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Exhausted in Midlife? Why Trying Harder Makes It Worse

50 min ยท 2. juni 2026
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You're exhausted, you're doing everything right, and nothing is working. That's not a character flaw. It's information your body is trying to give you. Host Stacey Chillemi sits down with Elisa Kosonen โ€” Registered Holistic Nutritionist, Certified Health Coach, and founder of 14 Carrots โ€” a nutrition practice built specifically for women in midlife who are done being told their labs are fine. You'll learn: ๐Ÿ”ฅ Why burnout disguises itself as ambition ๐ŸŒ€ What perimenopause does to your energy, sleep & blood sugar ๐Ÿ˜ด Why the strategies that worked in your 30s have stopped working ๐Ÿง  The invisible load women carry โ€” and how it shows up physically ๐Ÿฅ• What the 14 Carrots Method looks like in a real woman's real week โœจ The single most important shift to make right now Midlife is a recalibration โ€” not a decline. And when you give your body what it actually needs, something remarkable happens: you come back to yourself. โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€ CONNECT WITH ELISA KOSONEN: ๐ŸŒ Website: https://www.fourteencarrots.com/podcast [https://www.fourteencarrots.com/podcast] ๐Ÿ“ธ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/14carrotsmethod/ [https://www.instagram.com/14carrotsmethod/] ๐Ÿ’ผ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elisa-kosonen/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/elisa-kosonen/] ๐Ÿ“š Free Guide: Perimenopause Energy Foundations โ†’ fourteencarrots.com โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€โ”€ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

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