How to Build Wealth After the Military | Ep. 13

Dustin Turner: I Spent 31 Years in Prison for a Crime I Didn't Commit

In 1996, Navy SEAL recruit Dustin Turner’s life was altered forever. Following the horrific murder of Jennifer Evans, a crime committed by his fellow SEAL trainee, Billy Joe Brown, Dustin was convicted and sentenced to 82 years in prison. Despite maintaining his innocence regarding the murder itself and admitting only to aiding in hiding the body under the pressure of a misplaced "SEAL code," Dustin spent over three decades behind bars fighting for justice. In this special episode of RealTOC, host Cameron Hardin sits down with Dusty Turner for one of his most raw, detailed, and unfiltered interviews since his release. In this episode, we dive deep into: The Night of the Incident: Dustin’s first-hand account of the tragic events in Virginia Beach and the split-second decision that ruined his life. Systemic Failures: How false polygraph interpretations, military politics, and prosecutorial misconduct led to a wrongful conviction. Life Inside the System: Navigating three decades in maximum-security prisons, surviving prison culture, and finding solace through horticulture. The Reality of Parole: The ongoing struggle with probation, unexpected re-arrests, and re-traumatization after walking free. Looking Forward: Dustin’s mission to help wrongfully convicted veterans and rebuild a life that paused in the 1990s. Dustin’s story is a powerful testament to resilience, the flaws within our judicial system, and the fight for total vindication. Watch the full episode to hear the truth in his own words. Connect with RealTOC: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/] TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast] Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast] YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc] Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RealTOC.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.realtoc.com/] Nominate a veteran to be a RealTOC guest: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4bIczd7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4bIczd7] Find the Best Deals and Maximize Your Benefits: Veteran Auto Insurance Rates:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/lp/auto-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=auto_insurance]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6] Buy a Home with $0 Down (VA Loan):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/start/?desc=zerodown&src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_loans]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0] Compare Home Insurance Rates & Save:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/lp/home-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_insurance]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH] Top Credit Cards & Perks for Veterans:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/best-credit-cards-veterans/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=credit_cards]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4cY013P⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4cY013P] Support Veteran-Owned: 30% Off Black Rifle Coffee (Code: GET30):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2170331/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0] 30% Off BRCC Subscriptions (Code: COFFEE30):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2124191/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/3PglBqe⁠ [https://bit.ly/3PglBqe] #DustyTurner #WrongfulConviction #TrueCrime #NavySEAL

Navy SEAL: Sniper, Divorce, & How Baking Saved His Mental Health | RealTOC Ep 20

What happens when you mix sourdough science with military survival? In this episode of RealTOC, host Cameron Hardin sits down with Dick Johns, a former Navy SEAL and sniper instructor, for a raw conversation about transition, mental health, and... the perfect sourdough blueberry muffin. Before diving into the heavy stuff, Dick takes us into the kitchen to show us how he uses his sourdough discard (meet "Jason" the starter!) and a secret ingredient, sour cream, to bake the ultimate muffins. But baking is more than just a hobby for Dick; it is a lesson in delayed gratification and a therapeutic escape from the chaos of life. Back in the studio, the conversation gets incredibly real. Dick opens up about his 13 years in the SEAL teams, from the brutal realities of BUDS training (including a terrifying pool encounter with a "silverback gorilla" of an instructor) to multiple deployments in Iraq and Guam. He dives deep into the high divorce rates in the Special Forces community, his own transition into corporate tax work, and his deeply personal journey with therapy, sobriety, and learning to give himself grace. This episode is a powerful reminder that no matter how deep the struggle or how chaotic the transition, finding connection and sharing your story is the ultimate way to heal. Connect with RealTOC: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/] TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast] Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast] YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc] Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RealTOC.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.realtoc.com/] Connect with Dick Johns: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/richard-johns17/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/richard-johns17/] Nominate a veteran to be a RealTOC guest: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4bIczd7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4bIczd7] Find the Best Deals and Maximize Your Benefits: Veteran Auto Insurance Rates:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/lp/auto-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=auto_insurance]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6] Buy a Home with $0 Down (VA Loan):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/start/?desc=zerodown&src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_loans]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0] Compare Home Insurance Rates & Save:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/lp/home-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_insurance]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH] Top Credit Cards & Perks for Veterans:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/best-credit-cards-veterans/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=credit_cards]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4cY013P⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4cY013P] Support Veteran-Owned: 30% Off Black Rifle Coffee (Code: GET30):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2170331/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0] 30% Off BRCC Subscriptions (Code: COFFEE30):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2124191/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/3PglBqe [https://bit.ly/3PglBqe] Special thanks to Gunner Gear: https://gunnergear.com/ [https://gunnergear.com/] #NavySEAL #SourdoughBaking #MentalHealthMatters #veteranstories

From Artillery to Roofing Riches: A Veteran's Guide to Starting Over | RealTOC Ep 19

Join us as host Cameron Hardin steps onto a ladder and into the world of professional roofing with Zach Floyd, a former Army National Guard supply sergeant who traded mortar for shingles. From the perspective of a veteran with an unstoppable work ethic, Zach walks us through what it's really like to be a commercial roofer. Follow along as Zach demonstrates a "watered down" version of a roof inspection, pointing out everything from granule loss and ventilation failures to the damage caused by improper flashing and exposed nails. He shares his knowledge of standard materials vs. metal roofing and explains why proper maintenance is key. Then, Zach takes us back to his Middle Georgia roots, sharing hilarious and relatable stories about growing up in Jeffersonville, fighting with brothers, and the unique brand of "redneck entertainment" that built his immune system. He speaks candidly about his time as an artilleryman and supply sergeant in the 48th Brigade, his deployment to Afghanistan, and the life-altering injury that eventually led to his transition out of active guard service. Now, a 100% commission-based roofing sales specialist, Zach reveals why this career was the "best decision he ever made", from the freedom to be home with his kids to the rewarding feeling of fighting and winning for clients against insurance companies. This episode of RealTOC has it all: trade secrets, veteran stories, and the heart of a truly stubborn (in a good way) entrepreneur. Connect with RealTOC: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/] TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast] Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast] YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc] Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RealTOC.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.realtoc.com/] Connect with Zach Floyd: Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/zfloyd3⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/zfloyd3] Website: ⁠https://www.goroofingatl.com/⁠ [https://www.goroofingatl.com/] Nominate a veteran to be a RealTOC guest: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4bIczd7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4bIczd7] Find the Best Deals and Maximize Your Benefits: Veteran Auto Insurance Rates:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/lp/auto-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=auto_insurance]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6] Buy a Home with $0 Down (VA Loan):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/start/?desc=zerodown&src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_loans]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0] Compare Home Insurance Rates & Save:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/lp/home-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_insurance]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH] Top Credit Cards & Perks for Veterans:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/best-credit-cards-veterans/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=credit_cards]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4cY013P⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4cY013P] Support Veteran-Owned: 30% Off Black Rifle Coffee (Code: GET30):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2170331/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0] 30% Off BRCC Subscriptions (Code: COFFEE30):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2124191/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/3PglBqe [https://bit.ly/3PglBqe] #RoofingLife #VeteranEntrepreneur #VeteranStories

How an Army Sniper Found His Calling in Special Education | RealTOC Ep 18

In this episode of RealTOC, host Cameron Hardin sits down with Donny Rocci, a former U.S. Army sniper, veteran of the Iraq War surge, and dedicated special education administrator. We start the day on the water for some fishing before heading into the studio to dive deep into a journey defined by transition, identity, and service. Donny opens up about the grit required to lose 50 pounds just to enlist, the sharp cultural contrast between active duty and the reserves, and the "ripping off the Band-Aid" reality of transitioning from a 15-month combat tour to a college classroom in just weeks. He shares the honest struggles of losing one’s identity after leaving a specialized unit and the dark periods of wandering that many veterans face when the mission suddenly disappears. The heart of Donny’s story lies in his "accidental" discovery of special education. He reflects on how working with students with autism gave him a renewed sense of purpose that rivaled his time in the military. As he prepares for a new chapter in Colorado, Donny discusses the importance of vulnerability, the power of mentorship, and why fulfillment is the ultimate key to happiness. We are also joined by his son, Ryan, as they look forward to their family’s next big adventure. Connect with RealTOC: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/] TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast] Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast] YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc] Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RealTOC.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.realtoc.com/] Connect with Donny Rocci: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/donaldrocci [https://www.facebook.com/donaldrocci] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/donny-rocci-60bb795a/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/donny-rocci-60bb795a/] Nominate a veteran to be a RealTOC guest: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4bIczd7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4bIczd7] Find the Best Deals and Maximize Your Benefits: Veteran Auto Insurance Rates:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/lp/auto-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=auto_insurance]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6] Buy a Home with $0 Down (VA Loan):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/start/?desc=zerodown&src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_loans]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0] Compare Home Insurance Rates & Save:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/lp/home-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_insurance]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH] Top Credit Cards & Perks for Veterans:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/best-credit-cards-veterans/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=credit_cards]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4cY013P⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4cY013P] Support Veteran-Owned: 30% Off Black Rifle Coffee (Code: GET30):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2170331/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0] 30% Off BRCC Subscriptions (Code: COFFEE30):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2124191/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/3PglBqe [https://bit.ly/3PglBqe] #VeteranStories #ArmySniper #SpecialEducation

Masculinity, Fatherhood, Balance & Surviving Transition | RealTOC Ep 17

In this episode of RealTOC, host Cameron Hardin sits down with Ben Hammond for a raw and honest conversation that goes far beyond the bike trails of Blankets Creek Trail in Georgia. Ben opens up about his journey from serving in the military to transitioning into civilian life, a path marked by challenges, introspection, and the pursuit of true purpose. We dive deep into the essential, often-overlooked topics of modern masculinity and what it truly means to be a "competent man" in today’s society. Ben shares his personal experiences with fatherhood, the importance of faith in navigating life’s toughest transitions, and how he uses his passions, like mountain biking, as a necessary mental reset. This episode isn’t just about gear or trails; it’s about the struggle to find balance, the necessity of silence in a distracted world, and the intentional effort required to raise the next generation of leaders. Whether you're a veteran seeking connection, a father looking for guidance, or someone simply trying to navigate the complexities of life with faith and resilience, this conversation offers a profound perspective. Ben’s story is a powerful reminder that our past struggles don’t define us; they shape us into who we are becoming. Join us as we explore what it means to lead well, love intentionally, and remain grounded through it all. Connect with RealTOC: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/realtocpodcast/] TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@realtocpodcast] Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/realtocpodcast] YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@realtoc] Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RealTOC.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.realtoc.com/] Connect with Ben Hammond: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ben-hammond-bab74b189/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/ben-hammond-bab74b189/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BenBlock15 [https://www.facebook.com/BenBlock15] Nominate a veteran to be a RealTOC guest: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4bIczd7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4bIczd7] Find the Best Deals and Maximize Your Benefits: Veteran Auto Insurance Rates:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/lp/auto-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=auto_insurance]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4rCwuA6] Buy a Home with $0 Down (VA Loan):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/start/?desc=zerodown&src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_loans]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4bi5pO0] Compare Home Insurance Rates & Save:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/lp/home-insurance/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=home_insurance]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/3PfSFyH] Top Credit Cards & Perks for Veterans:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://veteran.com/best-credit-cards-veterans/?src=realtoc&adg=podcast&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=realtoc&utm_content=credit_cards]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4cY013P⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4cY013P] Support Veteran-Owned: 30% Off Black Rifle Coffee (Code: GET30):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2170331/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bit.ly/4sNxNx0] 30% Off BRCC Subscriptions (Code: COFFEE30):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://blackriflecoffeecompany.pxf.io/c/2958094/2124191/20131?partnerpropertyid=3239244?subId1=realtoc&sharedid=realtoc]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/3PglBqe [https://bit.ly/3PglBqe] #Masculinity #Fatherhood #VeteranStories