I Had To Stop Lessening Myself

Where My Keloid Journey Started Pt.2

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Where My Keloid Journey Started

In this episode, I take it all the way back and talk about where my keloid journey really began. From dealing with scalp issues, acne, oily skin, and allergies at a young age, to later realizing that keloids were something deeply rooted in both sides of my family, this is a real breakdown of how it all started for me. I talk about the physical side of it, the mental side of it, the embarrassment, the confusion, and how hard it was trying different products and solutions without really understanding what was going on. I also get into my first keloid surgery, what led up to it, and what it felt like seeing those scars come right back. This episode is really about the beginning of a journey that affected my confidence, my appearance, and how I moved through life, long before I fully understood what I was dealing with.

Why Going Out Alone Will Change Your Life

I got a real challenge in this episode… go everywhere dolo for the next few months. This one is about what happened when I stopped waiting on people, stopped letting flaking and outside energy control my experiences, and started really going places by myself. I talk about how uncomfortable it can feel at first, but also how much freedom, confidence, and peace can come from learning how to enjoy your own company. From random nights out, solo events, birthday dinners by myself, and just moving through life on my own time, this episode is really about getting out of your comfort zone and realizing that some of your best moments might come when you stop waiting on other people to show up.

I Had To Stop Lessening Myself

In this episode of The Life of a Multifacet, I’m talking about how I had to stop lessening myself just because certain people didn’t have the capacity to receive me. For a long time, I would catch myself saying things like, “I know I said too much,” or “I know I went down a rabbit hole,” but I started realizing that every time I said that, I was shrinking my own value, my stories, and the way I naturally communicate. This episode gets into communication, listening, eye contact, dating, friendships, deeper conversations, people actually valuing what you have to say, and realizing that the right people won’t make you feel like you’re too much. Because when you’re around people with real depth, you don’t have to keep apologizing for having something to say.

Comfort Zone Will Keep You Stuck

I recorded this about a month before turning 30… and now that I’m here, it hits even harder. This episode is me reflecting on my 20s and realizing how much of my growth came from getting uncomfortable. From moving to a new city, navigating life on my own, going through setbacks, building new skills, and figuring out who I really am… none of that happens if I stay in my comfort zone. I talk about how easy it is to stay where things feel familiar… but how that same comfort can quietly keep you stuck. This was also a moment for me to really give myself credit. Not waiting on validation from others, but recognizing the work, the risks, and the growth I created on my own. Now being 30, I can say it clearly… everything that moved my life forward came from stepping into discomfort and trusting myself anyway. Because at the end of the day, your comfort zone will keep you stuck… if you let it.