Marriage in the Mayhem

The Goodbye Window

Season two opens with something new: hearing directly from the kids. Abi and Alex welcome Helena — Alex’s eldest daughter — to talk about life inside a blended family, just as she heads off to university. From finding out her mum was pregnant again, to navigating two homes, to calling her stepdad “Matty,” Helena reflects on what it means to grow up through change, loyalty, and love. This episode is all about listening: how children experience divorce, step-parents, and siblings — and why giving them a voice matters more than anything.

September Syndrome: Chaos, Cones & Compromises

Back to school, back to chaos. In this episode, we're returning to routine - sort of. We chat about starting school again, the admin overload that comes with big families, and how even the smallest traditions (like a sugar cone full of sweets) help everyone feel grounded again. Abi shares a tough decision about rehoming their rescue dog, how that affected the kids, and what it's like supporting a neurodivergent child through the storm of September. There's school photos, cereal negotiations, a few meltdowns (some from the adults), and a lot of reflection on what it takes to keep blended families moving forward.

The Summer Shuffle

Well overdue, but we are back and finishing off our first season a little delayed (more on the podcast, so make sure you listen in). In this episode of the Imperfect Blend podcast we discuss our experiences on navigating the complexities of blended family life, particularly during the summer holidays. We share personal stories about the challenges and joys of parenting, managing family dynamics, and the importance of maintaining friendships amidst the chaos. The conversation reflects on the changes our families are undergoing (yes, uni is just weeks away now whilst still having smalls at pre-school) and the need for compromise in a blended family setting, while also looking ahead to the upcoming school year and future plans. Oh, and Abi's long awaited OASIS concert and why a cup of tea felt much needed..

When Kids Ask Hard Questions

In this episode we explore the emotional weight of the questions kids ask when navigating complex family dynamics - and how those moments can unravel even the most"put-together" parent. Whether it's about loss, absence, resentment, race or just trying to understand who's who in the family-these conversations are tough, raw, and often unpredictable.

Marriage in the Mayhem

In this episode of the Imperfect Blend podcast, our focus is on our marriages in the Mayhem. We discuss the importance of communication, trust, and creating couple time amidst the chaos of parenting. The conversation highlights the challenges and joys of managing family dynamics, while also emphasising the need for appreciation and connection in relationships. As we look ahead, we would like to invite new voices to share their stories and insights on blended family life.