All Charm No Heart - when you only want what you can't have

HOW TO FEEL IT with Imale

Oh I had such a wonderful conversation with Imale all those months ago on Valentines day for the Live Podcast Recording at Queer Love Fest - I'm so excited for you to hear it! About Imale [https://www.instagram.com/nlovusensual/]: Before all the things I do, I am an expression of creation, an artist, a witness and a lover. An integrative counsellor with a background in sexual health and advocacy, Imale blends academic, experiential, and traditional practices to offer LGBTQIA+, kink and poly friendly affirmative care, through a range of products and services designed to support personal growth, emotional connection, sensual embodiment. Click here [https://www.instagram.com/queerloveco/?hl=en]to comment your emoji on the post for this episode Find the Links and events here - https://linktr.ee/queerloveco [https://linktr.ee/queerloveco] Fruit Salad Events Calendar - https://fruitsaladevents.co.uk/ [https://fruitsaladevents.co.uk/]

A QUEER MATCHMAKERS GUIDE TO HEARTBREAK

When I found myself devastatingly heartbroken last year, through the grief of it, I enjoyed the fact that at least it would probably make me better at my job, and now I have solidified my guide to heartbreak to share with anyone who really needs it right now CLICK HERE TO GET TICKETS TO QUEER DATING & HEDONISM - LIVE PODCAST WITH PRISHITA MAHESHWARI-ALPIN [https://www.outsavvy.com/event/35182/live-podcast-with-prishita-maheshwari-aplin] Click here [https://www.instagram.com/queerloveco/?hl=en]to comment your emoji on the post for this episode Click here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdie6LOWTtcDYAxxcLrLPvvWjAQ2lI_oAON6PsO5v1gwubfbw/viewform?usp=header] to submit a question/woe to be answered on the podcast Find the Links and events here - https://linktr.ee/queerloveco [https://linktr.ee/queerloveco] Fruit Salad Events Calendar - https://fruitsaladevents.co.uk/ [https://fruitsaladevents.co.uk/] Here is the PLAYLIST [https://open.qobuz.com/playlist/64094422] (or find the graphic on insta)

HEDONISM & DATING with Prishita Maheshwari-Aplin

Here we have a lovely conversation with Prishita about hedonism and dating, expecting more from ourselves and others in dating and being led into community and activism by pleasure. Prishita is a writer, editor, queer theorist and grassroots organiser exploring the transhistorical cultures and political realities of the queer community. Their essay/manifesto, Roses for Hedone: On Queer Hedonism and World-Making Through Pleasure (2025) reframes queer hedonism from a transient individualistic phenomenon to a collective and futuristic transformational energy. Previously Politics Editor at BRICKS Magazine, Prishita also sits on the Advisory Board of Split Banana. Their advocacy in pursuit of queer liberated futures, a Free Palestine and a dismantling of all oppressive structures is informed by their trans, migrant and multicultural identity. Tickets to the Live Podcast with Prishita [https://www.outsavvy.com/event/35182/live-podcast-with-prishita-maheshwari-aplin] Click here [https://www.instagram.com/queerloveco/?hl=en]to comment your emoji on the post for this episode Find the Links and events here - https://linktr.ee/queerloveco [https://linktr.ee/queerloveco] Fruit Salad Events Calendar - https://fruitsaladevents.co.uk/ [https://fruitsaladevents.co.uk/] Prishitas Book - Roses for Hedone [https://thecommonpress.shop/products/9781916637108?_pos=1&_psq=roses+for+hed&_ss=e&_v=1.0] (£7.50 - buy it while you can, its almost sold out!)

INTROVERTS DATING PARADOX

Here we have a classic paradox, when I am looking for love, I don't meet anyone, when I'm not looking, I get approached and don't know how to respond - Kim gives some insight on dealing with this classic dating paradox and some tips for smoother socializing Click here [https://www.instagram.com/queerloveco/?hl=en]to comment your emoji on the post for this episode Find the Links and events here - https://linktr.ee/queerloveco [https://linktr.ee/queerloveco] Fruit Salad Events Calendar - https://fruitsaladevents.co.uk/ [https://fruitsaladevents.co.uk/]

RUBY RARE

Recorded during Queer Love Fest on Valentines Day 2026; this is a conversation with Ruby Rare about fantasy, hooking up for the first time, body builders, fisting, the creative process and MORE! Find out more about Ruby and their work here [https://www.rubyrare.co.uk/] Find all the Queer Love Co links here [https://linktr.ee/queerloveco] Here are links for the things we mention: * Lady Fister Zine By Ruby Rare [https://www.instagram.com/p/DR4Per6iMZn/] * Contra Points video essay on Twilight [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bqloPw5wp48] * My Secret Garden, book by Nancy Friday [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/My_Secret_Garden] * Jodie Marsh's Body building era [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nvvttay9RI8] * Pumping Iron II: The Women [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3a5hCeOrLn4] * Unbound, By Kasia Urbaniak [https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/440433/unbound-by-kasia-urbaniak/9781785042881] * Kink Checklist [https://kinksheet.com/] * 3 Minute Game [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_KCzpNBNbVM] Ruby's Zine is available from The Common Press [https://www.commonpress.co.uk/], Gays the Word [https://www.gaystheword.co.uk/], Ram Books [https://share.google/ShVYgr5mJyeFhCFrM], or directly from them via email - enquiries@rubyrare.co.uk [enquiries@rubyrare.co.uk] So much love to Ruby and everyone who joined that day xxx