Feeling vs "Feelings"

The Woodpecker

A woodpecker never asks if it feels like doing the work. It just shows up — whether anyone's watching or not. I spent years saying I wanted more, then living a life that proved I didn't. In this one I take you to my front porch, to a bird I couldn't stop watching, and to the question underneath all of it: do you actually want what you say you want, or does it just sound good to say it? We get into reps over perfection, the kinds of pecking most people never notice, and why getting stuck isn't a setback — it's built into the work. You're designed for this. The only question is whether you'll do it when no one's keeping score. Remember — we go forward and up. ---------------------------------------- On a slow morning on my front porch, a woodpecker taught me something I'd spent years avoiding: the work doesn't care whether you feel like it. This one is about the reps — the quiet, unwatched showing-up that separates the people who want a different life from the people who just like the sound of saying it. Key Takeaways * You get good at anything by putting in the reps. It's not about being perfect — it's about showing up. * A woodpecker never pecks aimlessly. It trusts what it can't see beneath the bark, and it's built for the work. So are you. * There are two kinds of pecking — the joyful noise and the intentional seeking — and both matter. * Getting stuck isn't a failure. Like an all-wheel-drive car, you're designed to shift, find traction, and keep moving. * The reps that count are the ones with no audience and no paycheck attached. Action Steps 1. Name one thing you say you want — then look honestly at how you actually spend your days. 2. Find your joyful noise: one thing worth showing up for purely because it lights you up. 3. The next time you feel stuck, don't freak out — make one small, steady, opposite move, then another. 4. Do one rep today on the thing that matters, with nobody watching. Notable Quote The woodpecker just shows up and does the work, whether someone's watching or not. Connect newsoulrising.com [http://newsoulrising.com] bookjaime.com [http://bookjaime.com] @newsoulrising on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn If this one landed — put it in front of one person who needs it. Remember — we go forward and up. Music by @visacard_ on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/visacard_ [https://www.instagram.com/visacard_]

The Work Is Working

The Work Is Working I do not believe in luck. I believe in what I build when no one is watching. For two weeks straight, people kept telling me how lucky I was. Lucky that the loaner car appeared the moment mine fell through. Lucky that the problems kept solving themselves before I could even worry about them. You are so lucky, you are so lucky, you are so lucky. I will take lucky girl syndrome all day long. But I can tell you it is more than luck. It is different than luck. Maybe it is not luck at all. I am the creator of my own reality, and so are you. Your beliefs create your experiences, and your experiences confirm your beliefs. Which means there is at least one area of your life where the work is already working — where things just fall into place. This episode is about finding that area, taking it apart, and using what you learn everywhere else. Key Takeaways * Your beliefs create your experiences, and your experiences confirm your beliefs. If you believe things are going to work out, they tend to. * There is proof in the poof. You do the work with no idea what the results will be, and then suddenly, there it is. * There is at least one area of your life that already works. That is not luck. That is something you built. * You can borrow your own neural network. The sharp focus that works in one area can be intentionally applied to the areas that need it. * The more you are grateful, the more it grows. The more you focus on the good, the more good flows to you. Action Steps 1. Think of one area of your life that is working — the thing that makes you throw your hands up and say thank you. Write it down. 2. Take it apart. Look at what you are putting into it. There you will find the system. 3. Take that system and apply it to an area that needs improvement this week. Try different things and see what works. Notable Quote I am the creator of my own reality, and so are you. Connect newsoulrising.com [http://newsoulrising.com] bookjaime.com [http://bookjaime.com] @newsoulrising on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn If this one landed — put it in front of one person who needs it. Remember — we go forward and up. Music by @visacard_ on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/visacard_ [https://www.instagram.com/visacard_]

Is It Time to Quit?

Is It Time to Quit? Yes. I said it. Is it time to quit? Is it time to surrender? Is it time to let go? Here is the real question underneath all of it — are you married to what is not working? The business that is not growing. The relationship that keeps cycling back to the same fight. The career you are relieved to walk away from at the end of every single day. You have poured so much into it that you have talked yourself into believing it is worth more than it is. That is sweat equity. And sometimes sweat equity makes us hold on to something long past the point we should have let go. This one is a little harsh. I am not sorry. Somebody needs to hear it today. It might be you. Key Takeaways * If you cannot picture this person, place, or thing in your life six months from now — evolved, grown, better — that is information worth paying attention to. * A cycle is something you catch and stop. A pattern is the same input and the same output a hundred times over with nothing changing. Learn the difference. * If you shrink to fit inside something you have outgrown, it might not be yours to carry anymore. * One of the clearest signs it is time — you feel relieved when it is not there. Pay attention to what your relief is telling you. * Surrender does not always feel good. But sitting in those yucky feelings is sometimes exactly where you find the fire to finally do something different. Action Steps 1. Pick the area of your life that came to mind while you were listening. Picture it honestly six months from now. If nothing has changed, name what that tells you. 2. Ask yourself one question about it — am I excited to show up, or am I grateful when it is over? Write the real answer down. 3. Choose one thing this week. Either do something different enough to shake it up and get a new result, or be honest that it is time to let it go. Notable Quote A cycle you recognize and stop. A pattern is the same input, the same output, a hundred times over, and nothing ever changes. Connect newsoulrising.com [http://newsoulrising.com] bookjaime.com [http://bookjaime.com] @newsoulrising on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn If this one landed — put it in front of one person who needs it. Remember — we go forward and up. Music by @visacard_ on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/visacard_ [https://www.instagram.com/visacard_]

The Beautiful Prison

Are you living in a beautiful prison? Have you created a beautiful hell? My grandmother was born in 1918 and lived to be almost 104. The most faithful person I have ever known. She lived through the Spanish flu, every war, every president. She was alive when women got the right to vote, when women started to drive, when women entered the workplace — and she never once stepped into that world. She lived a lovely, comfortable, blessed life. And she carried a long list of things she always wanted to do and never did. It took me most of my life to realize I was reliving her exact pattern. Seventeen years as a stay-at-home mom, I built something beautiful — and somewhere in there it became a beautiful prison I did not even know I was trapped in. Here is the trap. If your life were ugly, you would pick it apart looking for what is wrong. But because it is beautiful, you assume it is working. This episode is about the chain you cannot see — and what your beautiful life might actually be costing you. Key Takeaways * A prison does not have to look like a prison. The most beautiful life can still be the thing keeping you stuck. * Because it looks good, you never question it. If your life were falling apart, you would examine it. Beauty hides the cost. * Think of the eight of swords — a blindfolded woman surrounded by blades, never seeing that one step in any direction sets her free. * Think of the circus elephant — full grown, chained to nothing, held in place by a restraint that no longer exists anywhere but its mind. * The life you have created, and the life you are creating, will cost you something. The only question is whether you are willing to look at the bill. Action Steps 1. Name one area of your life that looks good from the outside but quietly costs you peace, freedom, or yourself. Write it down honestly. 2. Find your chain. Ask what is actually holding you in place — and whether it is real or just something you have believed for so long it feels real. 3. Ask the hard question this week: what would it take for me to be uncomfortable enough in this beauty to leave it behind for something more beautiful? Notable Quote If your life were ugly, you would pick it apart to find what was wrong. But because it is beautiful, you just assume it is working. Connect newsoulrising.com [http://newsoulrising.com] bookjaime.com [http://bookjaime.com] @newsoulrising on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn If this one landed — put it in front of one person who needs it. Remember — we go forward and up. Music by @visacard_ on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/visacard_ [https://www.instagram.com/visacard_]

The Leap

The Leap The baby steps got you here. They will not get you to what comes next. In this episode Jaime makes the case for the big bold move — the cannonball, the belly flop, the leap into the next version of yourself before you have any proof it is going to work. If you have been standing at the edge waiting for certainty, this one is for you. Key Takeaways * The choices that got you here will not get you to what comes next. A different version of you requires different thoughts, different beliefs, and different actions. * Baby steps matter — but they will not get you into the identity you are becoming. At some point the leap is required. * Rapid fire growth is disorienting by design. Looking in the mirror and not recognizing yourself is not a warning sign. It is confirmation. * The belly flop is part of it. Get the wind knocked out of you, grab every lesson from down there, and get back up faster. * You will not get to where you want to go by staying exactly where you are. Action Steps 1. Identify the one leap you have been avoiding. Write it down. Then write down what is actually stopping you — and ask honestly whether that reason is real or just a story. 2. Audit your current habits today. Are they going to get you to what comes next — or are they keeping you exactly where you are? 3. Choose one thing this week that the next version of you would do. Do it before you are ready. Notable Quote The cannonball or the belly flop — either way you are going in. The only question is whether you are going to keep standing at the edge. Connect newsoulrising.com [http://newsoulrising.com] bookjaime.com [http://bookjaime.com] @newsoulrising on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn If this one landed — put it in front of one person who needs it. Remember — we go forward and up. Music by @visacard_ on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/visacard_ [https://www.instagram.com/visacard_]