When Hospice Isn’t Enough: Why Families Call an End-of-Life Doula

One Last Wave for His Father

I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2259959/fan_mail/new] In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with Dan Fischer, founder of the One Last Wave Project, to talk about grief, connection, and what it means to carry on a relationship with someone you love after they die.  After losing his father to pancreatic cancer, Dan found himself searching for a way to process his grief. What started as writing his father’s name on a surfboard and paddling into the ocean became something much larger. Today, the One Last Wave Project honors loved ones by carrying their names into the water on handcrafted boards around the world   In this conversation, Traci and Dan talk about:  * What grief feels like when you are in it   * How nature can support emotional healing   * Continuing bonds and staying connected after someone dies   * The story behind the One Last Wave Project and how families participate   This episode offers something many people need but rarely hear. Permission to grieve in their own way, and to find their own path forward.  Whether you work in end-of-life care or are navigating loss yourself, this conversation brings both personal experience and practical understanding to the grieving.  Links/Resources  * Guest:Dan Fischer, One Last Wave Project - https://onelastwaveproject.com/ [https://onelastwaveproject.com/]   * Host: Traci Arieli - https://www.comfortingclosure.com [https://www.comfortingclosure.com/]     Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes!

Using AI in Grief: Memory, Connection, and What’s Real

I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2259959/fan_mail/new] In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli explores a question more people are beginning to ask: does AI have a place in grief?  Joined by Traci Gwozdz, grief educator and advisor to Reflekta, this conversation looks at how artificial intelligence is being used to preserve memories, support grief, and maintain connection after loss. Drawing from her own experience of losing both parents and her son, Traci G shares how grief evolves, what it means to integrate loss, and how tools like AI reflections are being used in real life.   Together, they discuss the emotional and ethical questions surrounding AI in grief, including what these tools can offer, where their limits are, and how to approach them in a way that supports healing rather than avoidance.  Key takeaways include:  * What “grief integration” means and why grief doesn’t follow a timeline   * How AI tools are being used to preserve memories and support connection   * When someone might be ready, or not ready, to engage with tools like this   * How to approach new technology in grief with awareness and intention   This episode is designed to open a conversation. Whether you’re curious, skeptical, or somewhere in between, it offers a grounded look at how people are navigating grief in a changing world.   Links/Resources  * Guest: Traci Gwozdz - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracigwozdz/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracigwozdz/]   * Reflekta: https://www.reflekta.ai [https://www.reflekta.ai/]   * Host: Traci Arieli's Website - https://www.comfortingclosure.com [https://www.comfortingclosure.com/]   * David Kessler (Grief Educator): https://www.grief.com [https://grief.com/]     Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes!

Hospice Care: What a Nurse Wishes Families Knew

I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2259959/fan_mail/new] In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with Peter Abraham, BSN, RN, to talk about the real experience of hospice care, beyond what most families are told.  They walk through what hospice nursing looks like today, including heavy caseloads, time pressure, burnout, and the limits nurses face at the bedside. Peter shares firsthand stories about where care breaks down, what families are often unprepared for, and why gaps in education and support still exist.   You’ll also hear about the growing role of end-of-life doulas, how they support families in ways hospice often cannot, and why collaboration between doulas and hospice teams is still evolving.  Key takeaways include:  • What hospice nurses wish families understood before starting care  • How staffing shortages and time constraints impact patient experience  • Why families must advocate for their loved ones  • The emotional toll on hospice professionals  • How doulas help fill critical gaps in time, education, and support  This conversation is direct, grounded, and important. If you’ve ever wondered how hospice really works, or how to better support someone at the end of life, this episode will give you a clearer picture.  Links/Resources  * Peter Abraham, BSN, RN: https://compassioncrossing.info [https://compassioncrossing.info/]   * Traci Arieli - https://www.comfortingclosure.com [https://www.comfortingclosure.com/]   * The Hospice Journey Handbook (by Peter Abraham, available on Amazon)   Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes!

How Shamanism Helps with Grief: A Different Way to Experience Loss

I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2259959/fan_mail/new] What actuallhttps://www.hjertehagen.net [https://www.hjertehagen.net]y happens in a shamanic journey, and can it really shift the way we experience grief?  In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli looks at the role of shamanism in grief, death, and the unknown. Joined by Lisa Cox, a death midwife and shamanic practitioner, this conversation looks at shamanism as a grounded, experiential practice rather than something abstract or performative.  Together, they discuss what a shamanic journey is, how it differs from meditation or visualization, and why direct experience can change the way we hold grief. The episode also explores the role of ancestry, anticipatory grief, and how engaging with non-ordinary reality can change our relationship with death.  If you are navigating grief, working in end-of-life care, or simply curious about how we relate to death and what may lie beyond it, this episode offers a grounded and thoughtful place to begin.  Links/Resources  * Guest: Lisa Cox – https://www.hjertehagen.net [https://www.hjertehagen.net/about]  * Host: Traci Arieli – https://www.comfortingclosure.com [https://www.comfortingclosure.com/]   Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes!

Funeral Planning Before a Crisis: What Families Need to Know

I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2259959/fan_mail/new] In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli explores funeral planning and why it matters long before a death occurs.  She is joined by Dan Ford, President of Alderson-Ford Funeral Homes and President of the National Funeral Directors Association. Drawing from his experience working with families, Dan shares what happens when no plans are in place and how that affects loved ones during an already difficult moment.  Together, they talk about when families typically reach out to a funeral director, what people wish they had done earlier, and why leaving no guidance often leads to confusion, conflict, and rushed decisions. The conversation also touches on funeral costs and debt, the pressure families face when decisions are made in crisis, and the balance between honoring someone’s wishes and supporting those left behind.  They also discuss the role of ritual and cultural practices in grief, even for those who do not identify as religious, and discuss how funeral directors and end-of-life doulas can work together to better support families before, during, and after a death.  This episode is for anyone who wants to make things easier for the people they love and begin thinking about funeral planning before it becomes urgent.    Links/Resources  * Dan Ford - https://www.fordfh.com [https://www.fordfh.com/]   * Traci Arieli - https://www.comfortingclosure.com [https://www.comfortingclosure.com/]   * National Funeral Directors Association - https://nfda.org [https://nfda.org/]  * Resources: National Funeral Directors Association consumer resources - https://nfda.org/consumer-resources [https://nfda.org/consumer-resources]    If this conversation was helpful, please like, share, comment, and subscribe so more people can find it.