#22 Integrating Deep Listening & Speaking from the Heart into your Classroom & Life
👂 When was the last time you felt truly heard? Not just listened to… but understood.
👄 What would change in your conversations if you spoke not to respond… but to care?
👁️And what if the most powerful thing you could give your students… was your full attention?
In this episode, Betina and Stacy explore deep listening and speaking from the heart — two simple practices that can transform your classroom, your relationships, and the way people feel around you.
As part of their signature training, 7 Proven Techniques to Introduce Mindfulness in the Classroom, Betina and Stacy share two additional practices inspired by the books Happy Teachers Change the World and You Are One of Us, among other literature, and based on their own practices as coaches and meditation leaders.
Through a guided visualization, real classroom stories, and practical techniques, they show how slowing down, listening with intention, and choosing words carefully can create more compassionate, engaging, and human-centered learning environments — all in an eye-opening and entertaining way, even featuring audio moments from Wayne’s World and Four Weddings and a Funeral to bring the message to life.
• Guided practice: “Listen with your elbows” to build awareness and presence • Deep listening = being fully present, not planning your response • Simple tools: mirroring and asking for clarification • Why people seek AI to feel heard (no judgment, no interruption) • Speaking from the heart creates trust, safety, and connection • The Three-Gate Practice: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? • Real classroom moment: responding with empathy instead of reaction • Teaching polite, respectful communication in ESL settings • The power of kind words in shaping student confidence • Weekly challenge: keep a Kindness Record
* Watch Wayne’s world extract: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8aXqgoiVb8E [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8aXqgoiVb8E]
* Watch Four Weddings and a Funeral’s extract: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2PubPWuEQp8 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2PubPWuEQp8]
* Book 1: Happy Teachers Change the World, A Guide for Cultivating Mindfulness in Education [https://www.amazon.com/Happy-Teachers-Change-World-Cultivating/dp/1941529631]
* Book 2: You're One of Us!: Systemic Insights and Solutions for Teachers, Students and Parents [https://www.amazon.com/Youre-One-Us-Systemic-Solutions-ebook/dp/B0B7275X8V/ref=sr_1_1?crid=323PNE5V11XY6&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.inLhwjhy2NItMuSK15UZDw.FN38tNgYymdzSnHT6FXkyvZNo8i9T4QMmpYs7qNQ6kM&dib_tag=se&keywords=you+are+one+of+us+marianne+franke&qid=1777926853&s=books&sprefix=you+are+one+of+us+marianne+franke%2Cstripbooks%2C125&sr=1-1]
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