I Wasn't "Lazy", "Shy" or "Not Trying Hard Enough": Found Out Why at 25

My Son Speaks 4 Languages - People Still Call Him a Foreigner

Sometimes the biggest challenge isn't learning a language. It's finding where you belong. In this clip from #OldAsianLady, Marie Mestdagh shares the joys and challenges of raising a multilingual child in Taiwan. At just 2.5 years old, her son speaks French, English, Mandarin, and even some Taiwanese. But while language comes naturally, identity can be much more complicated. As a Bi-racial child growing up in Taiwan, he's still labeled "the foreign kid" despite being Taiwanese. For Marie, that raises deeper questions about belonging, culture, and how parents can help their children feel rooted in their own home.

How I Changed and Grew Alongside Taiwan Over 41 Years

Home isn't always where you're born. Sometimes it's the place that helps you become who you're meant to be. In this thoughtful conversation on #OldAsianLady, Karen Chung reflects on witnessing Taiwan's transformation from the late martial law era through democratization, cultural renewal, and modernization. Her personal theory is that she and Taiwan have been growing together all these years. The conversation explores belonging, history, aging, connection, and what it means to build a life in a place far from where you started.

Grew Up Chinese in Panama - I Wasn't a Hyphen

How many people spend their lives discovering: Who Am I? In this clip from #OldAsianLady, Jaime Cham reflects on growing up as a Spanish speaking 3rd-generation Chinese Panamanian, moving to the US and then working and living in Asia. He always thought of himself as Chinese—until he met Chinese people from other parts of the world. This is a thoughtful conversation about identity and raising his multicultural sons in an increasingly connected world.

At 24, I Bought a House…Then Worked 3 Jobs to Survive

What does survival mode actually look like? In this clip from #OldAsianLady, Sophie Lee opens up about burnout, financial pressure, and the years she spent pushing herself past her limits just to keep going. From working multiple jobs to breaking down crying in the street—this is a conversation about self-reliance, survival mode, and what happens when your entire life becomes work. Sometimes strength comes from believing nobody else will save you.

This Asian father chose a different way to love his children

What makes someone different from the generation or culture they grew up in? In this heartwarming clip from#OldAsianLady, Sterling Hsaio reflects on Aging, Independence and Parenting. While many Asian parents are known for being strict, controlling, or heavily focused on academic achievement, he chose a different approach. Perhaps influenced by his early love of English with Western ideas and his own unique personality—instead of expecting his children to fulfill his dreams, he believed they should have space to become themselves—even if their choices were completely different from what he imagined. Sometimes the most loving thing a parent can do… is letting go.