Here I Am With Shai Davidai

Your Therapist May Be Making Your Jewish Trauma Worse | Trauma Specialist Dr. Miri Bar Halperin

In this episode of Here I Am with Shai Davidai, Shai sits down with clinical psychologist, trauma expert, and educator Miri Bar-Halpern for a candid conversation about trauma, identity, and what it means to keep showing up when the world feels unstable. Miri shares how her upbringing in Israel and her family history as a third-generation Holocaust survivor shaped her work, and she explains the difference between resilience and post-traumatic growth, focusing on how values-based action and meaning-making can help people move from surviving to thriving after trauma. They also discuss what many Jews have experienced since October 7, including traumatic invalidation in therapy spaces, academic settings, and public life, and why naming the harm is a key step toward healing. The conversation ends with Miri’s work in radicalization prevention through Parents for Peace, including warning signs for families and why antisemitism can appear across extremist ideologies, making this a powerful episode about mental health, advocacy, and reclaiming agency. Guest: Trauma Specialist Miri Bar-Halpern Consider DONATING to help us continue and expand our media efforts. If you cannot at this time, please share this video with someone who might benefit from it. We thank you for your support! https://gofund.me/30c00151c [https://gofund.me/30c00151c] BUY MERCH! https://hereiam.threadless.com/ [https://hereiam.threadless.com/] SUPPORT SHAI ON PATREON! https://www.patreon.com/shaidavidai/about?utm_source=campaign-search-results [https://www.patreon.com/shaidavidai/about?utm_source=campaign-search-results] 🔔 Subscribe now and never miss an episode 📢 Follow us on social media: Instagram: hereiamwithshaidavidai Tik Tok: hereiamwithshaidavidai / hereiamwithshaidavidai 🎧 Listen to the full episode on your favorite podcast platform: RSS: https://rss.com/podcasts/hereiamwithshaidavidai/ [https://rss.com/podcasts/hereiamwithshaidavidai/] Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/here-i-am-with-shai-davidai/id1757483524 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/here-i-am-with-shai-davidai/id1757483524] Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6pI03BMwAuQDbYIy4Zp6ah?si=2bd1c3f8a11c46cd [https://open.spotify.com/show/6pI03BMwAuQDbYIy4Zp6ah?si=2bd1c3f8a11c46cd] #HereIAmWithShaiDavidai #ShaiDavidai #MiriBarHalpern #Podcast #Interview #Trauma #MentalHealth #Therapy #Psychology #Resilience #PostTraumaticGrowth #PTSD #TraumaInformed #JewishIdentity #JewishCommunity #Antisemitism #Israel #October7 #TraumaInvalidation #Radicalization #ParentsForPeace #ExtremismPrevention #OnlineSafety #Healing #Advocacy Credits: Producers: Shai Davidai, Abbie Sophia, Adamit Productions, Allison Fuller, Josh Tepper, Bonnie Berkovits Filmed @ The CAVE Soundstage in Hackensack and edited by Adamit Productions Graphic by Shira Auman

Artists Who Share Every Opinion Are Hurting Their Own Work | Actor & Filmmaker Ari Frenkel

In this episode of Here I Am with Shai Davidai, Shai sits down with actor, writer, and filmmaker Ari Frenkel for a wide-ranging conversation about Jewish identity, comedy, creativity, and grief. Ari shares what it means to be an “October 8th Jew,” how his Israeli upbringing in America shaped his relationship to Judaism, and why humor and satire can reveal (and trigger) so much in people. They dive into Ari’s long-running digital series “Sorry, Ari,” including the viral episode “The Jews,” and talk about navigating mob mentality, online extremism, and making art that stays human in a volatile time. The conversation then turns to Ari’s feature film “See You on the Other Side,” a romantic comedy inspired by his father’s death and the year of grief that followed, including a search for his father’s former love. Ari reflects on loss, meaning-making, and why creating art can be a way to honor the people we’ve lost. Guest: Filmmaker Ari Frenkel Consider DONATING to help us continue and expand our media efforts. If you cannot at this time, please share this video with someone who might benefit from it. We thank you for your support! https://gofund.me/30c00151c [https://gofund.me/30c00151c] BUY MERCH! https://hereiam.threadless.com/ [https://hereiam.threadless.com/] SUPPORT SHAI ON PATREON! https://www.patreon.com/shaidavidai/about?utm_source=campaign-search-results [https://www.patreon.com/shaidavidai/about?utm_source=campaign-search-results] 🔔 Subscribe now and never miss an episode 📢 Follow us on social media: Instagram: hereiamwithshaidavidai Tik Tok: hereiamwithshaidavidai / hereiamwithshaidavidai 🎧 Listen to the full episode on your favorite podcast platform: RSS: https://rss.com/podcasts/hereiamwithshaidavidai/ [https://rss.com/podcasts/hereiamwithshaidavidai/] Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/here-i-am-with-shai-davidai/id1757483524 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/here-i-am-with-shai-davidai/id1757483524] Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6pI03BMwAuQDbYIy4Zp6ah?si=2bd1c3f8a11c46cd [https://open.spotify.com/show/6pI03BMwAuQDbYIy4Zp6ah?si=2bd1c3f8a11c46cd] #HereIAmWithShaiDavidai #ShaiDavidai #AriFrenkel #SorryAri #TheJews #SeeYouOnTheOtherSide #JewishPodcast #JewishIdentity #JewishHumor #JewishCreators #JewishComedy #IsraeliAmerican #Israel #Judaism #October7 #October8Jew #Antisemitism #HateAndHumor #Satire #ComedyWithMeaning #Storytelling #IndependentFilm #Filmmaker #ActorWriterDirector #CreativeProcess #ArtOnYourOwnTerms #Grief #GriefJourney #LossAndHealing #RomCom #FeatureFilm #MeaningMaking #MentalHealth #Resilience #Hope #CultureConversation #PodcastInterview #LongFormContent #SupportArtists #IndieCreators #DigitalSeries #ViralVideo #MobMentality #SocialMediaCulture #ArtAndIdentity #PurposeDrivenArt Credits: Producers: Shai Davidai, Abbie Sophia, Adamit Productions, Allison Fuller, Josh Tepper, Bonnie Berkovits Filmed @ The CAVE Soundstage in Hackensack and edited by Adamit Productions Graphic by Shira Auman

I Stopped the Oppression Olympics and Started Talking About Birth Justice | Advocate Ilana Ygbi

In this episode of Here I Am with Shai Davidai, Shai sits down with Ilana Ybgi, a doula, life coach, and founder of the Crown Heights Birth Justice Project. Ilana describes herself as a “social justice Jew” and explains what social justice means to her: seeing what is broken, taking responsibility, and becoming part of the solution, even through small but real actions. Their conversation explores Ilana’s work supporting women during birth, and why she views birth as a deeply vulnerable, sacred space where dignity and advocacy matter. Ilana and Shai discuss the wider maternal health crisis in the U.S., including how bias in medical settings can impact care, especially for Black women and Orthodox-presenting women. Ilana speaks about the fear and tension that can come with identity, particularly after October 7, and the personal realities of navigating antisemitism while raising a family. Ilana also shares the mission behind the Crown Heights Birth Justice Project, which brings together women from different communities, including Jewish and Black women, to build trust and connection through honest conversations about birth, support, and shared vulnerability. The episode closes with Shai’s rapid-fire “Here I Am” questions, touching on safety, hope, and why the birth of a baby can be a powerful reminder of resilience and optimism. Guest: Ilana Ybgi Consider DONATING to help us continue and expand our media efforts. If you cannot at this time, please share this video with someone who might benefit from it. We thank you for your support! https://gofund.me/30c00151c [https://gofund.me/30c00151c] BUY MERCH! https://hereiam.threadless.com/ [https://hereiam.threadless.com/] SUPPORT SHAI ON PATREON! https://www.patreon.com/shaidavidai/about?utm_source=campaign-search-results [https://www.patreon.com/shaidavidai/about?utm_source=campaign-search-results] 🔔 Subscribe now and never miss an episode 📢 Follow us on social media: Instagram: hereiamwithshaidavidai Tik Tok: hereiamwithshaidavidai / hereiamwithshaidavidai 🎧 Listen to the full episode on your favorite podcast platform: RSS: https://rss.com/podcasts/hereiamwithshaidavidai/ [https://rss.com/podcasts/hereiamwithshaidavidai/] Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/here-i-am-with-shai-davidai/id1757483524 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/here-i-am-with-shai-davidai/id1757483524] Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6pI03BMwAuQDbYIy4Zp6ah?si=2bd1c3f8a11c46cd [https://open.spotify.com/show/6pI03BMwAuQDbYIy4Zp6ah?si=2bd1c3f8a11c46cd] Youtube: https://youtu.be/inPw6AOohDw [https://youtu.be/inPw6AOohDw] #HereIAm #HereIAmWithShaiDavidai #ShaiDavidai #IlanaYbgi #Podcast #PodcastEpisode #Interview #Doula #BirthWorker #BirthSupport #MaternalHealth #BirthJustice #ReproductiveJustice #MaternalMortality #BlackMaternalHealth #BlackMothers #WomensHealth #HealthcareBias #MedicalBias #PatientAdvocacy #InformedConsent #BirthTrauma #HomeBirth #Midwifery #PostpartumSupport #CommunityCare #Healing #BridgeBuilding #CoalitionBuilding #CommunityDialogue #CrownHeights #Brooklyn #OrthodoxJewish #Lubavitch #JewishIdentity #BlackJewish Credits: Producers: Shai Davidai, Abbie Sophia, Adamit Productions, Allison Fuller, Josh Tepper, Bonnie Berkovits Filmed @ The CAVE Soundstage in Hackensack and edited by Adamit Productions Graphic by Shira Auman

The News Is Not Your Friend | Emmy-Nominated Journalist Jacki Karsh

In this episode of Here I Am with Shai Davidai, Shai sits down with Emmy-nominated journalist and Karsh Journalism Fellowship founder Jacki Karsh for a wide-ranging conversation about media, misinformation, and Jewish identity in a post–October 7 world. Karsh shares how moving from New York to Los Angeles reshaped her Jewish life, why she believes social media is built to drive engagement rather than truth, and what it means to be “facts-first” when public discourse is increasingly driven by binaries. They discuss the difference between misinformation and disinformation, the pressures that lead major outlets to report before verifying, and how narratives about Jews and Israel often get flattened into simplistic “good vs. bad” storytelling. Karsh explains why she launched the Karsh Journalism Fellowship: to equip journalists (Jewish and non-Jewish) with deeper context and better tools to report on Jewish life, antisemitism, and Israel with accuracy, nuance, and fairness. Guest: Jacki Karsh Consider DONATING to help us continue and expand our media efforts. If you cannot at this time, please share this video with someone who might benefit from it. We thank you for your support! https://gofund.me/30c00151c [https://gofund.me/30c00151c] BUY MERCH! https://hereiam.threadless.com/ [https://hereiam.threadless.com/] SUPPORT SHAI ON PATREON! https://www.patreon.com/shaidavidai/about?utm_source=campaign-search-results [https://www.patreon.com/shaidavidai/about?utm_source=campaign-search-results] 🔔 Subscribe now and never miss an episode 📢 Follow us on social media: Instagram: hereiamwithshaidavidai Tik Tok: hereiamwithshaidavidai / hereiamwithshaidavidai 🎧 Listen to the full episode on your favorite podcast platform: RSS: https://rss.com/podcasts/hereiamwithshaidavidai/ [https://rss.com/podcasts/hereiamwithshaidavidai/] Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/here-i-am-with-shai-davidai/id1757483524 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/here-i-am-with-shai-davidai/id1757483524] Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6pI03BMwAuQDbYIy4Zp6ah?si=2bd1c3f8a11c46cd [https://open.spotify.com/show/6pI03BMwAuQDbYIy4Zp6ah?si=2bd1c3f8a11c46cd] Credits: Producers: Shai Davidai, Abbie Sophia, Adamit Productions, Allison Fuller, Josh Tepper, Bonnie Kirsch Filmed @ The CAVE Soundstage in Hackensack and edited by Adamit Productions Graphic by Shira Auman For sponsorship opportunities, please email achi@adamitproductions.com [achi@adamitproductions.com]

The Most Defamed Man Running the Anti-Defamation League | CEO Jonathan Greenblatt

In this episode of Here I Am with Shai Davidai, Shai speaks with Jonathan Greenblatt, CEO of the Anti-Defamation League (ADL), about antisemitism, Zionism, and the challenges facing the Jewish community after October 7. Greenblatt shares his personal Jewish story, including his family’s Holocaust and Iranian refugee background, and explains how his path through politics, tech, and entrepreneurship led him to lead one of America’s most prominent anti-hate organizations. Greenblatt breaks down what the ADL does to combat antisemitism and hate, including tracking extremist threats, training law enforcement, legal advocacy, and education initiatives. He also discusses why he argues “anti-Zionism is antisemitism,” how anti-Jewish hatred has evolved over time, and what Jewish institutions and leaders must change in response to today’s cultural and political climate. Guest: Jonathan Greenblatt Consider DONATING to help us continue and expand our media efforts. If you cannot at this time, please share this video with someone who might benefit from it. We thank you for your support! https://gofund.me/30c00151c [https://gofund.me/30c00151c] COMING SOON BUY MERCH! SUPPORT SHAI ON PATREON! https://www.patreon.com/shaidavidai/about?utm_source=campaign-search-results [https://www.patreon.com/shaidavidai/about?utm_source=campaign-search-results] 🔔 Subscribe now and never miss an episode 📢 Follow us on social media: Instagram: hereiamwithshaidavidai Tik Tok: hereiamwithshaidavidai / hereiamwithshaidavidai 🎧 Listen to the full episode on your favorite podcast platform: RSS: https://rss.com/podcasts/hereiamwithshaidavidai/ [https://rss.com/podcasts/hereiamwithshaidavidai/] Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/here-i-am-with-shai-davidai/id1757483524 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/here-i-am-with-shai-davidai/id1757483524] Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6pI03BMwAuQDbYIy4Zp6ah?si=2bd1c3f8a11c46cd [https://open.spotify.com/show/6pI03BMwAuQDbYIy4Zp6ah?si=2bd1c3f8a11c46cd] #HereIAm #HereIAmWithShaiDavidai #ShaiDavidai #JonathanGreenblatt #ADL #AntiDefamationLeague #JewishPodcast #PodcastEpisode #PodcastClips #JewishIdentity #WhatKindOfJewAreYou #ProudJew #Zionism #Zionist #JewishPride #JewishCommunity #JewishLeadership #JewishVoices #JewishEducation #HolocaustSurvivor #HolocaustEducation #NeverAgain #Antisemitism #StopAntisemitism #FightAntisemitism #AntisemitismAwareness #CombatHate #AntiHate #HateSpeech #Extremism #CounterExtremism #CivilRights #HumanRights #ProtectJewishLives #JewishSafety #CampusAntisemitism #Israel #ProIsrael #IsraelEducation #MiddleEast #IsraelPalestine #TwoStateSolution #JewishHistory #JewishResilience #Diaspora #AmericanJewry #ADLCEO #NonprofitLeadership #Leadership #MoralClarity #CulturalChange #SocialMedia #Section230 #AIandSociety #TechEthics #Disinformation #Propaganda #Democracy #CivicEngagement #HereIAmPodcast Credits: Producers: Shai Davidai, Abbie Sophia, Adamit Productions, Allison Fuller, Josh Tepper Filmed @ The CAVE Soundstage in Hackensack and edited by Adamit Productions Graphic by Shira Auman For sponsorship opportunities, please email achi@adamitproductions.com [achi@adamitproductions.com]