challenges us to examine not just what we believe—but what we assume.

Love Is Not Enough

What if love isn’t actually the thing that makes relationships last? In this episode of Popularly Unpopular, I sit down with a marriage and family therapist to unpack one uncomfortable truth: love alone is not enough to sustain a healthy relationship. We talk about why couples or families who genuinely love each other still fall apart, the difference between love and compatibility, and the relationship skills people often overlook while chasing “chemistry.” From communication and emotional maturity to conflict and attachment, this conversation challenges a lot of what we’ve been taught about relationships. If you’ve ever wondered why love sometimes still isn’t enough… this episode is for you.

Has Consideration Become Optional?

Someone is watching videos without headphones in a waiting room. Someone else is taking a speakerphone call on a train. A coworker is on a loud Teams meeting while sitting next to the people they're meeting with. Most of us have experienced these moments. And most of us have probably stayed quiet. In this solo episode of Popularly Unpopular, I reflect on the conversations from the recent two-part series on office culture and asks a broader question: Have we become less considerate of the people around us—or simply less willing to talk about it? This isn't a conversation about manners or nostalgia. It's about how we navigate shared spaces, shared experiences, and our obligations to one another in a culture that increasingly prioritizes the individual. Because maybe the question isn't why people are louder. Maybe the question is why everyone else feels they have to stay silent.

Has Office Etiquette Disappeared — or Just Changed? (Part 2: David)

What if the modern workplace isn’t a change — but simply the starting point? In Part 2, I speak with David, a professional who entered the workforce during the pandemic and has only known remote, hybrid, and open office environments shaped by digital communication and evolving cultural norms. Together, they explore: * What it means to work in an environment built on flexibility and constant connectivity * How tools like Microsoft Teams shape communication * The role of respect, inclusivity, and psychological safety in everyday work interactions * The tension between authenticity and self-awareness * And why, in a culture that encourages openness, many people still choose their words carefully This episode offers a different perspective — not on what changed, but on what this version of work is shaping us to become.

Has Office Etiquette Disappeared — or Just Changed? (Part 1: Tosin)

What happens when you’ve seen the workplace before — and after — its biggest cultural shift? In Part 1, I am joined by Tosin, a seasoned professional with over a decade of experience navigating office environments that have evolved from structured spaces with clear expectations… to open, flexible workplaces where the rules feel less defined. Together, we explore: * The shift from offices and cubicles to open floor plans * The rise of constant noise and overlapping meetings * The “same meeting” paradox in tools like Microsoft Teams * And the disappearance (or transformation) of workplace etiquette This episode isn’t about nostalgia — it’s about perspective. Because when you’ve seen both versions of the workplace, the differences are hard to ignore.