The Real Cost of Always Being Right

Make Time to Think

This week on Still Here, Still Trying, Mike records a quick road episode from his hotel room in Carlisle, Pennsylvania while attending the U.S. Army War College. This one is intentionally simple. No studio setup, no Mira intro, no closing song, no extra polish. Just a portable mic, bad hotel lighting, and a few thoughts worth capturing while they are still fresh. After a week surrounded by military leaders, civilian leaders, professors, strategists, and people thinking deeply about complex problems, Mike reflects on what he is bringing home. This is not about turning healthcare into the Army or forcing military language onto everyday leadership. It is about the lessons that translate: flip the map, understand what is happening close to the ground, be honest about ends, ways, and means, watch for bad starting points, and make time to think before moving too fast. Mike connects those War College lessons back to Heritage Health, healthcare leadership, the Human First books, AI, women’s pain, complex adaptive problems, and the ongoing work of keeping the human being at the center of the decision. The Human First books release June 30, and the early interest has been amazing. Mike takes a moment to say thank you for the messages, encouragement, and support. These books are deeply personal, and knowing people are already connecting with the work means a lot. Sometimes the work does not need polish. Sometimes it just needs to be said while it is still alive.

When the House Gets Full, Then Quiet Again

This week on Still Here, Still Trying, Mike talks about the kind of week that makes life feel full, beautiful, hard, and a little too fast. After a few episodes focused on the upcoming Human First books, this one brings the question home. Sammie graduated. The family went to the Oregon Coast. Jacob was there, recently moved to Moscow and building his electrical company. Cameron was home before heading back to New Zealand. Kellie was happy having all three kids together. And then, after all that noise and love, the house got quiet again. This episode is about parenting adult kids, being proud while still feeling the ache of change, loving your spouse through the life you built together, missing the people who should still be here, and trying to stay present while everything keeps moving. Mike also talks about finishing the Human First books, releasing June 30, and why this work has been healing. These books have pieces of his soul in them, and this week reminded him where they came from: family, grief, love, healthcare, ADHD, hope, and the need to make something useful out of the life we are given. The episode closes with a new unreleased song Mike built for this moment, “All of This Is Us.” It was written after the Oregon Coast trip, while the feelings were still fresh: the joy, the leaving, the pride, the missing, the quiet after everyone goes, and the love that still fills the house. Learn more about Mike’s books, music, and creative work at: https://www.mikebakerhq.com PreOrder Books Here: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Michael-Baker/author/B0F66J8Q6M?ref=ap_rdr&shoppingPortalEnabled=true&ccs_id=9d6c4ebb-33e7-485f-adca-d0630da90659

Nine Books, One Question: Are We Still Human?

This week on Still Here, Still Trying, I’m pulling the camera back on the full Human First book series, releasing June 30. Last week, we started with Believe Her the First Time and the question at the heart of that book: when a woman says her body hurts, do we believe her before she has to prove it? This week, I’m walking through the bigger body of work behind the series and the question underneath all nine books: are we still human? This episode is about the creative burst that followed The Optimist’s Way, the way my ADHD brain moves at night after long workdays, and how AI tools helped me manage the storm without replacing the heart of the work. These books were not written by pushing a button and letting AI spit out something empty. They came from my family, my work, my marriage, my kids, my grief, my hope, my mistakes, my leadership, my creativity, and the rooms I have actually stood in. AI helped me organize the chaos. The soul of the work is mine. I also take a moment to congratulate Sammie on graduating this weekend. Last week’s episode started with her hand in mine. This week, I get to celebrate her walking across a stage, and I could not be prouder of who she is becoming. The Human First series moves through women’s pain, menopause, women leading, men growing up, ADHD, AI, daily survival, hope, leadership, creativity, and the future we are building. The topics are different, but the thread is the same: start with the human being. The episode closes with my song “The Man They Think I Am,” because underneath the books, the work, the leadership, and the creative output is a very human story about trying to become the person people need you to be while still being honest about the quiet fight inside. Find the Human First books and Kindle preorders on my Amazon author page: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Michael-Baker/author/B0F66J8Q6M?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_w=y90pG&content-id=amzn1.sym.7e190e19-9f6f-4df8-807a-5a7608594741&pd_rd_wg=ZP25J&pd_rd_r=9b2095db-12a0-4d34-a37d-362d9fc8b331&ref=ap_rdr&shoppingPortalEnabled=true Learn more at www.mikebakerhq.com.

Human First: Believe Her the First Time

Human First: Believe Her the First Time The first book in the Human First series starts with women’s pain, endometriosis, and what love does when belief becomes action. The Human First book series releases July 1, and this episode kicks off the run by going straight to the heart of the first book: Believe Her the First Time: A Father’s Guide to Endometriosis, Pain, and Showing Up When It Matters. Since writing The Optimist’s Way, Mike has been building a new series of books mostly at night, after long and busy workdays, when the house gets quiet and the creative part of his brain still has something to say. These new books grew out of real life: family, healthcare, leadership, ADHD, creativity, AI, women’s health, and the question underneath all of it: what happens when we put the human being back at the center? This first episode begins with women’s pain because that is one of the places where we have failed the Human First test for too long. Mike talks about endometriosis, medical dismissal, fatherhood, marriage, healthcare, and the responsibility men carry when someone they love is hurting. The story starts with his daughter’s hand in his and grows into the deeper message behind the book: belief has to become behavior. This episode is for women who have had to prove pain that should have been taken seriously sooner. It is for dads, husbands, partners, sons, brothers, friends, and healthcare leaders who want to love better, listen sooner, and become more useful when pain changes the room. The episode closes with Mike’s song “Hope in Slow Motion,” a quiet reminder that healing often moves slower than we want, and slow hope still counts. The Human First book series releases July 1. Listen over the next few weeks for sneak peeks, stories behind the books, and giveaways connected to the series. Learn more at www.mikebakerhq.com.

What Are We Doing With the Life We Still Have?

What Are We Doing With the Life We Still Have? Memorial Day, hockey, family, and the ordinary joy we almost miss Episode 51 of Still Here, Still Trying starts at the rink and moves into something much deeper. After a weekend playing in the Inland Northwest Girls Hockey Foundation tournament, Mike Baker reflects on hockey, Memorial Day, family, growing up, grief, gratitude, and the life we still get to live. He played on two teams, shared the ice with his son Jacob, watched girls he has known around the rink for years step into adulthood, and found himself thinking about how fast everybody grows up. The weekend was funny, sore, joyful, and full of life. Then Memorial Day brought the weight. Mike talks about missing his mom, thanking his dad for serving, remembering his grandpas who served in wars and came home, and honoring the families whose loved ones did not. This episode asks a question that cuts through the noise: if we are still here, what are we doing with the life still in our hands? This is a Memorial Day episode, but it is also a reminder to stop sleepwalking through the ordinary moments that matter most. The game. The laugh. The phone call. The drive home. The kids growing up. The parent you wish you could call. The people who served. The people who never came home. The joy we still get to carry. Mike closes the episode with a separate PS segment about his new song, “Don’t Lose Your Smile,” his first fully original song built from scratch. The song began downstairs at the Alaska terminal in the Boise airport while Mike was playing his little Martin travel guitar and talking with Jacob, who was traveling in Portugal. A simple line from that call became the heart of the song. Listen if you need a reminder to stay present, love your people out loud, and stop wasting the life you still get to live. Question for the comments: What ordinary moment are you trying not to rush past right now?