Self Obsessed

mastering self-love while dating isn’t always easy — especially when no one talks about the detachment, boundaries, confidence, and self-worth it really takes. if you’ve ever felt like you start shrinking in relationships, this video is for you. i’m sharing the exact mindset shifts that helped me stay independent, grounded, and fully in my power while navigating love. after spending time single, focused on building my dream life and reconnecting with myself, i learned that the right relationship should expand your world — not consume it. whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or healing from one, this video will help you protect your peace, stop overgiving, and keep becoming her — the woman you were always meant to be. 💅🏽💖 ♡  WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Self-Love and Independence 02:21 Chapter 1: The Talk 08:44 Chapter 2: The Lifestyle 15:43 Chapter 3: Homework 18:48 Final Thoughts 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION [https://www.abbottlyon.io/TamKaur-YouTube-Collection] use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL [https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r] PRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNAL [https://tamkaur.com/products/manifestationjournal] ORDER MY BOOK [https://geni.us/TamKaurBook] THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER [https://tamkaur.com/] STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM [https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en] MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] [https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur] MY YOUTUBE [https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur] MY VLOGS [https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs] LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS [https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed] PODCAST INSTAGRAM [https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en] MY OTHER LINKS [https://bio.site/tamkaur] Business enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com [tam@mvetalent.com] *My intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s]!

the 5 laws of self-obsession aren’t about being selfish — they’re about how to build unshakable confidence, protect your peace, and start choosing you. in this episode, i share the mindset shifts that helped me heal, stop people pleasing, and finally become the most confident, grounded version of myself. we’ll talk self-love, boundaries, personal growth, and how to rewrite the stories you tell yourself. if you’ve ever been told you’re “too much” for simply prioritizing yourself — this one’s for you. ✨ it’s time to reclaim your power and start living for you. 💅🏽💭💖 ♡  WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction: Why Self-Obsession Isn’t Selfish 01:11 Critique of Societal Views on Self-Obsession 02:41 Law 1: The Mirror Law 06:22 Law 2: The Boundary Law 08:25 Law 3: The Celebration Law 10:18 Law 4: The Upgrade Law 13:04 Law 5: The Rewire Law 15:52 Final Words of Empowerment 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION [https://www.abbottlyon.io/TamKaur-YouTube-Collection] use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL [https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r] PRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNAL [https://tamkaur.com/products/manifestationjournal] ORDER MY BOOK [https://geni.us/TamKaurBook] THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER [https://tamkaur.com/] STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM [https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en] MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] [https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur] MY YOUTUBE [https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur] MY VLOGS [https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs] LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS [https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed] PODCAST INSTAGRAM [https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en] MY OTHER LINKS [https://bio.site/tamkaur] Business enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com [tam@mvetalent.com] *My intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s]!

feeling stuck or in a slump? here’s your sign to reset and realign 🫶 i’ve been there. in this video, i’m sharing 7 reminders and mindset shifts that helped me break out of low-energy phases and reconnect with my higher self. we’ll talk about how to stop spiraling, reconnect with your future self, and turn quiet seasons into your biggest growth moments. whether you’re going through a rough patch or just feeling off, this is your sign to reset, reflect, and step into your comeback era. 🛍️ shop my abbott lyon collection: https://www.abbottlyon.io/TamKaur-YouTube-Collection use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 for buy one get one FREE sitewide! ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 – Overcoming the Slump Phase 01:14 – Fact 1: Emotions Are Not Reality 03:19 – Fact 2: It's Just a Phase 05:27 – Fact 3: Stop Identifying with the Slump 06:59 – Fact 4: One Decision Away 08:32 – Fact 5: Future Self Knows Best 10:32 – Fact 6: Resisting the Next Version of You 12:28 – Fact 7: You Are Resilient 13:28 – Final Motivation SHOP & LINKS: https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r https://tamkaur.com/products/manifestationjournal https://geni.us/TamKaurBook https://tamkaur.com/ STAY CONNECTED: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en https://bio.site/tamkaur Business enquiries: mailto:tam@mvetalent.com *My intro and outro music was made by the incredible https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s!

💚 you might be pushing away healthy love without even realizing it. in today’s episode, we’re talking about the 10 “red flags” in men that are actually signs of emotional maturity — and why your past might be making you miss them. from taking time to reply, moving slow, having female friends, or even being a little “boring”… these things aren’t toxic, they’re actually green flags 🫶 🛍️ shop my abbott lyon collection: https://www.abbottlyon.io/TamKaur-YouTube-Collection use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 for buy one get one FREE sitewide! ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 – Introduction 01:45 – Debunking Dating Red Flags 01:49 – Green Flag #1: He is Picky 03:13 – Green Flag #2: He Rejects You 04:54 – Green Flag #3: No Past Relationships 05:55 – Green Flag #4: Has Female Friends 07:11 – Green Flag #5: Takes Time to Texting Back 09:03 – Green Flag #6: Challenges You 10:36 – Green Flag #7: He Has His Own Life 12:03 – Green Flag #8: He Moves Slow 13:53 – Green Flag #9: There Are No Sparks 15:48 – Conclusion SHOP & LINKS: https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r https://tamkaur.com/products/manifestationjournal https://geni.us/TamKaurBook https://tamkaur.com/ STAY CONNECTED: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en https://bio.site/tamkaur Business enquiries: mailto:tam@mvetalent.com *My intro and outro music was made by the incredible https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s!

tired of people-pleasing, overthinking, and chasing validation? it’s time to detach, reclaim your confidence, and become the center of your own universe. ✨ we’re talking detachment, self-trust, and the quiet kind of confidence that comes from within. i’ll take you through the exact mindset shifts and weekly habits that help you stop people-pleasing, reconnect with your body, and protect your energy. this isn’t about becoming someone new — it’s about coming home to yourself. If you’re in your self-love era and ready to let go of external validation, this one’s for you 💌 ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Decentering 01:58 Chapter 1: Decentering Everyone and Taking Control of Your Life 09:59 Chapter 2: Centering Yourself and Becoming Self-Obsessed 16:45 Chapter 3: Homework: Practical Steps to Self-Centering 19:04 Conclusion and Final Thoughts SHOP & LINKS: SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL [https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r] PRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNAL [https://tamkaur.com/products/manifestationjournal] ORDER MY BOOK [https://geni.us/TamKaurBook] THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER [https://tamkaur.com/] STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM [https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en] MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] [https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur] MY YOUTUBE [https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur] MY VLOGS [https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs] LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS [https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed] PODCAST INSTAGRAM [https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en] MY OTHER LINKS [https://bio.site/tamkaur] Business enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com [tam@mvetalent.com] *My intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s]!