S2E5 - The Story of Alistair: From Evangelical Boy to Queer Love (Part 1)

S2E7 - The Five Words That Carried Me

As the year comes to an end, I look back at everything it held — the losses, the love, the moments that broke me open and the ones that quietly put me back together.In this solo episode, I reflect on my year through five words: loss, support & love, resilience, depth, and self-discovery. I talk about grief, burnout, friendship, learning to separate self-worth from work, listening to the body, and finding meaning beyond pain. This episode is not just about my story. It’s about sitting with difficult emotions, honoring the people we lose, and choosing to live more truthfully — for ourselves, for those who love us, and for the child we once were. If you’ve ever felt like you were losing yourself, this conversation is for you. In loving memory of my uncle and my grandma.

S2E6 - Me, My Black Hair & I: A Story of Power and Pride (Part 2)

Black hair isn’t just style—it’s belonging, visibility, and becoming. In Part 2, we sit down with Nicole to trace how finding community at a historically Black high school reshaped how she saw herself—from getting her first cornrows in the library to finally feeling free to just be. We talk about why representation matters, the shift from ‘90s straight-hair standards to today’s celebration of natural textures, and how icons like Beyoncé and Michelle Obama helped people of the community reclaim their narratives. We also get honest about now: the insecurities that linger, the routine that keeps changing, and the decision to let our hair be—as our lives evolve. This is a conversation about pride, presence, and standing ten toes down in who we are.

S2E6 - Me, My Black Hair & I: A Story of Power and Pride (Part 1)

Black hair is more than style — it’s identity, confidence, and care. In this episode of The Pink Dot, we sit down with my friend Nicole to talk about her personal journey with her hair — growing up in the American South, being told she had “good hair,” and what that meant in a world shaped by beauty standards she didn’t choose.Through open, thoughtful storytelling, she reflects on what it means to love and understand her natural hair, to navigate belonging between different spaces, and to find empowerment in her roots. Nicole’s parents, Ronald and Brenda, also share their own experiences, reminding us how deeply hair connects generations — from everyday routines to symbols of pride and resilience. Part 2 is coming out next Tuesday!

S2E5 - The Story of Alistair: From Evangelical Boy to Queer Love (Part 2)

Part 2 – Coming Out, Letting Go & Love Across Borders In Part 2, Alistair shares the moment everything changed — when doubts turned into decisions, and leaving the church became an act of self-liberation. We follow his journey through personal transformation, long-distance love, and eventually finding home (and his husband) in Belgium. He also opens up about how his relationship with his family evolved — from deep support to painful distance — and what it means to hold space for both. A raw, honest conversation about chosen family, queer joy, and the power of rewriting your own story.

S2E5 - The Story of Alistair: From Evangelical Boy to Queer Love (Part 1)

Part 1 – Church, Creativity & Closeted Youth In Part 1, we meet Alistair — a boy from rural New Zealand who unexpectedly finds purpose, community, and creative expression in a Pentecostal church. We explore how faith offered belonging, how queerness remained unspoken, and how he went from a small-town teenager to producing massive kids’ conferences in Sydney’s megachurch scene. A powerful beginning to a story about faith, identity, and the slow unraveling of both. Part 2 comes out on Thursday, stay tuned!