Nothing Bad Happens To Good People. And Other Lies We Tell Ourselves

How To Stay Positive Without Toxic Positivity (From Someone Who's Tested It)

Beth found out her brain tumour had grown back on a dog walk. Here's how she stayed positive. Not a motivational speech. Not toxic positivity. Just a very honest conversation about what it actually takes to keep your head straight when life keeps throwing things at you that you didn't ask for. In this episode of Reset with Beth, Beth answers the question she gets asked most. How do you stay so positive? And the answer is practical, specific and completely free of fluff. In this episode: Why pragmatic optimism is completely different from toxic positivity The moment Beth found out her tumour had grown back and how she processed it The control bubble and why your beliefs, thoughts and reactions are always yours Brain dumping at 3am and why you never need to read it back Meditation for an ADHD brain that refuses to go quiet The cars on the bridge analogy that changes how you handle dark thoughts Why negativity is boring and how to stop letting it into your world Short, honest episodes for women who want practical tools, not platitudes. Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Email: beth@resetwithbeth.co.uk Website: www.resetwithbeth.co.uk Instagram @reset_with_beth

Be Kind To Yourself: The Language You Use Is Shaping Your Life

The words you say about yourself, you say so many more times inside your own head. Are they kind ones? Beth has made "I'm terrible with tech" her personal truth for years. She said it so often, to so many people, that it became a narrative everyone believed, including her. And it kept a podcast kit in a box for four years. In this episode she talks about the language we use towards ourselves, how a throwaway joke or a self-deprecating comment becomes a belief, and why the way we speak to ourselves matters more than almost anything else when life gets difficult. She also reads another blog post written in the days before her craniotomy. Not about fear or uncertainty this time, but about kindness. The healthcare assistant with the enormous knockers and the Geordie accent. The 84-year-old woman who hobbled over to hold her hand. The taxi driver who looked up brain food on Dr Google while he waited three hours in a car park. Build the toolkit before you need it. This episode is part of the toolkit. Would you speak to your best friend the way you speak to yourself? This one's worth sitting with. Email: ⁠⁠beth@resetwithbeth.co.uk⁠⁠  Website: ⁠⁠resetwithbeth.co.uk⁠⁠ Instagram: @reset_with_beth

The Loneliness Nobody Talks About: When You're Surrounded By People But Still Alone

You don't have to be isolated to feel lonely. Sometimes it hits hardest when everyone else seems to be getting on just fine without you. Beth is an extrovert with a great support network and a lot of people around her. She never expected to feel lonely. And then she found herself eating a Sunday roast alone in her kitchen, her girls watching telly in the other room, and it hit her like a wall. In this episode Beth talks honestly about the loneliness that doesn't look like loneliness from the outside. The kind that comes after a divorce, after a health crisis, after the calls stop and the weekends empty out and everyone else disappears back into their neat little family units. And then she gets practical. Because loneliness breeds more loneliness unless you take action. What she actually did about it, why Sunday brunches changed everything, and why most people aren't ignoring you. They're just waiting to be asked. Email: ⁠⁠beth@resetwithbeth.co.uk⁠⁠  Website: ⁠⁠resetwithbeth.co.uk⁠⁠ Instagram: @reset_with_beth

What Not To Say To Someone With A Brain Tumour (And What To Say Instead)

What Not To Say To Someone With A Brain Tumour (And What To Say Instead) "At least it's not cancer." "Could be worse." "You'll be fine." Please. Stop. When someone is going through something really difficult, most people mean well. They really do. But meaning well and saying the right thing are two very different things. In this episode Beth shares the things people actually said to her after her brain tumour diagnosis. From the woman in aisle three of Tesco who hadn't been in touch for years, to the person who cheerfully mentioned their friend with a brain tumour died. All well-meaning. All spectacularly unhelpful. But this episode isn't just about what not to say. Beth gets into the practical how-tos of actually showing up for someone going through something hard. The phrases that open a door instead of closing one. Why saying "I don't know what to say" is one of the most powerful things you can offer. And why fixing, reassuring and shutting things down is the one thing people need least. We all deserve to know what to say in difficult times. This episode will help. Email: ⁠⁠beth@resetwithbeth.co.uk⁠⁠  Website: ⁠⁠resetwithbeth.co.uk⁠⁠ Instagram: @reset_with_beth

How To Handle Uncertainty When You Can't Control The Outcome

You don't need to control everything. You just need to control your bubble. Uncertainty is uncomfortable. Not knowing what's coming, not being able to plan, not having the answers. For women who are used to holding it all together, that feeling can be completely destabilising. In this episode Beth talks openly about living with uncertainty, including what it's actually like to be on watch and wait with a brain tumour that has regrown. Not knowing if anything will happen. Not knowing when. Just waiting. She shares the tools that genuinely help, including the bubble of control concept she uses with her clients every day. Your beliefs, your thoughts, your reactions. That's your bubble. Nobody gets in, and you don't need to reach outside it either. Because you can't always change the destination. But you can absolutely choose your experience of the journey. It's okay not to have all the answers. This episode will remind you why. Email: ⁠⁠beth@resetwithbeth.co.uk⁠⁠  Website: ⁠⁠resetwithbeth.co.uk⁠⁠ Instagram: @reset_with_beth