The Power of Showing Up | Episode 20

The Power of Showing Up | Episode 20

What separates the people who transform their lives from the ones who give up? In this episode of Rebuild & Fulfill, Kelsey Dunbar and Marc Rogala explore why consistency—not talent, luck, or even motivation—is one of the greatest predictors of lasting success. Inspired by reaching Episode 20, this conversation looks beyond podcasting to uncover the common thread behind recovery, mental health, personal growth, physical health, and meaningful life change. Whether you're rebuilding after addiction, navigating anxiety or depression, improving your health, repairing relationships, or simply trying to become a stronger version of yourself, this episode is a reminder that lasting transformation happens one decision at a time. IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS: ✔ Why consistency always outlasts motivation ✔ The myth of overnight success ✔ Lessons learned from 20 episodes and incredible guests ✔ Why progress is rarely linear ✔ How small daily decisions create lasting transformation ✔ The importance of accountability, community, and asking for help ✔ How keeping promises to yourself rebuilds confidence and self-trust People often ask us, "What's the secret?" There isn't one. There are just ordinary people making extraordinary decisions consistently enough that, over time, their lives begin to change. If you've been discouraged because your progress feels slow, this episode is your reminder not to quit. The next right step may be the one that changes everything. If this conversation encouraged you, we'd love it if you'd subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs the reminder to keep showing up. ---------------------------------------- Topics covered: mental health, personal growth, resilience, recovery, addiction recovery, consistency, habits, discipline, motivation, mindset, behavior change, emotional resilience, accountability, self-trust, confidence, healing, transformation, mental wellness, overcoming adversity, self-improvement, Rebuild & Fulfill Podcast, Suffer To Tougher #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Recovery

When You Lose a Child... You Don't Lose the Love: Katie & Nick Rizzo | Episode 19

What happens when addiction takes the life of someone you love? In this powerful episode of Rebuild & Fulfill, Katie and Nick Rizzo share the heartbreaking story of losing their 25-year-old son, Nicholas, to addiction—and how they've found hope, healing, and purpose in the wake of unimaginable grief. Rather than allowing shame and heartbreak to silence them, Katie and Nick courageously chose to share their family's story in hopes that it might help another parent, another family, or another person struggling with addiction. Their willingness to revisit the hardest chapter of their lives is a remarkable act of courage and a testament to their commitment to raising awareness, breaking the stigma surrounding addiction, and helping others realize they are not alone. Katie also discusses her upcoming memoir, The Trimesters of Grief, which explores the profound connection between love and loss, the reality of grieving a child, and what it means to continue living after life changes forever. Throughout this conversation, we discuss addiction, grief, shame, marriage, mental health, healing, resilience, and the surprising ways love continues even after death. Whether you've experienced the loss of a loved one, are supporting someone battling addiction, or simply need hope during a difficult season, we pray this conversation reminds you that healing is possible—and that you never have to walk through it alone. 📖 Pre-order Katie's memoir, The Trimesters of Grief: https://a.co/d/099MDCzP [https://a.co/d/099MDCzP] 🌐 Learn more about Katie Rizzo: https://katierizzo.com [https://katierizzo.com] If this episode encouraged you, please consider subscribing, sharing it with someone who needs to hear it, and leaving a review. One honest conversation has the power to interrupt isolation, create connection, build trust, and remind someone they are not carrying everything alone. ---------------------------------------- TOPICS COVERED • Losing a child to addiction • Addiction and family dynamics • Grief and healing • Mental health and resilience • Shame and self-worth • Marriage after loss • Hope after tragedy • Supporting loved ones with addiction • Community and recovery • The Trimesters of Grief ---------------------------------------- #Addiction #Grief #MentalHealth #Recovery #Healing #OverdoseAwareness #ChildLoss #ParentsOfAddicts #RebuildAndFulfill #SufferToTougher

Why People Don't Ask for Help | Episode 18 (Midweek Q&A)

Why do so many people avoid getting help, even when they know they need it? In this episode of the Rebuild & Fulfill Midweek Q&A, Kelsey and Marc answer three powerful listener questions about mental health, addiction, and recovery. We discuss: • Why fear, shame, and pride keep people from asking for help. • Whether a mental health diagnosis defines who you are. • What people struggling with mental health wish everyone else understood. • The difference between surviving and truly thriving. • Why compassion matters more than judgment. Whether you're navigating your own mental health journey or supporting someone you love, this conversation offers practical insight, hope, and encouragement. Remember... You're not broken. You may just be overloaded. If you enjoyed this episode, please Like, Subscribe, and share it with someone who may need to hear it. #MentalHealth #Recovery #AddictionRecovery #Resilience #Healing #Depression #Anxiety #Support #SufferToTougher #RebuildAndFulfill

Grief Isn't Just About Death: Learning to Let Go and Move Forward | Episode 17

What comes to mind when you hear the word grief? For most people, it's death. But grief is bigger than that. In this solo episode of Rebuild & Fulfill, Kelsey Dunbar explores the many forms of grief that often go unrecognized—from the loss of a loved one to the loss of a relationship, a career, a dream, your health, or even a version of yourself you thought you'd always be. Too often, we only give ourselves permission to grieve certain losses. But grief isn't limited to funerals and goodbyes. Grief is the emotional response to losing anything that mattered. In this episode, you'll learn: ✅ Why grief isn't just about death ✅ The hidden grief many people carry without realizing it ✅ Why loss can leave us feeling stuck, angry, or disconnected ✅ The difference between moving on and moving forward ✅ How grief can shape us without defining us ✅ Why healing doesn't mean forgetting ✅ How to honor what was while remaining open to what's next Whether you're grieving a person, a relationship, a dream, or a chapter of life that has ended, this episode offers perspective, hope, and encouragement for the road ahead. Remember: You're not broken. You may just be carrying more than people can see. #Grief #Healing #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Loss #GriefSupport #SelfImprovement #EmotionalWellness #Resilience #MentalHealthAwareness #LettingGo #Hope #RebuildAndFulfill #SufferToTougher #KelseyDunbar

What BPD Really Feels Like: Dene Dubois on Trust, Trauma, and Purpose | Episode 16

What does Borderline Personality Disorder actually feel like from the inside? In this powerful episode of Rebuild & Fulfill, we sit down with mental health advocate, author, and BPD Raw founder Dene Dubois to discuss the realities of living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), the impact of childhood trauma, trust issues, relationships, stigma, and the journey toward healing and self-understanding. Dene shares his personal story growing up with a bipolar mother and alcoholic father, navigating years of misunderstanding and misdiagnosis, and ultimately finding purpose through advocacy and helping others share their lived experiences. We discuss: ✅ What Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) really is ✅ Common misconceptions about BPD ✅ Trust, trauma, and attachment wounds ✅ Mental health stigma and diagnosis ✅ Therapy, TMS treatment, and recovery ✅ The importance of lived experience ✅ Turning pain into purpose ✅ The creation of BPD Raw ✅ Why understanding matters more than labels Whether you live with BPD, love someone who does, or simply want a better understanding of mental health, this conversation offers valuable insight, compassion, and hope. Connect with Dene: 🌐 bpdraw.com [http://bpdraw.com] 📘 BPD Raw on Facebook- Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61588888665317] 📖 The Places I Didn't Belong (Available on Amazon) Amazon.com [http://Amazon.com]: The Places I Didn't Belong: A Memoir of Identity, Mental Health, and Finding Meaning Across Australia, Canada and New Zealand eBook : Dubois, Dene: Kindle Store [https://www.amazon.com/Places-Didnt-Belong-Identity-Australia-ebook/dp/B0GZD7YP35/ref=sr_1_1?crid=IED7CHU26BX8&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.S1tTy-OqumNwM4Gjgh-W0w.sx3lCiZuToFjKWkxjxa6wVPDFP9g3PTYANhwiBQj3OA&dib_tag=se&keywords=the+places+i+didn%27t+belong+dene+dubois&qid=1781950360&sprefix=the+places+i+didn%27t+belong+dene+dubios%2Caps%2C130&sr=8-1] Remember: You're not broken. You may be carrying experiences, struggles, wounds, or challenges that others can't see. But your story still has meaning. And your next chapter is still being written. #RebuildAndFulfill #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #BPD #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwareness #TraumaRecovery #TrustIssues #MentalWellness #HealingJourney #PersonalGrowth #Recovery #BPDRaw #MentalHealthAdvocate #Podcast #SufferToTougher