#125 "My Parents Left Me at 9. I Refused to Stay Broken." | Aya dela Cruz

#128 Successful, Single & Still Waiting? The Dating Truth No One Tells You | Yana Fry

Your calendar is full, your career is moving, your life looks impressive… so why is love still sitting in the “later” folder? In this episode, I’m speaking directly to successful single women who want a real relationship, but keep postponing dating until after the next promotion, business idea, book, trip, or life reset. At the Academy of Love, I see this pattern all the time: ambitious women aren’t avoiding love because they don’t care, they’re often avoiding the vulnerability, dating fears, relationship patterns, and inner work that lasting love actually requires. Join my 9 Love Archetypes™ Masterclass and discover what has been sabotaging your love life → https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmFBOHJSTWk5SENyZWxsYlgxeHNicFFNVUdyd3xBQ3Jtc0ttRW1sZjBpV0F0Q3NQeWlVZGV5RWpqaUZDNnJTSHg5MGppZkh4YXl5T3dWN1lpdkgzaHVzcGM3UXJWQkd5NV9DcnpuT2Y2bHRGSzhuRWIxOGJMZjZlbzZzbW1UVzZldVNydXhDMDNZQnR5eGd5bmQzWQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Flove.yanafry.com%2Fopt-in&v=H2nM1AB6_E4https://love.yanafry.com [https://love.yanafry.com] We talk honestly about dating in Singapore, modern relationships, fertility timelines, emotional availability, and why waiting until you feel “ready” may be the very thing keeping you stuck. No panic, no shame, no fluffy love advice. Just a direct conversation about choosing love with clarity, self-awareness, and courage before life makes the choice for you. IN THIS EPISODE 00:30 | The uncomfortable truth successful women rarely hear 01:20 | When ambition becomes the perfect excuse to avoid love 02:55 | The Singapore dating data women should not ignore 04:55 | The fertility timeline nobody likes talking about 06:35 | Why dating options change faster than you think 08:25 | What is really stopping you from showing up for love 10:15 | Why “I’ll start later” may be costing you more than you think 11:00 | One small move that can restart your love life 11:30 | The decision that changes your relationship future 💫 ABOUT YANA FRY Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized speaker, transformational coach, and founder of Awaken Human and Timeless Teachings Academy - pioneering platforms at the intersection of conscious leadership, emotional intelligence, and soul-based success. With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women and conscious men create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact. LET'S CONNECT Website → https://love.yanafry.com [https://love.yanafry.com/opt-in] LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry [https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry]Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/yanafry [https://www.instagram.com/yanafry]Bookings → connect@yanafry.com JOIN THE CONVERSATION 👉 If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to YanaTV and share it with a woman who may need to hear that she is not broken, failing, or alone in what she's experiencing. And tell me in the comments: If love wasn't something you could postpone forever, what would you do differently today? #DatingAdvice #SingleWomen #LoveAndRelationships #ModernDating #SuccessfulWomen #HighAchievingWomen #RelationshipAdvice #DatingInSingapore #FindingLove #EmotionalAvailability #SelfLoveJourney #FeminineEnergy #LoveMindset #PersonalGrowth #YanaFry #YanaTV

#127 Why Women Stop Wanting Sex in Marriage (How To Bring Desire Back) | Yana Fry

"When did you stop wanting your husband, and did you even notice when it happened?” In this episode, I unpack one of the most common but least talked about challenges in marriage: low libido, loss of intimacy, and why so many women feel disconnected from desire after children. We explore the surprising role of hormones, mental load, motherhood, relationship dynamics, and emotional connection in shaping sexual desire. If you've ever wondered whether it's stress, marriage, postpartum changes, or something deeper, this conversation will help you understand what's really happening, and what you can do about it. A must-watch for women navigating marriage, intimacy, motherhood, and long-term relationships. Join my 9 Love Archetypes™ Masterclass, whether you're a single woman or in a committed relationship, and discover the hidden pattern that's keeping real love and desire at a distance → https://love.yanafry.com/opt-in [https://love.yanafry.com/opt-in] IN THIS EPISODE 00:00 | Why You No Longer Desire Your Husband 00:58 | The Silent Intimacy Struggle Most Married Women Hide 02:26 | Postpartum Hormones & Why Libido Drops After Children 04:16 | Why Desire Doesn't Always Return After Hormones Normalize 04:46 | Unequal Domestic Labor and Loss of Attraction in Marriage 05:50 | Feeling "Touched Out" After Motherhood Explained 06:38 | How Lack of Intimacy Creates Emotional Distance in Marriage 07:52 | Hormone Testing, Stress & Medical Causes of Low Libido 08:38 | Stop Forcing Desire: Create the Conditions for Attraction 09:20 | How to Talk to Your Husband About Lost Desire 10:04 | Reclaiming Your Body Beyond Motherhood and Marriage 10:30 | Why Intimacy Requires Intention, Not Spontaneity 10:52 | You Are Not Broken: Understanding Desire Loss in Women 11:46 | How to Rebuild Connection and Bring Desire Back 💫 ABOUT YANA FRY Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized speaker, transformational coach, and founder of Awaken Human and Timeless Teachings Academy - pioneering platforms at the intersection of conscious leadership, emotional intelligence, and soul-based success. With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women and conscious men create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact. LET'S CONNECT Website → https://love.yanafry.com/opt-in [https://love.yanafry.com/opt-in] LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry [https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry] Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/yanafry [https://www.instagram.com/yanafry] Bookings → connect@yanafry.com JOIN THE CONVERSATION 👉 If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to YanaTV and share it with a woman who may need to hear that she is not broken, failing, or alone in what she's experiencing. And tell me in the comments: What do you think has the biggest impact on desire in a long-term relationship: hormones, stress, emotional connection, or something else entirely?

#126 Tibetan Master Reveals Why Modern Tantra Can Destroy You | Karma Lhatrul Dorji Rinpoche

Tantra is not what you think it is. Here is WHY. Karma Lhatrul Dorji Rinpoche is a reincarnated Tibetan Buddhist master who remembered his past life at the age of three and was returned to the monastery where he was trained in the Dzogchen tradition. In this conversation, Yana Fry asks him about tantra, spiritual practice, modern relationships, love, attachment, and why he believes some teachings can be genuinely dangerous without the right foundation. They also talked about what it means to find a real guru, why so many relationships fail, and why the modern obsession with tantra may have very little to do with traditional Tantra at all. If you've ever been curious about Buddhism, Tantra, meditation, mindfulness, spiritual awakening, or the search for deeper meaning, this conversation will challenge many assumptions. IN THIS EPISODE 00:00 | The 3-Year-Old Who Remembered His Past Life 01:27 | Why Most People Completely Misunderstand Tantra 02:45 | The Missing Piece That's Keeping You Divided Inside 03:42 | The Difference Between Desire and Real Connection 05:05 | The Ancient Practice Modern High Performers Keep Chasing 06:17 | Why Chasing More Control Can Backfire 08:27 | What Nobody Tells Women About Spiritual Power 09:13 | Can You Have Success, Family, and Spiritual Freedom? 11:01 | The Hidden Danger Almost Everyone Ignores 13:22 | The Safety Net You Need Before Going Deeper 14:54 | Do You Actually Need This Path? 15:30 | Curiosity Could Change Your Life—or Confuse It 16:47 | How to Spot a Real Teacher in a World Full of Experts 17:35 | The One Thing Most People Refuse to Do 18:19 | Why Modern Spirituality Feels So Different 19:29 | The Red Flag That Instantly Disqualifies a Teacher 21:27 | The Real Reason Relationships Fall Apart 24:21 | The Secret That Happy Couples Rarely Talk About 26:21 | Is It Love, or Just Attachment in Disguise? 30:25 | What Happens When You No Longer Want Anything? 💫 ABOUT KARMA LHATRUL DORJI RINPOCHE Karma Lhatrul Dorji Rinpoche is a reincarnated Tibetan Buddhist master who has devoted more than two decades to meditation, monastic training, and preserving the wisdom of his lineage. Today, he shares authentic Buddhist teachings and healing practices with communities around the world. CONNECT WITH RINPOCHE → https://www.facebook.com/karma.lhatrul/ [https://www.facebook.com/karma.lhatrul/] https://www.instagram.com/karma_rinpoche83/ [https://www.instagram.com/karma_rinpoche83/] 💫 ABOUT YANA FRY Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized speaker, transformational coach, and founder of Awaken Human and Timeless Teachings Academy - pioneering platforms at the intersection of conscious leadership, emotional intelligence, and soul-based success. With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women and conscious men create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact. LET'S CONNECT Website → https://www.yanafry.com [https://www.yanafry.com]LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry [https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry]Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/yanafry [https://www.instagram.com/yanafry]Bookings → connect@yanafry.com JOIN THE CONVERSATION 👉 If this episode challenged the way you think about Tantra, spirituality, relationships, or love, please subscribe to YanaTV and share it with someone who is searching for deeper answers beyond the noise of modern life. And tell me in the comments: What do you think is the difference between love and attachment?

#125 "My Parents Left Me at 9. I Refused to Stay Broken." | Aya dela Cruz

What happens when the people who were supposed to protect you choose to leave you? And can a child who was abandoned grow up to create the loving family she never had? Aya dela Cruz was just nine years old when her parents disappeared overnight, leaving her and her sister behind with their grandmother. In this deeply moving conversation with Yana Fry, she shares how she navigated abandonment, shame, and uncertainty without allowing those experiences to define her future. 🌹 Join Return to Love: A 28-Day Moon-Aligned Journey for High-Achieving Women Into LOVE → https://bit.ly/4srQ1oo [https://bit.ly/4srQ1oo] Together, they explore the lasting impact of childhood wounds, family dynamics, forgiveness, self-worth, and the choices that shape our lives long after difficult circumstances have passed. Aya opens up about growing up without her parents, defending a mother others blamed, building confidence despite rejection, and creating the loving marriage and family she once feared she might never have. But this episode goes far beyond childhood trauma. It becomes a powerful conversation about resilience, parenting, breaking generational cycles, unconditional love, and the courage to choose a different future than the one you inherited. IN THIS EPISODE 00:00 I Her Parents Abandoned Her. She Refused to Let It Define Her  00:36 | Can Childhood Trauma Shape Your Entire Life? 01:38 | Her Parents Left Without Saying Anything  05:21 | The Shame of Being Abandoned 09:09 | The Surprising Reason She Never Resented Her Mother 13:49 | Refusing to Pass Trauma On to Her Children 15:49 | The Marriage Rule That Changed Everything 22:56 | What Family Really Means 26:06 | Why Forgiveness Isn't What Most People Think 29:49 | The Three Loves That Saved Her Life 31:51 | The Lesson Her Story Teaches Us All 💫 ABOUT AYA DELA CRUZ Aya dela Cruz is an international lifestyle photographer and visual storyteller who captures authentic family moments with honesty and heart. Drawing from her own journey across cultures and motherhood, she celebrates the beauty found in life's imperfect, everyday moments. CONNECT WITH AYA → https://www.ayadelacruz.com [https://www.ayadelacruz.com] https://www.instagram.com/aya.r.delacruz/ [https://www.instagram.com/aya.r.delacruz/] In this episode, we support The Mirror Foundation, a nonprofit in Thailand empowering vulnerable communities through sustainable development, disaster relief, and environmental initiatives. Learn more and support their mission here: https://themirrorfoundation.org/ [https://themirrorfoundation.org/] 💫 ABOUT YANA FRY Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized speaker, transformational coach, and founder of Awaken Human and Timeless Teachings Academy - pioneering platforms at the intersection of conscious leadership, emotional intelligence, and soul-based success. With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women and conscious men create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact. LET'S CONNECT Website → https://www.yanafry.com [https://www.yanafry.com] LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry [https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry] Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/yanafry [https://www.instagram.com/yanafry] Bookings → connect@yanafry.com ❤️ RETURN TO LOVE → https://bit.ly/4srQ1oo [https://bit.ly/4srQ1oo] JOIN THE CONVERSATION 👉 If this episode resonates, please subscribe to YanaTV and share it with someone who may need this reminder: your past does not have to become your future. And tell me in the comments: What does forgiveness mean to you?

#124 Brain Health Expert: The Truth About Preventing Cognitive Decline | Anna Milani

This conversation isn’t just about living longer. It’s about a harder question: what if longevity without vitality, connection, or cognitive health isn’t really living at all? JOIN YANA FRY’S SIGNATURE MASTERCLASS ABOUT FEMININE LOVE ARCHETYPES → https://bit.ly/48tM76u [https://bit.ly/48tM76u] Anna Milani grew up watching Alzheimer’s slowly transform her grandfather. In this deeply personal conversation with Yana Fry https://www.instagram.com/yanafry/ [https://www.instagram.com/yanafry/], she opens up about witnessing cognitive decline inside her own family, the fear of inherited dementia, and how that experience shaped her life’s work around brain health, movement, resilience, and what she calls “the joy span.” Together, they explore the powerful connection between body, brain, nervous system, and emotional wellbeing—from VO2 max and oxygen flow to neuroplasticity, cognitive training, and the importance of movement not just for longevity, but for joy itself. But this episode goes far beyond science. It becomes an intimate conversation about motherhood, marriage, sacrifice, resilience, relationships, and what it means to stay emotionally present through life’s hardest seasons IN THIS EPISODE 00:00 | Longevity & Why Living Longer Isn’t Enough 00:31 | Brain Health & the Science of the Joy Span 01:29 | Watching Alzheimer’s Change Her Grandfather  05:03 | Can You Prevent Dementia? Brain Health & Longevity Tips 09:40 | The Joy Span: Healthy Aging, Happiness & Longevity 11:55 | Childhood Trauma, Divorce & Building Healthy Relationships 13:30 | VO2 Max, Cardio Training & Brain Oxygen Explained 17:43 | Wim Hof Breathing, Nervous System Regulation & Stress Relief 20:55 | Brain Health Tips: Exercise, Cognitive Training & Movement 23:28 | Motherhood, Sacrifice & Living Away From Her Children  27:49 | Mom Guilt, Parenting Anxiety & Emotional Resilience 29:55 | Quick Fire Questions on Relationships, Confidence & Longevity  💫 ABOUT ANNA MILANI Anna Milani is a brain-body performance specialist, speaker, and founder of SPARKD by CHI Longevity and Brain & Fitness, focused on the intersection of exercise, cognitive performance, and longevity. Inspired by her grandfather’s journey with Alzheimer’s disease, she is passionate about making brain health and fitness accessible to more people through the powerful connection between movement and cognition. A mother of three with a background spanning fitness, neuroscience, and high-performance coaching, Anna develops innovative cognitive-motor training systems that help individuals improve physical performance, cognitive resilience, and quality of life at every stage of life. CONNECT WITH ANNA → https://www.linkedin.com/in/annaliisamilani/  [https://www.linkedin.com/in/annaliisamilani/] In this episode, we support Melrose Home, a residential home under Children's Aid Society that provides care, therapy, and educational support for children and youths recovering from abuse and difficult family circumstances. Learn more and support their mission here: https://childrensaidsociety.org.sg/melrose-home/ 💫 ABOUT YANA FRY Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized speaker, transformational coach, and founder of Awaken Human and Timeless Teachings Academy - pioneering platforms at the intersection of conscious leadership, emotional intelligence, and soul-based success. With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women and conscious men create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact. LET’S CONNECT Website → https://www.yanafry.com [https://www.yanafry.com] LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry [https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry] Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/yanafry [https://www.instagram.com/yanafry] Bookings → connect@yanafry.com [connect@yanafry.com] ❤️ FREE SIGNATURE MASTERCLASS → https://bit.ly/48tM76u [https://bit.ly/48tM76u] JOIN THE CONVERSATION 👉 If this episode resonates, please subscribe to YanaTV, share it with someone you love - it helps us bring more untold stories into the world. And tell me in the comments: What does LONGEVITY mean to you?