Ep 25: The Four Types of Biblical Love: How Christian Singles Can Recognise God's Design for Marriage, Relationships and Finding a Godly Spouse

Ep 25: The Four Types of Biblical Love: How Christian Singles Can Recognise God's Design for Marriage, Relationships and Finding a Godly Spouse

In this episode, we explore the four types of love found in Scripture and why understanding them is essential for every Christian single seeking a godly relationship. From Agape's sacrificial commitment to Phileo's friendship, Storge's family bond and Eros' romantic attraction, we uncover God's blueprint for healthy Christian dating, courtship and marriage. Whether you are praying for a future husband, searching for a future wife, navigating Christian relationships or preparing for biblical marriage, this conversation will help you discern genuine love, avoid common pitfalls and pursue relationships that honour Christ. Discover why the strongest Christian marriages are built on all four expressions of biblical love and how understanding them can transform your journey towards finding a godly spouse. 🎧 Available on all majorpodcast platforms.#OneCrossYoke #OCYPodcast 🔗 Join the Movement: 🌐 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.onecrossyoke.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://site-1ejt4ccbs.godaddysites.com] 📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://instagram.com/onecrossyoke] 📘 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://facebook.com/Onecrossyoke] 🎵 TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://tiktok.com/@onecrossyoke] 🎵Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠open.spotify.com/show/5oGbmLWphTD98afz4gtIH7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=channel_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbTExblVrZUNHT3ZrWXplV293Q1hoTDNUcTRMd3xBQ3Jtc0tsZHJfV0VSenhZWU11VU1MY3VLQnN2dDQ5MVMwZ05VYXNlZ1FIMndHRTVvZ0tOTWM5Ykx1NTFuS181NmdpeUpQTWFHVVZXLVE4czFtbDRUSUZJWDRPNk0zSzRtQW5aN2UycFNJMXdCYTI4eEJpdlBkWQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Fshow%2F5oGbmLWphTD98afz4gtIH7] ▶️ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.youtube.com/@onecrossyoke] ☕ Support us (PayPal):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/onecrossyoke] Podcast by Pastor J the founder of One Cross Yoke(OCY), married to his wife of 13 years and father to two young boys. OCY was founded because of a passionate call regardingpreparing future marriages - we have helped many at the difficult seasons andrealised we can help so many more based on what we learnt in stages of helpingothers who were in marital crises. Christian marriages are at an alarming rate of divorce andthe severity of choosing a godly spouse can be underplayed in the church. Thatis where we come in and with 13 years of marital experience - we understand thecomplex nature of finding a godly spouse. We have set up OCY to help others get married and live'happily ' married. We are in it for the business of planting OAK trees thatcan stand the test of time and create shelter for your future family togrow.  Whether you're a Christian single, or you care about someonewho is, this episode offers a bold, Scripture-rich reminder that your worthisn't defined by culture—it’s defined by Christ. Share this with someone who needs to hear it. It might justchange how they prepare for marriage forever. #ChristianDating #ChristianSingles #ChristianCourtship#BiblicalRelationships #FaithBasedDating #GodlyRelationships #KingdomCourtship#ChristianMarriage #ChristianPodcast #FaithPodcast#DatingPodcast#RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndFaith #ModernDating #DatingTips #RelationshipGoals#FaithAndLove #ChristianInfluencer #PurposefulDating #DatingWithIntention #NewPodcastEpisode #PodcastRecommendations #ListenNow#PodcastLife #SpotifyPodcast #ChristianSingles #ChristianDating#BiblicalCourtship #ChristianPodcast #FaithBasedRelationships #KingdomMarriage#GodlyRelationships #ChristianWomen #ChristianMen #DatingWithPurpose#MarriagePrep #ChristianLiving #BiblicalWisdom #FaithOverCulture #OneCrossYoke

Ep 24: Should Christian single men give a Dowry?

In this episode, we explore the biblical concept of dowry and bride price in the King James Bible, uncovering its deeper meaning beyond ancient custom. In Scripture, dowry was not symbolic—it represented commitment, responsibility, and the value of the bride. From Jacob’s years of labor for Rachel to David’s acts of courage for Michal, we see that covenant love required sacrifice and action. We then trace how this pattern develops throughout the Bible, revealing God as a husband to His people and ultimately pointing to Jesus Christ as the Bridegroom. The key connection is this: just as a groom paid a price to enter covenant, Christ paid the ultimate price—His own life—to redeem the Church. While the Bible doesn’t explicitly call Christ’s sacrifice a “dowry,” it clearly fulfills the pattern. What was once a cultural practice becomes a theological reality: covenant love costs something, and Christ demonstrates this fully at the cross. The episode concludes by applying this truth to our lives, challenging Christian men to love sacrificially like Christ, and reminding all believers of their immense value as the bride of Christ. Ultimately, this is a message about covenant, redemption, and the transformative power of self-giving love. If you are looking for a small Bible-teaching church in London that believes in Jesus and the Holy Spirit and is passionate about helping individuals grow into readiness for marriage and family life, get in touch:⁠⁠ltmengland@gmail.com⁠⁠ Take courage. Seek first the Kingdom. Build under Christ. Nothing surrendered to Him is wasted 🎧 Available on all majorpodcast platforms.#OneCrossYoke #OCYPodcast 🔗 Join the Movement: 🌐 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.onecrossyoke.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://site-1ejt4ccbs.godaddysites.com] 📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://instagram.com/onecrossyoke] 📘 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://facebook.com/Onecrossyoke] 🎵 TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://tiktok.com/@onecrossyoke] 🎵Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠open.spotify.com/show/5oGbmLWphTD98afz4gtIH7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=channel_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbTExblVrZUNHT3ZrWXplV293Q1hoTDNUcTRMd3xBQ3Jtc0tsZHJfV0VSenhZWU11VU1MY3VLQnN2dDQ5MVMwZ05VYXNlZ1FIMndHRTVvZ0tOTWM5Ykx1NTFuS181NmdpeUpQTWFHVVZXLVE4czFtbDRUSUZJWDRPNk0zSzRtQW5aN2UycFNJMXdCYTI4eEJpdlBkWQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Fshow%2F5oGbmLWphTD98afz4gtIH7] ▶️ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.youtube.com/@onecrossyoke] ☕ Support us (PayPal):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/onecrossyoke] Podcast by Pastor J the founder of One Cross Yoke(OCY), married to his wife of 13 years and father to two young boys. OCY was founded because of a passionate call regarding preparing future marriages - we have helped many at the difficult seasons and realised we can help so many more based on what we learnt in stages of helping others who were in marital crises. We have set up OCY to help others get married and live'happily ' married. We are in it for the business of planting OAK trees that can stand the test of time and create shelter for your future family to grow.  Whether you're a Christian single, or you care about someone who is, this episode offers a bold, Scripture-rich reminder that your worth isn't defined by culture—it’s defined by Christ. Share this with someone who needs to hear it. It might just change how they prepare for marriage forever. #NewPodcastEpisode #PodcastRecommendations #ListenNow#PodcastLife #SpotifyPodcast #ChristianSingles #ChristianDating#BiblicalCourtship #ChristianPodcast #FaithBasedRelationships #KingdomMarriage#GodlyRelationships #ChristianWomen #ChristianMen #DatingWithPurpose#MarriagePrep #ChristianLiving #BiblicalWisdom #FaithOverCulture #OneCrossYoke

EP 23: What every modern Christian should know!

In today’s dating culture, many Christian singles find themselves navigating confusion, frustration, and mixed messages about relationships. In this episode, we address some of the most important and often uncomfortable topics shaping modern Christian dating. We explore the realities faced by single parents, challenge misconceptions around misogyny, and bring clarity to the biblical role of men in leading relationships. This is not about control or culture but about understanding God’s design and applying it with wisdom, humility, and love. Grounded in Scripture, including Ephesians 5 and Proverbs 4:7, this conversation unpacks what it truly means to prepare for a Christ-centred relationship in today’s world. Whether you are a single (or parent), navigating Christian courting for the first time in years, or simply seeking a deeper understanding of biblical relationships, this episode offers practical insight, spiritual guidance, and honest reflection. This is a call for Christian singles to move beyond trends and opinions and pursue relationships built on truth, purpose, and Godly wisdom. Visit:⁠ www.onecrossyoke.com⁠ [http://www.onecrossyoke.com]for podcasts and free blogs to help you prepare for marriage God’s way. If you are seeking guidance and practical preparation, join our FREE Christian Singles Online Workshop (limited spaces remaining):⁠ [https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/free-christian-singles-online-workshop-ocy-easter-special-tickets-1982905450581?aff=oddtdtcreator]Largest Free online Christian Singles Discovery Session Tickets, Saturday 4 July  •  19 - 21 GMT+1 | Eventbrite [https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/largest-free-online-christian-singles-discovery-session-tickets-1986509405106?aff=oddtdtcreator&keep_tld=true] If you are looking for a small Bible-teaching church in London that believes in Jesus and the Holy Spirit and is passionate about helping individuals grow into readiness for marriage and family life, get in touch:⁠ltmengland@gmail.com⁠ Take courage. Seek first the Kingdom. Build under Christ. Nothing surrendered to Him is wasted. #ChristianSingles #GodlyMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #ChristianDating #KingdomRelationships #MarriagePreparation #SeekFirstTheKingdom #OneCrossYoke

Ep 22: Finding a Godly Spouse in a Compromised Age (Part 1)

In this powerful and honest episode, we unpack the real experiences shared by Christian singles when asked: How has your experience been trying to find a godly spouse? What is getting in the way? And what is your church doing to help? The responses were revealing. Some have found joy through Christian dating platforms. Others encountered scammers, isolation, or discouragement. Many expressed frustration at the lack of single believers in their churches. Some have given up, saying, “It’s in God’s timing.” Others admitted they tried to force relationships and ended up hurt. In this episode, we address the deeper issues beneath the surface. We talk about the growing pressure on Christian men to “have it all made” before even pursuing marriage — house, car, high salary — and how unrealistic expectations are quietly keeping many believers single. Yes, a man must work and provide, but a kingdom is built together. Marriage was never designed as a reward for the fully established — it is a covenant where two believers build under Christ. We also speak candidly to women about the cultural encouragement to delay marriage for career, travel, and independence — and the biological and spiritual realities that many only face later in their thirties. Career ambition is welcome, but do not forsake your God-given gift of covenant and family without sober reflection. We confront compromise — long relationships without marriage, sexual intimacy outside covenant, having children without commitment — and why these cultural norms are anti-God and anti-family. Yet we also emphasise God’s mercy. No matter your past, repentance restores. He makes a way where there seems to be no way. We explore the tricky topic of being unequally yoked, the responsibility of spiritual leadership, and whether Christian men are truly hearing from God. Marriage is not merely companionship — it is sanctification. It will reveal everything in you. Without Christ at the centre, it becomes heavy. With Him, it becomes transformative. We also challenge the church. Social mixers are helpful — but they account for only a small percentage of real preparation. What is urgently needed is deep discipleship, spiritual maturity, emotional intelligence, and Christ-centred formation before marriage ever begins. This episode is not about panic. It is about preparedness. Marriage is not about finding someone. It is about becoming someone under God. If you were part of the original discussion, or if this topic resonates with you, we encourage you to go deeper. Visit: www.onecrossyoke.com [http://www.onecrossyoke.com] for podcasts and free blogs to help you prepare for marriage God’s way. If you are seeking guidance and practical preparation, join our FREE Christian Singles Online Workshop (limited spaces remaining): https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/free-christian-singles-online-workshop-ocy-easter-special-tickets-1982905450581?aff=oddtdtcreator [https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/free-christian-singles-online-workshop-ocy-easter-special-tickets-1982905450581?aff=oddtdtcreator] If you are looking for a small Bible-teaching church in London that believes in Jesus and the Holy Spirit and is passionate about helping individuals grow into readiness for marriage and family life, get in touch: ltmengland@gmail.com Take courage. Seek first the Kingdom. Build under Christ. Nothing surrendered to Him is wasted. #ChristianSingles #GodlyMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #ChristianDating #KingdomRelationships #MarriagePreparation #SeekFirstTheKingdom #OneCrossYoke

Ep 21 – Oh My Lord, I Am STILL Single… The Remedy (Part 3)

In the final part of this transformative series on One Cross Yoke, we move from frustration and noise to clarity and action. After addressing internal resistance and external influence, Part 3 reveals the remedy Christian singles need to break unhealthy cycles and realign with God’s purpose. This episode focuses on biblical solutions—spiritual obedience, renewed mindset, accountability, healing, and intentional preparation for marriage. We explore how surrender, consistency, and faith-led action create room for God to move, even in seasons that feel delayed. The remedy isn’t rushed relationships or formulas—it’s alignment with God’s will and timing. If you’re ready to stop asking “Why am I still single?” and start walking in peace, wisdom, and purpose, this episode will help you reset your heart and move forward with confidence. 🎙️ One Cross Yoke — where healing leads to alignment. Hashtags / Keywords for Podcast Discovery: #ChristianSingles #TheRemedy #HealingBeforeMarriage #BiblicalWisdom #ChristianPodcast #FaithBasedRelationships #KingdomMarriage #WaitingWithPurpose #GodsTiming #SpiritualGrowth #ChristianLiving #OneCrossYoke 🎧 Available on all majorpodcast platforms.#OneCrossYoke #OCYPodcast 🔗 Join the Movement: 🌐 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.onecrossyoke.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://site-1ejt4ccbs.godaddysites.com] 📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://instagram.com/onecrossyoke] 📘 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://facebook.com/Onecrossyoke] 🎵 TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://tiktok.com/@onecrossyoke] 🎵Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠open.spotify.com/show/5oGbmLWphTD98afz4gtIH7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=channel_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbTExblVrZUNHT3ZrWXplV293Q1hoTDNUcTRMd3xBQ3Jtc0tsZHJfV0VSenhZWU11VU1MY3VLQnN2dDQ5MVMwZ05VYXNlZ1FIMndHRTVvZ0tOTWM5Ykx1NTFuS181NmdpeUpQTWFHVVZXLVE4czFtbDRUSUZJWDRPNk0zSzRtQW5aN2UycFNJMXdCYTI4eEJpdlBkWQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Fshow%2F5oGbmLWphTD98afz4gtIH7] ▶️ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube.com/@onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.youtube.com/@onecrossyoke] ☕ Support us (PayPal):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/onecrossyoke⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/onecrossyoke] Podcast by Pastor J the founder of One Cross Yoke(OCY), married to his wife of 13 years and father to two young boys. OCY was founded because of a passionate call regardingpreparing future marriages - we have helped many at the difficult seasons andrealised we can help so many more based on what we learnt in stages of helpingothers who were in marital crises. Christian marriages are at an alarming rate of divorce andthe severity of choosing a godly spouse can be underplayed in the church. Thatis where we come in and with 13 years of marital experience - we understand thecomplex nature of finding a godly spouse. We have set up OCY to help others get married and live'happily ' married. We are in it for the business of planting OAK trees thatcan stand the test of time and create shelter for your future family togrow.  Whether you're a Christian single, or you care about someonewho is, this episode offers a bold, Scripture-rich reminder that your worthisn't defined by culture—it’s defined by Christ. Share this with someone who needs to hear it. It might justchange how they prepare for marriage forever. #ChristianDating #ChristianSingles #ChristianCourtship#BiblicalRelationships #FaithBasedDating #GodlyRelationships #KingdomCourtship#ChristianMarriage #ChristianPodcast #FaithPodcast#DatingPodcast#RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndFaith #ModernDating #DatingTips #RelationshipGoals#FaithAndLove #ChristianInfluencer #PurposefulDating #DatingWithIntention #NewPodcastEpisode #PodcastRecommendations #ListenNow#PodcastLife #SpotifyPodcast #ChristianSingles #ChristianDating#BiblicalCourtship #ChristianPodcast #FaithBasedRelationships #KingdomMarriage#GodlyRelationships #ChristianWomen #ChristianMen #DatingWithPurpose#MarriagePrep #ChristianLiving #BiblicalWisdom #FaithOverCulture #OneCrossYoke