ON POINT with Atiba Teslim

Fear of loving again when the heartbreaks

5 min · 10. apr. 2026
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Love didn’t just leave… it changed you. In this episode of When The Heart Breaks on On Point with ATIBA TESLIM, we dive into the quiet fear that comes after heartbreak the fear of opening up again, of trusting again, of feeling too much… again. Because sometimes, it’s not that you don’t want love  it’s that you remember what it cost you the last time. This is for the ones who hesitate before getting close, who overthink every emotion, who protect their hearts even when they crave connection. Maybe you’re not broken. Maybe you’re just healing in a world that doesn’t always understand your pace. Press play… you might hear exactly what you’ve been feeling but couldn’t explain. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/on-point-with-atiba-teslim--6746895/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/on-point-with-atiba-teslim--6746895/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss].  I'm Atiba Teslim, and I promise you a conversation that's direct, unfiltered, and always… on point. Subscribe to On Point with Atiba Teslim wherever you get your podcasts. New episodes coming soon.

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