Unf*ck Yourself

This episode was originally published in 2024, but it’s too good NOT to circle back to. As we’re on a self-image theme, body dysmorphia is something that I myself have experienced massively, and know so many others do too 🤍 Let’s dive in. You look in the mirror and wonder why you don’t see what everyone else sees. You could gain weight, lose weight, or even change your features - and it would still feel off.  Because the problem was never your body. Body dysmorphia actually has nothing to do with how your body and face actually look. Who you are and how you were created was not an accident. Your Higher Self chose every single detail of your body on purpose, for a purpose. Your height, skin tone, freckles, size of your nose - all designed and chosen with the intent to help you reach your highest potential. This episode dives into the Source truth on body dysmorphia: how reflections in other areas of life change how you see your body, why your eyes manipulate light to alter your reflection, and why external fixes like Botox and fillers keep you stuck in the same cycle. You’ll finally learn how to heal from the root - so when you look in the mirror, you see yourself clearly and any choices that follow are made from an aligned, balanced place. RESOURCES MENTIONED The Glow Foundation - LIVE 90-min Workshop - September 2025 https://www.alexandraninfo.com/theglowfoundation [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/theglowfoundation] Your $28 Foundational Program https://www.alexandraninfo.com/the-foundation [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/the-foundation] The Alexandra Ninfo Affiliate Program https://www.alexandraninfo.com/affiliate [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/affiliate] Unf*ck Yourself Membership https://www.alexandraninfo.com/membership [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/membership] FOLLOW ME Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo [https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo] TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo [https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo] You Can Also Listen to Unf*ck Yourself Podcast Here Site - https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast] Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740] Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e [https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e] YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo [https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo]

You’re tired of hitting the same walls and repeating the same obstacles - you just want the results to match the effort you put in. But the reason you don’t have them isn’t because you’re lazy or unmotivated. It’s because your self-image is running the show. And right now, it’s working against you. The people you see with the career, the money, the fulfilling relationship, the influence? They’re not “special” - they just don’t have the same blocks you do. Even if you’re thriving in one area of life, any gap in your self-image leaves a gap in your Creator Field. And when you have gaps, you become a magnet for more obstacles. The fix isn’t working harder. It’s shifting how you see yourself so the rest of the world matches your energy and treats you accordingly. There’s a proven energetic formula to create this shift, and once you do…the success, recognition, and results are inevitable. This episode dives into the telling signs of a self-image gap, how it plays a role in what you create, and the steps to start shifting it today. Note: This episode was pre-recorded, not filmed live for the Unf*ck Yourself Membership RESOURCES MENTIONED The Glow Foundation - LIVE 90-min Workshop - September 2025 https://www.alexandraninfo.com/theglowfoundation [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/theglowfoundation] Your $28 Foundational Program https://www.alexandraninfo.com/the-foundation [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/the-foundation] The Alexandra Ninfo Affiliate Program https://www.alexandraninfo.com/affiliate [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/affiliate] Unf*ck Yourself Membership https://www.alexandraninfo.com/membership [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/membership] FOLLOW ME Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo [https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo] TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo [https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo] You Can Also Listen to Unf*ck Yourself Podcast Here Site - https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast] Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740] Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e [https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e] YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo [https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo]

The #1 question I get asked when it comes to self-image in romantic relationships is…  “How do I find or make sure I’m in my dream relationship?” and/or “What’s the difference between a soul compliment and a soul mate?”  The Source truth is that we are not meant to do life alone forever, we're not meant to live life without a life partner. And we also all have a need to be understood by our partner.  When we improve what we feel like we're deserving of in relationships, then we are able to create that. It's KNOWING you're deserving of that high 90s or even 100% match for you! There’s 4 specific categories of being compatible with someone including:   * Mentally * Physically * Spiritually * Emotionally While a soul compliment will help you grow and expedite what you desire to create in life x100... it is also 100x more reflective at the same time. So many people have been with a soul compliment but thought it was a terrible relationship because those relationships are the most reflective thing you’ll ever experience.  Intuitively, 97% of the world who gets divorced either (1) gets divorced too early OR (2) shouldn't have because they didn't understand reflections and they could have made that relationship blossom so much more.  In this episode, you’ll learn the ins and outs of increasing your self-image so you’re a match for a partner that’s a 100% match for you, and understand what a soul compliment is like.  RESOURCES MENTIONED The Glow Foundation - LIVE 90-min Workshop - September 2025 https://www.alexandraninfo.com/theglowfoundation [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/theglowfoundation] The Alexandra Ninfo Affiliate Program https://www.alexandraninfo.com/affiliate [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/affiliate] Unf*ck Yourself Membership https://www.alexandraninfo.com/membership [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/membership] FOLLOW ME Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo [https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo]  TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo [https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo]  You Can Also Listen to Unf*ck Yourself Podcast Here Site - https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast]  Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740] Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e [https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e] YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo [https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo] FOLLOW ME Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo [https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo] TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo [https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo] You Can Also Listen to Unf*ck Yourself Podcast Here Site - https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast] Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740] Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e [https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e] YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo [https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo]

The version of self-love you were taught isn’t the version that’s gonna get you what you want. Bubble baths won’t teach you how to say no to your mom when she asks for a favor you don’t have the energy for. A massage won’t stop your bestie from taking more from you than they give back. A wine night watching your fav TV show won’t keep you from being a pushover at work when your boss overloads your plate. But it’s not your fault. You’ve been conditioned by 1 of 2 extremes. Christianity tells you that you’re only a “good person” if you self-sacrifice and dedicate your life to serving others. The spiritual healing space tells you you can’t love yourself unless you cut everyone off the second they cross the line. They’re not completely wrong…but they’re missing a massive piece. One no one ever talks about. There’s a proven energetic and physical formula for self-love that actually works and allows you to prioritize yourself and still have the capacity to show up for others at 100%. This week’s episode is only for those ready to challenge everything they thought they knew about self-love and walk away with the tools to get what you want, every time.  No guilt. No regret. No second-guessing. No matter the circumstances. RESOURCES MENTIONED The Glow Foundation - LIVE 90-min Workshop - September 2025 https://www.alexandraninfo.com/theglowfoundation [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/theglowfoundation] Your $28 Foundational Program https://www.alexandraninfo.com/the-foundation [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/the-foundation] The Alexandra Ninfo Affiliate Program https://www.alexandraninfo.com/affiliate [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/affiliate] Unf*ck Yourself Membership https://www.alexandraninfo.com/membership [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/membership] FOLLOW ME Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo [https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo] TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo [https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo] You Can Also Listen to Unf*ck Yourself Podcast Here Site - https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast] Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740] Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e [https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e] YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo [https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo]

You’ve been told your whole life that if you fix that one thing, things will finally shift for you. Be less loud and more people will like you. Be more serious and you’ll be respected. Tweak your nose and your attitude, and suddenly you’ll be worthy of love and success. But here’s the truth. That belief isn’t empowering you. You’re being manipulated. This episode unpacks why you actually don’t need to change a single thing to feel and be magnetic, you just need to start with remembering who the f*ck you are. Because when your version of unconditional love matches Source’s definition, that’s when everything finally shifts. You get chosen. Opportunities are lined up for you. You stop performing and overgiving. You stop losing yourself just to win over others. Unlocking your full power and potential doesn’t come from shapeshifting into someone else. It comes from letting go of what you thought you had to be or do to get what you want. You get to rewrite the script, where you are the standard and love for yourself doesn’t come with conditions. RESOURCES MENTIONED The Glow Foundation - LIVE 90-min Workshop - September 2025 https://www.alexandraninfo.com/theglowfoundation [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/theglowfoundation] Your $28 Foundational Program https://www.alexandraninfo.com/the-foundation [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/the-foundation] The Alexandra Ninfo Affiliate Program https://www.alexandraninfo.com/affiliate [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/affiliate] Unf*ck Yourself Membership https://www.alexandraninfo.com/membership [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/membership] FOLLOW ME Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo [https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo] TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo [https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo] You Can Also Listen to Unf*ck Yourself Podcast Here Site - https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast [https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast] Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740] Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e [https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e] YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo [https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo]