MON: Monday Over Negativity

Some People Around You Are Not On Your Side

15 min · 27. apr. 2026
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Not everyone around you is rooting for you—even if they smile in your face. In this episode of MON (Monday Over Negativity), we’re talking about fake friends, fake family, and the quiet ways people compete, project, and move around you without good intentions. This isn’t about becoming cold or cutting everyone off—it’s about becoming wiser. We break down the psychology behind projection, comparison, and why some people feel uncomfortable when you start winning. You’ll learn how to recognize fake energy, protect your peace, and move with discernment without losing who you are. If you’ve ever felt like something was “off” with someone around you… this episode will help you trust that feeling and move differently. Not colder. Just wiser. Still showing up counts. 🎙 New MON episodes every Monday YouTube & Instagram: @mondayovernegativity Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.thisismon.com⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.thisismon.com] Shop: ⁠⁠⁠www.shopmon.us [http://www.shopmon.us]

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