Tales From a Sex Store

Q&A 02 With Hazel and Billy

The hosts reconnect and catch up, discussing social norms in sex stores, toy cleaning and sterilization, attitudes towards sex toys, encounters outside the sex store, dealing with recognized individuals, propositions and uncomfortable encounters, and handling uncomfortable situations. They emphasize the importance of creating a safe and comfortable environment for customers and employees, and share insights on addressing uncomfortable encounters with grace and professionalism. The conversation covers various themes related to the operation of a sex store, including the store's name on bank statements, product knowledge, in-person shopping experience, handling used sex toys, the hiring process, sexual health and wellness training, comfort and normalcy in a sex store, skills for being a good lover, and evolution and growth. Takeaways * Social norms in sex stores differ for men and women. * Attitudes towards sex toys should be positive and shame-free. In-person shopping experience is crucial for selecting sex toys. * Training for sex store employees includes sexual health and wellness certification. Chapters * 00:00 Reconnecting and Catching Up * 02:25 Do I need toy cleaner - elaboration * 05:24 How do we deal when seeing customers in public? * 08:49 How do you deal with people you know outside of work when they come into the store? * 12:13 Do you ever get propositioned? * 14:04 What's your most uncomfortable encounter? * 16:36 Does a sex shop show up on my bank statement? * 18:25 How well do you know the products? * 21:44 What do you do with old sex toys? * 24:03 What is the hiring process like? * 26:14 Training for sensitivity and inclusivity * 28:25 Creating comfort in a sex store environment * 32:06 Closing

Q&A 01 With Hazel

The conversation covers the diverse customer base of sex stores, the approachable atmosphere, product exploration, customer interactions, and advice for first-time visitors. It emphasizes the importance of creating a welcoming and inclusive environment for all customers, regardless of their background or experience. Takeaways * Diverse Customer Base * Approachable Atmosphere Chapters * 00:00 Welcome to the World of Sex Shops * 00:38 What types of people come in? * 03:51 What if I don't know what I want? * 05:32 How should I talk about what I want? * 06:12 What are some interesting products? * 07:37 What are some interesting questions you get? * 08:44 Can I touch the products? * 09:40 Do I need toy cleaner? * 10:34 Is it a good place to meet a hookup or pick someone up? * 11:43 Can people return used toys? * 12:27 I'm embarrassed. When is the best time to visit? * 13:34 How should I act? * 14:23 What do you carry? * 15:27 How do you deal with customers who make other customers uncomfortable? * 16:04 What do you recommend for a first toy? * 17:05 What do I need to know before going in? * 20:03 Contact information and closing.

An Interview With Hannah Wilson, the Foundress of the Oh Hi Collective

The conversation delves into the founding and expansion of the Oh Hi Collective, the cultivation of mental health and authenticity, the negotiation of boundaries and rejection sensitivity, and the importance of embracing expansiveness in communication and consent. It considers embracing the expansive responses "yes and" or "no and" and advocates for a more inclusive and open approach to sexual expression. It also highlights the impact of societal norms on sexual education, consent, and the need for age-appropriate sex education. The conversation delves into the themes of compersion, joy, and pleasure, as well as the normalization of conversations around sexuality and pleasure. It explores the rebellion of finding joy despite efforts to ruin it, the importance of sitting in discomfort, and the need to overcome scarcity and judgment in society. Takeaways * Healthy Sexuality * Sex Therapy * Boundaries and Rejection Sensitivity Embracing expansiveness * Challenging societal norms * Joy and Pleasure * Normalization of Conversations Chapters * 00:00 Introduction and Oh Hi Collective * 08:59 Cultivating Mental Health and Authenticity * 18:12 The Power of Boundaries and Rejection Sensitivity * 28:01 Negotiating Boundaries and Healthy Sexuality * 33:50 Embracing Expansiveness in Communication and Consent * 01:00:27 Overcoming Scarcity and Judgment Discussion Links * Oh Hi Collective [https://www.ohhicollective.com] * Dr. Phronsie Sprenger, PhD, LCSW, CST-S [https://bigskysextherapy.com] * Shannon Sepulveda, DPT, PLLC [https://www.bozemanpt.com] Women's Health and Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy [https://www.bozemanpt.com] * Alok [https://alokvmenon.com/] * Jaiya [https://missjaiya.com] * Dr. Patti Britton [https://drpattibritton.com] * BridgerCare [https://www.bridgercare.org] * Blue Mountain Clinic [https://www.bluemountainclinic.org] * Brené Brown [https://brenebrown.com/] * Marc Brackett Ph.D. [https://marcbrackett.com] * Audre Lorde [https://nmaahc.si.edu/audre-lorde]

How Normalizing Sexual Curiosity Can Break Shame and Empower Confidence

The conversation covers a wide range of topics related to sexuality, sex toys, shame, and societal norms. It also delves into the history of sex toys and the evolution of societal attitudes towards sexuality. The hosts share personal experiences and insights, creating a safe and open space for discussing intimate topics. Takeaways * Sexuality is diverse and multifaceted * Shame and societal norms impact sexual expression Chapters * 00:00 Exploring Sex Toys and Conversations * 05:16 Shame and Societal Attitudes * 18:10 Historical Evolution of Sex Toys * 23:37 Creating Comfort in a Sex Store Links * Body Rituals Among the Nacirema [https://www.sfu.ca/~palys/Miner-1956-BodyRitualAmongTheNacirema.pdf] * don Miguel Ruiz - The Four Agreements [https://www.miguelruiz.com/the-four-agreements/] * Chainsaws [https://www.sciencefocus.com/science/why-was-the-chainsaw-invented] * 28,000 Year Old Dildo [https://www.ancient-origins.net/weird-facts/dildo-0018150] * Oh Hi Collective [https://www.ohhicollective.com]

The Playful Power of Toy Demonstrations That Spark Imagination and Bonding in Adult Stores

The conversation delves into the world of sexual wellness, pleasure, and exploration, sharing stories from the sex store and discussing the evolution of sex toys and technology. It also explores the concept of joy, democratizing orgasm, and the impact of virginity on sexuality. The episode ends with a discussion on future conversations and mental hugs, emphasizing the gentle and joyful nature of the topics discussed. Takeaways * Sexual wellness and pleasure * Exploring new sexual experiences Chapters * 00:00 Introduction and Morning Banter * 05:09 E-Stim Toys and the Perception of Bondage * 10:20 The Playful and Joyful Nature of Sex Toys * 16:30 Future Conversations and Mental Hugs Links Erotique's Next Top Sex Toy! Want a free sex toy in exchange for a review? Write in to us at TFASS@ErotiqueStyle.com [TFASS@ErotiqueStyle.com] Find out more on our IG @erotiquebzn [https://www.instagram.com/erotiquebzn/]